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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If u never messaged certain people would they ever message u
Are some people just waiting for other people to message them and never instigate a first message. I know the ladies get a large volume of messages but what if we didn't would we bother messaging certain guys or do we sit there and wait for it to come to us |
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By *itreMan
over a year ago
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Well, Sweetkinky, you wouldn't want to be sitting waiting for a message from me! Often tried to mail you, but am outside your age range and not allowed!! Lol..
This is cool..at least I got to say hello to you anyway |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well, Sweetkinky, you wouldn't want to be sitting waiting for a message from me! Often tried to mail you, but am outside your age range and not allowed!! Lol..
This is cool..at least I got to say hello to you anyway"
Lol sorry _itre I have my filters locked down pretty tight I'm afraid I wouldn't be able to mentally deal with the volume of messages if I were to open those floodgates even a crack. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It stands to reason women get more mail.
Ratio of men to women ain't actually even
I would have a few people keep in contact with regularly. I think it should be a two way thing if you gonna talk everyday don't wait to see who's gonna mail first.
If the connection is there than they are gonna mail and you will mail them.
If not than there is not connection . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have often thought if I hadn't mailed you would you have mailed me (not OP personally) although there have been profiles iv seen ewere iv thiught hmmm no I don't think I'd b their type but they did mail and we did meet and we had a blast with many a repeat, thankfully parties meet and greets along with word of mouth tells us exactly what ppl are like helps us not to message the nutjobs etc and keep our mails for the couples, fems, and males who have excellent reccomendations  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've often resisted messaging because I actually do read profiles and so generally don't if its obvious I don't meet the criteria..lol..but then sometimes someone says or posts somethin very funny and I break the rules thinkin we might get on even if its just for chattin....but I would say it does appear to be fairly one sided, tis as rare as sex on fab to have a lady start the balls rollin...lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've often resisted messaging because I actually do read profiles and so generally don't if its obvious I don't meet the criteria..lol..but then sometimes someone says or posts somethin very funny and I break the rules thinkin we might get on even if its just for chattin....but I would say it does appear to be fairly one sided, tis as rare as sex on fab to have a lady start the balls rollin...lol "
On several occasions I have actually messaged a guy and I have had some ver memorable meets as a result of takin the initiative but I do still wonder if the particular guy would have messaged me if I hadn't done and tbh he probably wouldn't have |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never approached a male on here first.
It takes me sometimes that long to get through and reply to the mails I get that all my time is just mail, hardly ever get into chat.
I don't research the profiles, I do occasionally look at profiles of people I see on the forums especially if they are funny or have a nice pic.
So maybe I don't know what I'm missing...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've never approached a male on here first.
It takes me sometimes that long to get through and reply to the mails I get that all my time is just mail, hardly ever get into chat.
I don't research the profiles, I do occasionally look at profiles of people I see on the forums especially if they are funny or have a nice pic.
So maybe I don't know what I'm missing...
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Lol exactly how I have approached said males is by noticing them on forums or status lol |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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As a single male I have found its best to wait to be approached as there are so many males so many filters people use any contact that has being made seem to spring a meet or a friend maybe I am protecting my self from rejection not it works for me on the odd occasion I have instigated contact being polite and respectful usually gets results and as U say engaging in the fourms and chat brings contact from peeps U probably would never think of contacting and I am delighted that means contact from all kinds of peeps small,large,tall,short,fem,male,bi,gay,st8black,white,yellow,and red it takes all kinds to make this place work.
I think I need to take my meds |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As a single male I have found its best to wait to be approached as there are so many males so many filters people use any contact that has being made seem to spring a meet or a friend maybe I am protecting my self from rejection not it works for me on the odd occasion I have instigated contact being polite and respectful usually gets results and as U say engaging in the fourms and chat brings contact from peeps U probably would never think of contacting and I am delighted that means contact from all kinds of peeps small,large,tall,short,fem,male,bi,gay,st8black,white,yellow,and red it takes all kinds to make this place work.
I think I need to take my meds "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a single male I have found its best to wait to be approached as there are so many males so many filters people use any contact that has being made seem to spring a meet or a friend maybe I am protecting my self from rejection not it works for me on the odd occasion I have instigated contact being polite and respectful usually gets results and as U say engaging in the fourms and chat brings contact from peeps U probably would never think of contacting and I am delighted that means contact from all kinds of peeps small,large,tall,short,fem,male,bi,gay,st8black,white,yellow,and red it takes all kinds to make this place work.
I think I need to take my meds "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I message a few but I really get annoyed when U don't receive a reply even a sorry no thanks  "
Pmsl this sounds very familiar I'm sorry but isn't that exactly what the guys are always whingeing about hahaha see both sexes are guilty!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a single male I have found its best to wait to be approached as there are so many males so many filters people use any contact that has being made seem to spring a meet or a friend maybe I am protecting my self from rejection not it works for me on the odd occasion I have instigated contact being polite and respectful usually gets results and as U say engaging in the fourms and chat brings contact from peeps U probably would never think of contacting and I am delighted that means contact from all kinds of peeps small,large,tall,short,fem,male,bi,gay,st8black,white,yellow,and red it takes all kinds to make this place work.
I think I need to take my meds "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always read profiles and if i don't think i'm what their looking for i don't mail. I'm not into the whole throw shit at the wall and see what sticks.
Saying that i've had the pleasure of a woman or two mailing me rather then i mailing them and it has led to some very kinky and sweet meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always read profiles and if i don't think i'm what their looking for i don't mail. I'm not into the whole throw shit at the wall and see what sticks.
Saying that i've had the pleasure of a woman or two mailing me rather then i mailing them and it has led to some very kinky and sweet meets "
Lol very funny jsdd!!! Not very subtle tho!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always read profiles and if i don't think i'm what their looking for i don't mail. I'm not into the whole throw shit at the wall and see what sticks.
Saying that i've had the pleasure of a woman or two mailing me rather then i mailing them and it has led to some very kinky and sweet meets "
Lmao, nice move I like that one!
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