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First Man and Nervous

By *andiLicious OP TV/TS over a year ago

City

I'm looking for my first Man to have sex with and I'm a little nervous. Can anyone who experienced this too share some advice to ease the nerves?

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By *huCullainMan over a year ago

Rathowen

Looking at your pics I can't see you having any problems.

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By *rRiosMan over a year ago

dublin

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By *orYourThighsOnlyMan over a year ago

Midlands

Vodka!

Go for a drink first. See how it clicks. Few laughs few more drinks to put ye both at ease and see where it takes ye.

If you don’t have nerves - then your pulse has flatlined

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By *heBlowinsCouple over a year ago

West Cork

"I'm looking for my first Man to have sex with and I'm a little nervous. Can anyone who experienced this too share some advice to ease the nerves? "

Accept the nerves - ride the wave

Once you start, lust takes over (hopefully you're into it).

Talk about things first.. boundaries, desires, safe words, etc.. If a guy isn't willing to communicate and reassure, don't get with him. There are length of good guys out there.

For me (Mr), it helped to have my wife there- are you looking for a solo or would a bi couple experience be appealing?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't involve alcohol. Too easy to drink too much and do something you might regret.

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By *reative ideasMan over a year ago

Next door

"I wouldn't involve alcohol. Too easy to drink too much and do something you might regret.

Good point,I wonder how you would go about it!

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By *arper8000Man over a year ago

cork

"Accept the nerves - ride the wave

Once you start, lust takes over (hopefully you're into it).

Talk about things first.. boundaries, desires, safe words, etc.. If a guy isn't willing to communicate and reassure, don't get with him. There are length of good guys out there.

For me (Mr), it helped to have my wife there- are you looking for a solo or would a bi couple experience be appealing?"

totally agree with this one, my first time was with a couple too and it definitely added to the occasion having a woman watch was such a turn on

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