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Anal , not that taboo anymore
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yea so as the title says , anal just doesn’t seem taboo at all anymore and it kinda takes away a little the excitement of it , don’t get me wrong it’s still very wonderful but I think it’s not as naughty as it used to be years ago , what’s your thoughts guys |
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By *panishRebelMan
over a year ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
"Yea so as the title says , anal just doesn’t seem taboo at all anymore and it kinda takes away a little the excitement of it , don’t get me wrong it’s still very wonderful but I think it’s not as naughty as it used to be years ago , what’s your thoughts guys"
Have you ever read the Oscar Wild letters to Nora Barnacle?
He did it in a way that most of us would shrink from. |
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I think a lot of men still see it as taboo. They still think it's "Gay" when it comes to their own pleasure. Im all for men becoming more aware of all the orgasms that they're missing out on by not receiving.
I like the word taboo  |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
by a lake with my rod out |
"Yea so as the title says , anal just doesn’t seem taboo at all anymore and it kinda takes away a little the excitement of it , don’t get me wrong it’s still very wonderful but I think it’s not as naughty as it used to be years ago , what’s your thoughts guys
Have you ever read the Oscar Wild letters to Nora Barnacle?
He did it in a way that most of us would shrink from. "
Do you mean James Joyce? |
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By *ancy38Woman
over a year ago
galway |
"Yea so as the title says , anal just doesn’t seem taboo at all anymore and it kinda takes away a little the excitement of it , don’t get me wrong it’s still very wonderful but I think it’s not as naughty as it used to be years ago , what’s your thoughts guys"
I used to hate even talking about it never mind let anyone near there. Now it's my favorite thing to do. |
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"I’ve never wanted to be able to send gifs on here more than at this very moment
I think I speak for most others here when I say I've never wanted you to be able to send gifs more than now"
Ya, exactly.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love it .. especially using my vibe on my clit while receiving anal. THE most explosive orgasms  
I agree wholeheartedly never Done anal
Make sure she's emptied herself first & prepped..."
Shit happens !!  |
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"I love it .. especially using my vibe on my clit while receiving anal. THE most explosive orgasms
I agree wholeheartedly never Done anal
Make sure she's emptied herself first & prepped...
Shit happens !! "
oh god no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love it .. especially using my vibe on my clit while receiving anal. THE most explosive orgasms
I agree wholeheartedly never Done anal
Make sure she's emptied herself first & prepped...
Shit happens !! oh god no "
Oh God yes ..yes ..yessss  |
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"I love it .. especially using my vibe on my clit while receiving anal. THE most explosive orgasms
I agree wholeheartedly never Done anal
Make sure she's emptied herself first & prepped...
Shit happens !! oh god no
Oh God yes ..yes ..yessss "
nooooooo to shite |
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"I think a lot of men still see it as taboo. They still think it's "Gay" when it comes to their own pleasure. Im all for men becoming more aware of all the orgasms that they're missing out on by not receiving.
I like the word taboo "
Are you able to elaborate on this? I.e. orgasms missing out on? Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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"Any woman ive ever been with, none of them have ever wanted Anal, lol"
I've never done anal nor would I ever want to....That part of my body will always & ever be a 1-Way Street!!!! |
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Oh it’s a carefully planned and prepped for 2 days experience for me. I like to enjoy it and not worry lol, even though the willing victim might not know it’s planned but they always enjoy. I just need to remember to remove my shower attachment again lol lol. Love it! |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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Did it once with a lady if you can call her that she begged me to do it well let's just say she didn't prepare for it and my cock ended up like a chocolate eclair so won't be in a rush to do it again |
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"Did it once with a lady if you can call her that she begged me to do it well let's just say she didn't prepare for it and my cock ended up like a chocolate eclair so won't be in a rush to do it again "
ya see like in life it’s quality not quantity or maybe inexperienced as it does take effort and boke by the way.
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By *iscuits8Man 44 weeks ago
Meath / Dublin / Birmingham |
Have said it before but embarrassingly at my age it's something I've never had a chance to do. I'd love to try it.
As an aside gor some reason the scene from The Office with Keith Chegwin popped into my head reading this thread "Pop knob in fanny... not up yer arse" |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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Tired it once with a female friend 25 years ago and never done it since.
Did it feel different… yes never had any lub.. lol spare of the moment thing.
I would never ask my wife about it as I know what the response would be!!!!
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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"Did it once with a lady if you can call her that she begged me to do it well let's just say she didn't prepare for it and my cock ended up like a chocolate eclair so won't be in a rush to do it again "
Omg I can only imagine the mess....sh*t stuck way down under your foreskin  lottsa & lottsa soaks in the bath I'd say with foreskin pulled back....
As I said already my ass is a 1-Way street....always was & always will be. |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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"I thoroughly enjoy anal, and like to think of it as still a bit taboo"
Very much taboo! I don’t do anal… and that’s peoples preference what they like.
Personally I say away!
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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"Did it once with a lady if you can call her that she begged me to do it well let's just say she didn't prepare for it and my cock ended up like a chocolate eclair so won't be in a rush to do it again
Omg I can only imagine the mess....sh*t stuck way down under your foreskin lottsa & lottsa soaks in the bath I'd say with foreskin pulled back....
As I said already my ass is a 1-Way street....always was & always will be."
Yeah, and sh*t contains bacteria!  gross |
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Have had partners who are only really interested in anal sex. Have had anal sex with most (but not all) sex partners. Always with at least some discussion in advance. I'm not even a particular fan of the sensation from the sex really, but the effect for her can be absolutely spectacular, and that's what makes me enjoy it. I think it's because I am nearly always with subby women and sometimes for them be taken that way can scratch a particular itch. |
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By *iSi74Man 44 weeks ago
Drogheda, Meath, Dublin |
Why is anything "Taboo" surely its ones own insecurities that creates that impression.
As long as adults are consenting and rsspectful.of each others limits/boundories thats all that matters, no one else opinion matters.
Not everyone has to talk publicly about their likes/dislikes . Just be and enjoy your life your way. |
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Love it. Tight n holds cock well for hard thumping by both parties.
Some ladies cum way more from anal than vaginal sex. Plus it’s a different sensation for her. Bottom line (lol) if she enjoys it. Embrace it. It’s all good naughty fun. |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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Jesus it’s soo good. Much prefer it. Always prepare for it though and do a good anal douche beforehand. Love the stretch and then the pop, and then holding him in tight! He loves it too. Milly x |
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By *ythenMan 43 weeks ago
North Co. Dublin |
"With the right foreplay and environment it can be very erotic and bring a deeper closeness "
Would agree totally with above posters comments…. I’ve always found with my partner (female) not that same doesn’t apply to a guy receiving….
We found it was all about prep.. All starting slowly if anal first timer … use of various size butt plugs / fingers and loads of lube … starting small to help that avenue get used of the stretch slowly |
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I didn’t realise it was taboo!!!!!?
It’s sooooo good!
Lots of lube!
After the initial easing in, it’s so so pleasurable for a woman!
I fantasise about having my clit licked while he’s in me but I doubt he’d comply! Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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In my humble opinion, Amal in thought is far more arousing than anal in practice. Don't get me wrong, if you're in a relationship (no protection) it's fucking marvellous, but to really give someone a decent f@#k with a condom on is difficult, it's like your socks are too tight on a flight and you feel your toes swelling. Give me pussy every day , but , if someone were to all of a sudden ask nicely, "could you fuck me in the ass?" , I INSTANTLY would get harder. So much better in a trusting relationship with no protection. |
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My thoughts on anal might sound bizarre but I think it’s meant for big cocks. My reason for thinking this is she’ll be in a lot of pain in the easing it in period but once you get in past that you hit the pleasure spot and all the pain is forgotten. But if you’re too short you never get to hit the pleasure spot so it’s all pain. |
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Honestly wonder how many guys would do anal with women or men if the rule was they had to take a big cock in theirs first?
I rekon the percentage would drop radically lol
Too painful for me.
Once it's actually in the ass it's boring just doesn't feel as nice as pussy.thd excitement is getting it in. |
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Best anal I had was with a 60 year old woman. She was on all fours, put a vibrator in her pussy, I then put my cock in her arse. I could feel the vibrations, the feeling was amazing, shot my load almost instantly. |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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"My thoughts on anal might sound bizarre but I think it’s meant for big cocks. My reason for thinking this is she’ll be in a lot of pain in the easing it in period but once you get in past that you hit the pleasure spot and all the pain is forgotten. But if you’re too short you never get to hit the pleasure spot so it’s all pain. "
Sorry, but the pain is not just forgotten. It's not a process that's meant to be carried on after pain or discomfort in the hopes itll feel good in a few minutes. |
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By *og-ManMan 43 weeks ago
somewhere |
"I didn’t realise it was taboo!!!!!?
It’s sooooo good!
Lots of lube!
After the initial easing in, it’s so so pleasurable for a woman!
I fantasise about having my clit licked while he’s in me but I doubt he’d comply! Lol."
He'd want to have some length of neck on him to be able to reach around with his tongue |
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By *panishRebelMan 42 weeks ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
Read a medical article on anal recently. It made me think thrice. So many women reporting to clinics with tears etc from anal, it can't be worth it. No matter how horny it makes me feel, if I think I could put someone in hospital because of it I don't want to do it.
And yes before you say, "but have you tried it?", the answer is yes. I have one great memory of it. I also tried being pegged, on the basis of whats good for the goose is good for the gander. It isn't for me.
It probably will remain a niche thing, but I am not sure if it is taboo or ever truly was taboo.
Read James Joyce's letters to Nora Barnicle, and you'll realise how common such things were way back and probably always have been. |
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"Never had the pleasure.
Would I ask for it. Maybe not.
If offered would I yes.
Can women cum from anal alone?"
Don't be afraid to ask for what you want! But make sure you respect the answer given. Don't ask don't get.
Yes it's possible for some girls to cum from anal alone, but not all can. |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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Good lord the comments! It's actually not a wonder to me why most women wouldn't allow a guy near their butts, most haven't a notion what they are doing. Thankfully I'm not in the circle, I enjoy self play and play with my partner. TIME is required and PATIENCE something seriously lacking in most guys. And yes you can climax from bum fun alone. But I use toys and fingers and anything that feels good to try! Learn to communicate and lay off the porn! Like all movies what you see edited is not what actually happens. |
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By *enitMan 23 weeks ago
Galway |
"Good lord the comments! It's actually not a wonder to me why most women wouldn't allow a guy near their butts, most haven't a notion what they are doing. Thankfully I'm not in the circle, I enjoy self play and play with my partner. TIME is required and PATIENCE something seriously lacking in most guys. And yes you can climax from bum fun alone. But I use toys and fingers and anything that feels good to try! Learn to communicate and lay off the porn! Like all movies what you see edited is not what actually happens. "
And lots of lube! |
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I don't think it matters if it's taboo or not. All that matters is me, them and what we want to do in the moment.
Lube is an absolute need. The pain of going in cock first is really intense even with lube. Better to prepare with fingers and tongue first. |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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"My thoughts on anal might sound bizarre but I think it’s meant for big cocks. My reason for thinking this is she’ll be in a lot of pain in the easing it in period but once you get in past that you hit the pleasure spot and all the pain is forgotten. But if you’re too short you never get to hit the pleasure spot so it’s all pain. "
I'll let my girlfriend who has multiple screaming orgasms from any size cock every session know that unfortunately she didn't actually have them because some guy on Fab says only big cocks can do that... I'll inform all the other girls I've been with too seeing as they *thought* they had the same experience but clearly can't have  |
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The world is a changing place and although the average FAB user is all about the pursuit of pleasure many in the vanilla world have historically been different. However the current generation of women have all seen numerous extreme anal scenes and realise it isnt just fun fo men but can be fun for women too. I would say that badly executed anal can be excruciatingly painful so anal brings with it a level of trust the lady doesnt want some fumbling newbie just ramming it in. |
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"Yea so as the title says , anal just doesn’t seem taboo at all anymore and it kinda takes away a little the excitement of it , don’t get me wrong it’s still very wonderful but I think it’s not as naughty as it used to be years ago , what’s your thoughts guys
Have you ever read the Oscar Wild letters to Nora Barnacle?
He did it in a way that most of us would shrink from. "
Tell me more !! |
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"I love it .. especially using my vibe on my clit while receiving anal. THE most explosive orgasms
Need to try this
That can be arranged "
Lube Patience maybe a couple of glasses of wine for your lady to relax relax and listen to your partner all the time it’s not something to rush but to ensure you both enjoy it , In the Roman times it was all anal, no contraception remember |
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By *me2cMan 12 weeks ago
Donegal |
I have had a partner that enjoyed nothing more than her legs up on my shoulders having anal sex whilst me stimulating her clitorus with her wand. Her responses were VERY arousing and I was more than happy to oblige..... Ahhh the good old days! |
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