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By *astello OP Woman
over a year ago
Far far away |
Question for the masses..
You made a connection, lots of interactions but yet cant get a meet arranged.
Are you flogging the proverbial horse? How many times to do 'try' to meet and then the connection dissipates.
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The buzz wearing off is definitely a thing but I find going forward with the attitude that it'll happen when it happens makes it easy enough to check in every now and again and not worry about losing an opportunity.
I tend to think of it as making friends who I might get to have a great time with if the stars align and then I don't jump the shark and there's always something to look forward to. |
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By *anUTV/TS
over a year ago
Rural |
Try being in my position lol guy's all brave saying they would love to meet etc when I say ok WhatsApp me and I'll be ready for half ten this Friday evening or Saturday
That puts a stop to their gallop, then they're sending me messages at ten thirty or eleven Friday or Saturday evening I'm having a few drinks I'm horny lol and I put it on a plate for them a few days before
I find it absolutely fascinating that guys can be so full of contradictions. I'm never offended by their lack of conviction , I just find it hilariously funny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you’re not enjoy the site then leave. It really depends on your motivation for being here. If you’re genuinely seeking fun then interact if it’s a quick shag you’re probably in the wrong place  |
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"Question for the masses..
You made a connection, lots of interactions but yet cant get a meet arranged.
Are you flogging the proverbial horse? How many times to do 'try' to meet and then the connection dissipates.
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Honestly for me if it turns into a flogging a dead horse scenario I'll bail. I understand the importance of connection and friendship and I wouldn't have it any other way with those that we choose to spend time with but some people really like the talk aspect of fab and unfortunately it becomes just that, all talk.
Regarding setting up a time to meet it really shouldn't be difficult to work out. In my experience people will give a few dates to each other and try and whittle it down between themselves to move things forward.
Attitudes that are blasé or lukewarm when messaging about meeting but hungry for naughty chat are common place here. Who has time for fab pen-pals? I don't.
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"Question for the masses..
You made a connection, lots of interactions but yet cant get a meet arranged.
Are you flogging the proverbial horse? How many times to do 'try' to meet and then the connection dissipates.
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Persistence pays, imho.
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"Question for the masses..
You made a connection, lots of interactions but yet cant get a meet arranged.
Are you flogging the proverbial horse? How many times to do 'try' to meet and then the connection dissipates.
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If at first you don't succeed, give up & move on... My times precious... |
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By *astello OP Woman
over a year ago
Far far away |
"Try being in my position lol guy's all brave saying they would love to meet etc when I say ok WhatsApp me and I'll be ready for half ten this Friday evening or Saturday
That puts a stop to their gallop, then they're sending me messages at ten thirty or eleven Friday or Saturday evening I'm having a few drinks I'm horny lol and I put it on a plate for them a few days before
I find it absolutely fascinating that guys can be so full of contradictions. I'm never offended by their lack of conviction , I just find it hilariously funny "
Very good point. Actions speak louder than words. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Question for the masses..
You made a connection, lots of interactions but yet cant get a meet arranged.
Are you flogging the proverbial horse? How many times to do 'try' to meet and then the connection dissipates.
Persistence pays, imho.
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I sure hope so  |
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"Question for the masses..
You made a connection, lots of interactions but yet cant get a meet arranged.
Are you flogging the proverbial horse? How many times to do 'try' to meet and then the connection dissipates.
Persistence pays, imho.
I sure hope so "
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I think texting back and forward over DMs isn’t a hell of a lot of effort so if something fizzles out then it’s no big loss
I think the problem is people’s perceptions, thought they’d be knee deep in fanny from the word go and take the hump when they actually have to put a bit of effort in |
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"Yes. Made a connection
Had lots of interesting chats
Organising a possible meet up
Exchanged pics
Because I am not photogenic
Was automatically blocked
End of chat "
I think that's such an ignorant thing to do block someone because they didn't like the pic |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Yes. Made a connection
Had lots of interesting chats
Organising a possible meet up
Exchanged pics
Because I am not photogenic
Was automatically blocked
End of chat
I think that's such an ignorant thing to do block someone because they didn't like the pic "
Its the easiest thing to do
If you're chatting with a view to maybe having sex and you swap face pics
If there's no attraction whats the point in continuing on if sex is off the table |
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By *astello OP Woman
over a year ago
Far far away |
"Yes. Made a connection
Had lots of interesting chats
Organising a possible meet up
Exchanged pics
Because I am not photogenic
Was automatically blocked
End of chat "
Not half subtle eh?
Don't think Ive the double block activated.
Honesty is now ignorance.. |
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By *ickin2Man
over a year ago
Kilkenny |
"Yes. Made a connection
Had lots of interesting chats
Organising a possible meet up
Exchanged pics
Because I am not photogenic
Was automatically blocked
End of chat
I think that's such an ignorant thing to do block someone because they didn't like the pic
Its the easiest thing to do
If you're chatting with a view to maybe having sex and you swap face pics
If there's no attraction whats the point in continuing on if sex is off the table "
Was only for a social meet first.
No talk about sex. Respect and good manners go along way for starters regardless of how photogenic you are not |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Yes. Made a connection
Had lots of interesting chats
Organising a possible meet up
Exchanged pics
Because I am not photogenic
Was automatically blocked
End of chat
I think that's such an ignorant thing to do block someone because they didn't like the pic
Its the easiest thing to do
If you're chatting with a view to maybe having sex and you swap face pics
If there's no attraction whats the point in continuing on if sex is off the table
Was only for a social meet first.
No talk about sex. Respect and good manners go along way for starters regardless of how photogenic you are not "
I understood it as a possible play meet up thats why I said block straight away...pull the plaster off quickly so to speak
To be honest I wouldn't get worked up for getting blocked by anyone for any reason
I've met people at socials ,chat for a while all friendly even got a veri off some and then been blocked .....no problem....good luck with them
I'm not for them ..thats fine |
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By *ickin2Man
over a year ago
Kilkenny |
"Yes. Made a connection
Had lots of interesting chats
Organising a possible meet up
Exchanged pics
Because I am not photogenic
Was automatically blocked
End of chat
I think that's such an ignorant thing to do block someone because they didn't like the pic
Its the easiest thing to do
If you're chatting with a view to maybe having sex and you swap face pics
If there's no attraction whats the point in continuing on if sex is off the table
Was only for a social meet first.
No talk about sex. Respect and good manners go along way for starters regardless of how photogenic you are not
I understood it as a possible play meet up thats why I said block straight away...pull the plaster off quickly so to speak
To be honest I wouldn't get worked up for getting blocked by anyone for any reason
I've met people at socials ,chat for a while all friendly even got a veri off some and then been blocked .....no problem....good luck with them
I'm not for them ..thats fine "
Totally agree with you |
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