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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is there such a thing as having a penis that’s too big? As a man who’s not exactly blessed in this department at what point does it become too painful for a woman or man to have sex with a very well endowed man? What’s the perfect size, considering the fact that one size doesn’t fit all?  |
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Yes!!! Have you never watched that episode from Sex and the City where Samantha ends up hightailing it out of her date cos his slong is too big? Lol! I’ve also heard horror stories from friends…
Think it’s all very personal what each person can take and sometimes that’s down to their mental state/arousal in the moment |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes!!! Have you never watched that episode from Sex and the City where Samantha ends up hightailing it out of her date cos his slong is too big? Lol! I’ve also heard horror stories from friends…
Think it’s all very personal what each person can take and sometimes that’s down to their mental state/arousal in the moment"
Never watched a single episode of sex in the city. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One ex partner of mine had cervical orgasms and they were intense and a pleasure to behold, and my most recent friend couldn’t bear deep penetration it hurt, no matter how aroused she was. So different horses for course me thinks |
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"Yes!!! Have you never watched that episode from Sex and the City where Samantha ends up hightailing it out of her date cos his slong is too big? Lol! I’ve also heard horror stories from friends…
Think it’s all very personal what each person can take and sometimes that’s down to their mental state/arousal in the moment"
I think he’s called Mr Cocky! She ends up taking few whiffs of the good tobacco, tries to take him and then asks if they can be friends! |
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"Yes!!! Have you never watched that episode from Sex and the City where Samantha ends up hightailing it out of her date cos his slong is too big? Lol! I’ve also heard horror stories from friends…
Think it’s all very personal what each person can take and sometimes that’s down to their mental state/arousal in the moment
I think he’s called Mr Cocky! She ends up taking few whiffs of the good tobacco, tries to take him and then asks if they can be friends! "
That’s the one!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes!!! Have you never watched that episode from Sex and the City where Samantha ends up hightailing it out of her date cos his slong is too big? Lol! I’ve also heard horror stories from friends…
Think it’s all very personal what each person can take and sometimes that’s down to their mental state/arousal in the moment
I think he’s called Mr Cocky! She ends up taking few whiffs of the good tobacco, tries to take him and then asks if they can be friends!
That’s the one!!!"
What are you talking about? lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes!!! Have you never watched that episode from Sex and the City where Samantha ends up hightailing it out of her date cos his slong is too big? Lol! I’ve also heard horror stories from friends…
Think it’s all very personal what each person can take and sometimes that’s down to their mental state/arousal in the moment
I think he’s called Mr Cocky! She ends up taking few whiffs of the good tobacco, tries to take him and then asks if they can be friends!
That’s the one!!!
What are you talking about? lol "
Episode of sex and the city! YouTube Samantha & Mr Cocky and you’ll find! |
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Both the length and girth can cause women pain. It depends purely on what the woman can feel comfortable with (or not) for pleasure. I'd say the cervix stretching to expel a small person( no..guys you can not compare).. Will not alter the
penis accomodation necessarily |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
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Apparently there is a C spot above the cervix which, if stimulated accordingly, can give an orgasm as strong or more than G spot/clit.
I'll never reach it but it would be remiss of me not to inform my fellow Father's of much longer cockspur of a spot to concentrate on, with women who like that  |
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I recall a thread ages ago, about a guy complaining (but actually humble bragging) that his cock is too big for ladies, and he got ripped to shreds, with people saying "it's designed fit a human baby head through, it can take your cock".
So I dunno who to believe anymore. |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
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"I recall a thread ages ago, about a guy complaining (but actually humble bragging) that his cock is too big for ladies, and he got ripped to shreds, with people saying "it's designed fit a human baby head through, it can take your cock".
So I dunno who to believe anymore."
Apparently 3 inches is enough to stimulate the G spot, in the correct position.
So pretty much all can work, given the right partner and position.
There's someone for everyone |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Can't believe some of the shite that's been posted above, seriously 
Size doesn't really matter, skill does  "
Yeah I don't really agree with that. Call me a size queen but I'd like a cock to be a decent size. There is too small (based on experience). |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can't believe some of the shite that's been posted above, seriously
Size doesn't really matter, skill does
Yeah I don't really agree with that. Call me a size queen but I'd like a cock to be a decent size. There is too small (based on experience). "
Size queen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s a guy here who has id estimate 11 inches , my eyes almost popped out when I saw it , sadly he was just too big , penetration was very uncomfortable and caused me to bleed , had to turn him down for another meet . |
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"Apparently there is a C spot above the cervix which, if stimulated accordingly, can give an orgasm as strong or more than G spot/clit.
I'll never reach it but it would be remiss of me not to inform my fellow Father's of much longer cockspur of a spot to concentrate on, with women who like that "
yes..I've been lucky enough to have had a fab that was able to hit that spot.. frankly..he didn't have to move... |
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"Is there such a thing as having a penis that’s too big? As a man who’s not exactly blessed in this department at what point does it become too painful for a woman or man to have sex with a very well endowed man? What’s the perfect size, considering the fact that one size doesn’t fit all? "
Cock size seems to be more important for most men than for most women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There’s a guy here who has id estimate 11 inches , my eyes almost popped out when I saw it , sadly he was just too big , penetration was very uncomfortable and caused me to bleed , had to turn him down for another meet ."
Ahem...can I have his fab name please  |
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"I think it's interesting that the conversation around the right fit is almost exclusively spoken about in terms of the man's size.
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Women seem a lot less obsessed about the size of their vaginas, than men are about the size of their cocks. |
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"I think it's interesting that the conversation around the right fit is almost exclusively spoken about in terms of the man's size.
Women seem a lot less obsessed about the size of their vaginas, than men are about the size of their cocks. "
That's what I think too. We do adore our dicks.
I think it leads to a habit of language in both genders that reinforces it.
It's more common to hear 'that's too big' than 'I'm too small for that' for example.
They both mean the same thing.
The middle ground of simply talking about a good fit or a good match feels like a better way to use language in a less phallic way.
Obviously I'm knocking anyone's preference here. Some women like it big and some men like it tight.
I'm just curious about the language we chose to talk about it. |
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"I think it's interesting that the conversation around the right fit is almost exclusively spoken about in terms of the man's size.
Women seem a lot less obsessed about the size of their vaginas, than men are about the size of their cocks.
That's what I think too. We do adore our dicks.
I think it leads to a habit of language in both genders that reinforces it.
It's more common to hear 'that's too big' than 'I'm too small for that' for example.
They both mean the same thing.
The middle ground of simply talking about a good fit or a good match feels like a better way to use language in a less phallic way.
Obviously I'm knocking anyone's preference here. Some women like it big and some men like it tight.
I'm just curious about the language we chose to talk about it."
The conversation is definitely phallocentric (yay for made up words).
The long story short is that an average normal penis and an average normal vagina work together just fine, but there are likely to be edge cases for both sexes that can cause an issue for a couple. |
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Size is all about preference. Some ladies like it big. Some don’t. I don’t think it really matters about the size.
“Some girls will. Some girls won’t. Some girls need a lot of loving and some girls don’t”
Who sang that lol |
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"Size is all about preference. Some ladies like it big. Some don’t. I don’t think it really matters about the size.
“Some girls will. Some girls won’t. Some girls need a lot of loving and some girls don’t”
Who sang that lol "
Size is all about preference. Some guys like it big. Some don’t. I don’t think it really matters about the size. |
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"Size is all about preference. Some ladies like it big. Some don’t. I don’t think it really matters about the size.
“Some girls will. Some girls won’t. Some girls need a lot of loving and some girls don’t”
Who sang that lol
Size is all about preference. Some guys like it big. Some don’t. I don’t think it really matters about the size. "
Nicely illustrated |
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This must all be linked with porn... in the same way that it's generally stated that women could come to feel inadequate if they're not hourglass with big boobs and a shaved pussy, ready for anal pounding (á la porn actresses), do men feel inadequate if they don't have a 6-pack and a 10" micky?
Neither of these common porn physical clichés are realistic.
In my experience, women seem to be more interested in the flirting and laughing and teasing and playfulness and him not being a thick or being disrespectful than the size of his mick... Maybe this perspective is outdated?
This is a copy/paste of my own (Mr) post from the forum thread "Hung".
"Anyone read the Kama Sutra?
IIRC, there's a passage in it about penis size and vagina tightness. If memory serves, the short version (pun not intended) is that it's only when the man's penis size is compatible with the tightness and/or depth of the woman's vagina that both parties can enjoy sex fully...
Smaller penis + "looser" or deeper vagina = low pleasure/satisfaction for both parties.
Smaller penis + "average" vagina = moderate pleasure/satisfaction for both parties.
Smaller penis + tight & shallow vagina = high pleasure/satisfaction for both parties.
Average (mid-size?) penis + "looser" or deeper vagina = moderate pleasure/satisfaction for both parties.
Average penis + "average" vagina = high pleasure/satisfaction for both parties.
Average penis + tight & shallow vagina = moderate pleasure or possible discomfort for both parties.
Large penis + "looser" or deeper vagina = high pleasure/satisfaction for both parties.
Large penis + "average" vagina = moderate pleasure/satisfaction or possible discomfort for both parties.
Large penis + tight & shallow vagina = low pleasure/satisfaction, possible discomfort or even pain for both parties.
I've (Mr) probably summarised that poorly, but I think that's the jist of it.
I guess some tighter ladies might enjoy a larger penis, so there are probably exceptions to the book's generalisation.
In my observation, while size CAN matter (to ladies), it seems to be men who care more about it. A huge mick won't necessarily make a guy with a dull personality or bad teeth (for example) more attractive.
Ladies - would a large penis override or compensate for otherwise unappealing appearance or personality traits?"
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That's it exactly. Our phallocentric language (thx filthy) neglects the physiological facts of compatibility and reinforces male anxiety about dick size. Too big, too small, too skinny.
Porn has a lot of answer for but I do feel like it's more of an amplifier than a cause of the preoccupation we have with our dicks.
My first girlfriend and the first person to touch my dick told me it was beautiful and perfect. That imprint has stuck with me my whole life. It really is btw
I can only imagine that a young lad seeing a horse cock pound a woman into oblivion with before having a chance with a real world experience is going to have a different and equally lasting impression.
On reflection there was a lot to be said for passing around a sticky playboy. For the articles obviously. |
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