Having the trust of a couple for either Cuckold or Stag and Hotwife is an honor for me,
Its a private and intimate time for them and they are trusting you with it so don't be afraid to ask questions beforehand because every couple is different and no two meets are ever the same. |
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"We would enjoy stag & vixen/hotwife stuff rather than cuckold stuff if that counts.
What's stag stuff, and what's vixen/hotwife stuff?"
There is a considerable difference.
Stag Vixen/Hotwife is not cuckolding, I dont think the two should be conflated.
Cuckolding is a distinct scene of its own. |
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"Love hearing how a guy fucked my wife"
The thoughts of my Mrs with another man in front of me really turned me on. Still does but I'd like to join in too. |
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We're not really experienced in any of this, but I've pinched this from somewhere else before, it would generally be my take. Open for discussion, but I bet not many are into actual cuckolding!!...
A hotwife is a wife who has sex with other men with her husband's knowledge and consent - pretty much a standard definition - the knowledge and consent can be specific to each man/session - or a blanket knowledge and consent, depending on the couple's agreement.
The main difference seems to be the role of the husband.
A cuckold is into "sexualized humiliation" based largely on his wife having sex with other men - and various activities that surround that. Humiliation, subserviant, chastity, denial etc. etc.
The husband of a hotwife typically isn't into humiliation, denial, etc. He just finds it hot that his wife has sex with other men. He may or may not be present to watch, depending upon the individual couple's agreement. Typically, he does not fuck other women.
A Stag also finds it hot for his wife to have sex with other men, but he typically fucks other women as well. The wife of a Stag is often called a Vixen instead of a hotwife.
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There is a considerable difference.
Stag Vixen/Hotwife is not cuckolding, I dont think the two should be conflated.
Cuckolding is a distinct scene of its own. "
Used to swing with an ex gf and we had a wonderful hotwife/stag-vixen dynamic. I loved how sexual she was, loved watching her in action and giving tips to the guys to get her going.
It was great sharing our sexventures with each other, who we met (obviously with respect to privacy etc), what we got up to.
I would hate to be cuckolded however. I could watch 20 guys have sex with my partner and love it all but never once would she have done it behind my back or suggested she was doing it because I wasn't satisfying her. Total total turn off for me personally in that regard.
As a single guy now I would really enjoy hotwifing and love putting on a show for a guy with his partner, but I would not suggest he was inadequate, try to embarrass him or any dynamic like that unless specifically requested beforehand. And even then I'm not massively into it.
I'd prefer the gentleman eating popcorn watching the show rather than tied in a corner with a gag in   |
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"When we were married she had many Bulls with me watching and cleaning up after"
Absolutely. I met a cuckold couple for several times and the unprotected sex till completion in front of her hubby was an amazing turn on for his wife and myself. She loved long snogging me meanwhile her hubby’s tongue cleaned her up. Amazing memories. We all three reached a lovely friendship. |
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"We would enjoy stag & vixen/hotwife stuff rather than cuckold stuff if that counts.
What's stag stuff, and what's vixen/hotwife stuff?
There is a considerable difference.
Stag Vixen/Hotwife is not cuckolding, I dont think the two should be conflated.
Cuckolding is a distinct scene of its own. "
It’s always debated but I’d agree.. cuckold is more humiliating and chastity and I think most of who I’ve had interacted with would be more suited to stag/hotwife…
Plenty of hubbies that just enjoy sharing and no shame but don’t play with other women.. so loads of different flavours and all cool |
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By *dfabMan 1 week ago
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"We're not really experienced in any of this, but I've pinched this from somewhere else before, it would generally be my take. Open for discussion, but I bet not many are into actual cuckolding!!...
A hotwife is a wife who has sex with other men with her husband's knowledge and consent - pretty much a standard definition - the knowledge and consent can be specific to each man/session - or a blanket knowledge and consent, depending on the couple's agreement.
The main difference seems to be the role of the husband.
A cuckold is into "sexualized humiliation" based largely on his wife having sex with other men - and various activities that surround that. Humiliation, subserviant, chastity, denial etc. etc.
The husband of a hotwife typically isn't into humiliation, denial, etc. He just finds it hot that his wife has sex with other men. He may or may not be present to watch, depending upon the individual couple's agreement. Typically, he does not fuck other women.
A Stag also finds it hot for his wife to have sex with other men, but he typically fucks other women as well. The wife of a Stag is often called a Vixen instead of a hotwife.
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The Term Cuckold, the meaning has and will continue to change and differ between people.
When the Ex and I had just met about 40 years ago, back in Africa, in our particular group of swinging friends we considered our activities as a form of Ménage à Trois, differing in the fact that it was with multiple other men not just a 3 some.
At the time, the term cuckold was known as men who were unaware of their wives cheating and he brings up their children in their marriage that aren't his own. So, in general, it was not used by us back then.
But over the years the term cuckold, somehow changed to meaning all men who enjoyed watching their GF or Wife having sex with other men were called Cuckold. An overlap, if you like, of the two true meanings of Ménage à Trois and that of cuckold.
So, it became common to know us men as Cuckold and often the men in our group were greeted as Cuck. Even now, when chatting online with some of our friends still living in Africa, we call each other Cuck or Cuckold. Even though now there are many different names given to what our swinging lifestyle was. Hence why I consider myself as an Ex Cuckold.
Our type of sexual lifestyle never included humiliation, denial or any type of abuse what-so-ever. But keeping it all very secret was important not only due to our straight social side but also the legal aspect of it especially with mixed race sex in those days. For us and our swinging group, it was mostly the men watching our GF's or Wives having sex with other random men. Those men were never termed Bulls and during group meets us men would watch our partners taking multiple other men, mostly black men in Africa. At the end of the night, when it was finished with the other men, us men would go down on the girls mostly cleaning out of the other Cucks partners. We made friends with some of the other members and often we would have sex with their partners.
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there are some very good serious personal and group studies published on this subject by people who enjoy cuckolding and know they're stuff. if you're interested in sex and power (sharing) dynamics then these can be highly informative and fun to read. bit like a lexicological study of swear words - but possibly more boner inducing! its how I figured out I'm not a cuck and my wife is not a hotwife. closer to a stag / vixen thing between us |
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