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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This could be a hugely naive post, but do other people find a conversation suddenly dies after sharing a face pic.
I've had a few people be upfront and say sorry, not my type, but unfortunately they're few an far between.
How do you end a chat if you suddenly don't feel it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Better for it to happen here, then agree to meet when you’re unsure. Then you meet and there is no attraction and now you have to explain why and try not to hurt anyone’s feelings. We all say honesty is the best policy but you don’t want to be unkind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve sent face pics and got blocked straight away, at other times they’ve sent a pic back but the conversation just stops. They don’t block you or any they just don’t reply to messages. In some cases you end up thinking what have I done, other times it pretty obvious they’re not into you.
Mostly when that happens the other person doesn’t want to end the conversation by saying you’re not their type incase you get nasty and they just don’t say anything. Most women on here I feel aren’t attracted to me, sending private messages is something I very rarely do these days. Women and couples are inundated with messages, hundreds every day.
Sometimes It feels like I did something wrong in the first place by sending a message when the other person doesn’t reply. Other times I think to myself that person wouldn’t be interested in me purely by what it said in their profile and their profile pics so I don’t send them a message. Is this purely negativity from me?, yes it is, but surely I’m not the only person to feel the same way!    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can I just suggest to any guys having this issue have a look at the face picture your sending. Us women have perfected the selfie but a lot of men can't seem to take a good one. I've met men in person at events and they look completely different in person. Your selfie is like your calling card so put a bit of effort in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try taking selfies from different angles to find the most flattering one. In most instances, holding the camera slightly above your head is the optimal angle. Holding it below your head and looking down can create an unflattering double chin. Play around with light as well. |
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"Can I just suggest to any guys having this issue have a look at the face picture your sending. Us women have perfected the selfie but a lot of men can't seem to take a good one. I've met men in person at events and they look completely different in person. Your selfie is like your calling card so put a bit of effort in. "
What about the people that have totally photo shoped there photos and look nothing like what they put up is that not miss leading.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can I just suggest to any guys having this issue have a look at the face picture your sending. Us women have perfected the selfie but a lot of men can't seem to take a good one. I've met men in person at events and they look completely different in person. Your selfie is like your calling card so put a bit of effort in.
What about the people that have totally photo shoped there photos and look nothing like what they put up is that not miss leading.."
I'm not telling them to do that do I wouldn't condone that I'm saying make a effort not stick a million filters on |
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By *erry cMan
over a year ago
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"Can I just suggest to any guys having this issue have a look at the face picture your sending. Us women have perfected the selfie but a lot of men can't seem to take a good one. I've met men in person at events and they look completely different in person. Your selfie is like your calling card so put a bit of effort in.
What about the people that have totally photo shoped there photos and look nothing like what they put up is that not miss leading..
I'm not telling them to do that do I wouldn't condone that I'm saying make a effort not stick a million filters on "
ì tried taking pic Camera broke what does that tell u |
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"Can I just suggest to any guys having this issue have a look at the face picture your sending. Us women have perfected the selfie but a lot of men can't seem to take a good one. I've met men in person at events and they look completely different in person. Your selfie is like your calling card so put a bit of effort in. "
This is so true. I've deleted a thousand photos of my face.
I have exactly two face photos that I'm happy with and one of them has someone else's puppy in it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think seeking "normal" conversation closure here is fruitless. There are a myriad of ways that people will tell you you're not for them - no response to a face photo is just one of them. |
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Unfortunately that's how it goes I've made a fair few friends on fab who show faces or I show them and we still talk even if we're not for each other....to me there's too much selection and if they don't instantly like you or your chat they ghost you .. the joys of chatting online on here or even dating sites it's all the same...if people aren't interested they go quiet.... |
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