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What gives you the flutters on profiles?
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I’m having a grouchy morning/week and could easily go down the rabbit hole of accidentally spreading that negativity in the comments on here. Instead let me try and purposefully spread some positivity…
We’ve all read the stuff that peeves people off when they see stuff on bios. Like discrete=playing away  ..was I the only one oblivious to this…
Anyway, positivity. What gives you the flutters about profiles?
For me it’s when I can peak a beard on a guy in a pic lol! I’m so easily pleased…but I guess that works both ways as I can get very easily turned off too. Truly wish bios would include if they had a beard/stubble hehe (and yes I’ll keep mention it here until it catches on )
Or I love reading some profiles comments in the forums. Just love their attitude and playfulness. And when you vibe with someone in the pm’s and can have a bit of banter. That’s my bread and butter.
On singles profiles if there’s a close up shot it’s a turn on when I can see a condom. But regular pics with not much to distract me in the background and have just a touch of boldness/playfulness to them do it for me more…
-Mrs |
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"I’m having a grouchy morning/week and could easily go down the rabbit hole of accidentally spreading that negativity in the comments on here. Instead let me try and purposefully spread some positivity…
We’ve all read the stuff that peeves people off when they see stuff on bios. Like discrete=playing away ..was I the only one oblivious to this…
Anyway, positivity. What gives you the flutters about profiles?
For me it’s when I can peak a beard on a guy in a pic lol! I’m so easily pleased…but I guess that works both ways as I can get very easily turned off too. Truly wish bios would include if they had a beard/stubble hehe (and yes I’ll keep mention it here until it catches on )
Or I love reading some profiles comments in the forums. Just love their attitude and playfulness. And when you vibe with someone in the pm’s and can have a bit of banter. That’s my bread and butter.
On singles profiles if there’s a close up shot it’s a turn on when I can see a condom. But regular pics with not much to distract me in the background and have just a touch of boldness/playfulness to them do it for me more…
-Mrs"
we saw a beard in a profile too and it gave us the flutters , hearts skipped a beat because the beards was on the woman !  |
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"we saw a beard in a profile too and it gave us the flutters , hearts skipped a beat because the beards was on the woman ! "
Lol!!!!! Each to their own, that’s the wonders of fab. Variety. But my personal preference is to see them on men |
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"I quite enjoy a good angle photo of a great arse, not a fan of everything on show I like to have a bit of mystery to a picture  "
Agreed!!! For us both. Love a bit of a picture tease. Which is why we’ve contemplated switching some of our pics if I’m honest. |
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"Me: Curvy subby liberated women. Big wet lips (top and bottom) especially
Her: Strong bearded dominant men. Long hair/ viking types especially "
A woman after my own taste  Don’t know what it is about beards but I love them!!! |
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"Me: Curvy subby liberated women. Big wet lips (top and bottom) especially
Her: Strong bearded dominant men. Long hair/ viking types especially
A woman after my own taste Don’t know what it is about beards but I love them!!!"
I'd be the opposite, I find them a turn-off. It's a shame they're so bloody popular now! |
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"Me: Curvy subby liberated women. Big wet lips (top and bottom) especially
Her: Strong bearded dominant men. Long hair/ viking types especially
A woman after my own taste Don’t know what it is about beards but I love them!!!
I'd be the opposite, I find them a turn-off. It's a shame they're so bloody popular now!"
That sucks! Now don’t get me wrong I like a tidy beard, if it’s too long I get distracted with thinking about how they maintain it etc.
You’d still find my stubble/beard status in the bio suggestion handy though …just saying lol |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
Galway |
Agree with you about beards…big fan!
Love a shower pic, love a hard cock in tight boxers, love a pic of open jeans where the guy is commando and you can just see the base of his cock, love a nice ass pic |
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"Agree with you about beards…big fan!
Love a shower pic, love a hard cock in tight boxers, love a pic of open jeans where the guy is commando and you can just see the base of his cock, love a nice ass pic "
Yessss!!!! I am here for all those guy pics!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Love a shower pic, love a hard cock in tight boxers, love a pic of open jeans where the guy is commando and you can just see the base of his cock, love a nice ass pic "
Agree with the shower and jeans pics.. a little teasing can cause a lot of flutters
T |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Good pics where there's a mix of tease and nudity but not just cock pics.
A nice hairy chest and a nice pert bum that you would just love to grab a hold of when pulling them deeper into you. 
And a bio that gives you an idea of the person rather than a full in later or one line here for nsa etc ones.
Mainly it's the person who will give me fanny flutters though once we start chatting but a good profile definitely gets me interested in them first . |
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"Side boob with no nipple or a nice bra strap peeking out from a top/shirt. Leaves a lot to the imagination "
I’m confused…you mean a side on pic of side boob but no nipple? Or side boob popping out of lingerie |
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"Side boob with no nipple or a nice bra strap peeking out from a top/shirt. Leaves a lot to the imagination
I’m confused…you mean a side on pic of side boob but no nipple? Or side boob popping out of lingerie "
Either or, but my grail is side boob with nipple hidden by a mattress or a wall. Showing of nice curves what’s not to like? |
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"Side boob with no nipple or a nice bra strap peeking out from a top/shirt. Leaves a lot to the imagination
I’m confused…you mean a side on pic of side boob but no nipple? Or side boob popping out of lingerie
Either or, but my grail is side boob with nipple hidden by a mattress or a wall. Showing of nice curves what’s not to like?"
Ahhh!!! I’m picturing it now. |
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"Getting lots of good tips for new pics now lol
That candle pic did the wax drip? Lol haha that’d be telling !
My curious mind might have wondered the exact same thing"
Haha she cant leave us hanging like that  |
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"Forearms.. always had a thing for forearms.
And a well toned chest with just the right amount of chest hair.
T "
Forearms…really? I didn’t think that’d come up. Anything in particular about them?
With you on the chest hair for sure!!! |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
Wish I knew but when I see a photo that hits the spot I tell them
No agenda just a message to say thanks for showing the photo
With couples I prefer to see the couple ...nothing worse than a profile with 75 pics of Mrs and none of him
There's someone on this thread with my favourite couples photo and I told them
With women ....lingerie usually sets my eyes and brain off
Some men take amazing photo's ,dont think Ive ever sent a man a message to say nice photo as it would usually be frowned upon |
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"Wish I knew but when I see a photo that hits the spot I tell them
No agenda just a message to say thanks for showing the photo
With couples I prefer to see the couple ...nothing worse than a profile with 75 pics of Mrs and none of him
There's someone on this thread with my favourite couples photo and I told them
With women ....lingerie usually sets my eyes and brain off
Some men take amazing photo's ,dont think Ive ever sent a man a message to say nice photo as it would usually be frowned upon "
I could not agree with you more with you!!! Nuts can be camera shy so even if the focus is on me I try get him in on the pic somehow. Nothing worse than a couple profile with only pics of one of them. Makes me wonder if it’s actually a couple….there has been occasions were after messaging it does come out that only ones meeting up atm…  |
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"Getting lots of good tips for new pics now lol
That candle pic did the wax drip? Lol haha that’d be telling !
My curious mind might have wondered the exact same thing
Haha she cant leave us hanging like that "
Guess we’ll have to use our imaginations |
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"Wish I knew but when I see a photo that hits the spot I tell them
No agenda just a message to say thanks for showing the photo
With couples I prefer to see the couple ...nothing worse than a profile with 75 pics of Mrs and none of him
There's someone on this thread with my favourite couples photo and I told them
With women ....lingerie usually sets my eyes and brain off
Some men take amazing photo's ,dont think Ive ever sent a man a message to say nice photo as it would usually be frowned upon "
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"Getting lots of good tips for new pics now lol
That candle pic did the wax drip? Lol haha that’d be telling !
My curious mind might have wondered the exact same thing oh guys !! All I can say is after that pic was taken we had a great night !!
Haha she cant leave us hanging like that
Guess we’ll have to use our imaginations "
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"Getting lots of good tips for new pics now lol
That candle pic did the wax drip? Lol haha that’d be telling !
My curious mind might have wondered the exact same thing oh guys !! All I can say is after that pic was taken we had a great night !!
Haha she cant leave us hanging like that
Guess we’ll have to use our imaginations "
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"I quite enjoy a good angle photo of a great arse, not a fan of everything on show I like to have a bit of mystery to a picture
Agreed!!! For us both. Love a bit of a picture tease. Which is why we’ve contemplated switching some of our pics if I’m honest."
Well if you feel the need to change any of them, don’t change the 07 of August 2023 |
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"Wish I knew but when I see a photo that hits the spot I tell them
No agenda just a message to say thanks for showing the photo
With couples I prefer to see the couple ...nothing worse than a profile with 75 pics of Mrs and none of him
There's someone on this thread with my favourite couples photo and I told them
With women ....lingerie usually sets my eyes and brain off
Some men take amazing photo's ,dont think Ive ever sent a man a message to say nice photo as it would usually be frowned upon "
It's always been said that men are more visual than women but I can't get excited about pics of people I don't know.
I can appreciate the effort put into some pics though.
I've often been told that my pics are good with decent variety but that doesn't reflect in the number of fabs they receive which proves what most women say about being reluctant to fab pics in case that is taken as an invitation to chat.
I rarely if ever get more than 4 or 5 fabs on any new pic and those are almost always from fab friends. |
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"I quite enjoy a good angle photo of a great arse, not a fan of everything on show I like to have a bit of mystery to a picture
Agreed!!! For us both. Love a bit of a picture tease. Which is why we’ve contemplated switching some of our pics if I’m honest.
Well if you feel the need to change any of them, don’t change the 07 of August 2023 "
Awh shucks! Thanks |
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"Wish I knew but when I see a photo that hits the spot I tell them
No agenda just a message to say thanks for showing the photo
With couples I prefer to see the couple ...nothing worse than a profile with 75 pics of Mrs and none of him
There's someone on this thread with my favourite couples photo and I told them
With women ....lingerie usually sets my eyes and brain off
Some men take amazing photo's ,dont think Ive ever sent a man a message to say nice photo as it would usually be frowned upon
It's always been said that men are more visual than women but I can't get excited about pics of people I don't know.
I can appreciate the effort put into some pics though.
I've often been told that my pics are good with decent variety but that doesn't reflect in the number of fabs they receive which proves what most women say about being reluctant to fab pics in case that is taken as an invitation to chat.
I rarely if ever get more than 4 or 5 fabs on any new pic and those are almost always from fab friends."
Ahhhh go on! I’ll bite. Sent you some fabs. They are quite good ones I will admit |
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"Forearms.. always had a thing for forearms.
And a well toned chest with just the right amount of chest hair.
T
Forearms…really? I didn’t think that’d come up. Anything in particular about them?
With you on the chest hair for sure!!! "
Muscular, maybe a little tanned, any amount of hair.. ah yeah!!! |
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"Getting lots of good tips for new pics now lol
That candle pic did the wax drip? Lol haha that’d be telling !
My curious mind might have wondered the exact same thing oh guys !! All I can say is after that pic was taken we had a great night !!
Haha she cant leave us hanging like that
Guess we’ll have to use our imaginations "
ah yes imagination is good guys !! Let
Just say it was a very “ hot “ night !! Lol |
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By *irWhiskeyMan
over a year ago
The water of life |
"I’m having a grouchy morning/week and could easily go down the rabbit hole of accidentally spreading that negativity in the comments on here. Instead let me try and purposefully spread some positivity…
We’ve all read the stuff that peeves people off when they see stuff on bios. Like discrete=playing away ..was I the only one oblivious to this…
Anyway, positivity. What gives you the flutters about profiles?
For me it’s when I can peak a beard on a guy in a pic lol! I’m so easily pleased…but I guess that works both ways as I can get very easily turned off too. Truly wish bios would include if they had a beard/stubble hehe (and yes I’ll keep mention it here until it catches on )
Or I love reading some profiles comments in the forums. Just love their attitude and playfulness. And when you vibe with someone in the pm’s and can have a bit of banter. That’s my bread and butter.
On singles profiles if there’s a close up shot it’s a turn on when I can see a condom. But regular pics with not much to distract me in the background and have just a touch of boldness/playfulness to them do it for me more…
-Mrs"
That's why my pfp includes the beard!
Always looking for the pognophiles |
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By *onnrodMan
over a year ago
moira |
I love reading an upbeat profile that shows what the like, what they want and let's you imagine how good a meet with them would be. So many negative Nancy's are a total turn off.
Oh, and good teeth, big tits and shaved pussies are a winner too obviously. |
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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago
Far far away |
I like artistic photos. Anything with some creativity. Linden is my guru...
I'm very partial to hairy chests, forearms and oh O Neil's shorts...
Them thighs..... mmmmm
Any GAA or rugby lads please send me your pics.... Full kit.... |
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"The vein going down the front of a man's bicep. If it shows, please show it "
Who would have thought it would be easy to flex, throb and not look like a knob trying to get a shot like this!
Still working on it |
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By *ollypop9Woman
over a year ago
wouldn't you like to know |
Sometimes less is more.
The sub side in me loves half pulled up sleeves, especially a white or black shirt, and the guy may be holding a belt, tie or rope etc...
In general, it's the cheeky, playful approach, not just in pics but in a bio and in the forum, which catches my eye. |
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"The vein going down the front of a man's bicep. If it shows, please show it
Who would have thought it would be easy to flex, throb and not look like a knob trying to get a shot like this!
Still working on it"
No, the vein doesn't need any flexing (flexing is a bit naff in fairness)  |
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"The vein going down the front of a man's bicep. If it shows, please show it
Who would have thought it would be easy to flex, throb and not look like a knob trying to get a shot like this!
Still working on it
No, the vein doesn't need any flexing (flexing is a bit naff in fairness) "
Always happy to have a little creative direction from an expert in the field |
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Guys...
A hairy chest....not chewbacca tho!! Lol just a nice hairy chest, broad shoulders so you know they are in good shape to handle a little big one like me....and tattoos...oh dear Thor....a big tattooed guy and thats it, im done for....
Ladies....
A hint of long brunette hair...curves on curves and boobs....i just love nice boobs...
Mmmmmmm dreamy x
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"The vein going down the front of a man's bicep. If it shows, please show it
Who would have thought it would be easy to flex, throb and not look like a knob trying to get a shot like this!
Still working on it
No, the vein doesn't need any flexing (flexing is a bit naff in fairness)
Always happy to have a little creative direction from an expert in the field "
Is that linden you're talking about? |
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Nice peachy ass... male or female
Couples profile... I like to see them in a sexy pose together, doesn't have to have everything on show... more erotic than nude. Gives me an idea of playing with them.
Guys profile... I love a V line wanna lick it and follow the lines down. And also broad shoulder pic
Girls... love to see them dressed in lingerie and heels |
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