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Struggling to get a meet verification
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I’m on this site almost a year and find it very hard to get anyone to reply and it’s impossible to find someone who’ll meet up to help get verified. I’ve tried all the help a fabber out posts but my messages just go un noticed. Is there anyone around the midlands that can help a fabber out? |
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"I’m on this site almost a year and find it very hard to get anyone to reply and it’s impossible to find someone who’ll meet up to help get verified. I’ve tried all the help a fabber out posts but my messages just go un noticed. Is there anyone around the midlands that can help a fabber out? "
I could be totally wrong here.
My sincere apologies if I am.
Defo getting a vibe off your profile that you’re attached you’re playing without your partners consent not many ladies will play with you if that is the case. Before you text any other profile read theirs 1st.
My advice is to get yourself to some socials. If you can.
Once you get that 1st met veri prob be a lot easier than to get future meets.
If you are attached there are some groups they pop up on the forums every now and then just for people who are attached.
Keep an eye out or maybe someone who may read this may guide you to those groups. |
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"We have ran two meet and greet socials in the last few months were both verified and unverified attended.
Keep an eye on the forums something always pops up."
Just like the ladies said, they've had 2 M&G & possibly will have another 1 in the future. As I assume there'll be other's happening during the rest of the year. 
Until then keep intersecting on here. Maybe shake up your bio, as it was said earlier that you come across as taken. If that's not the case, try to prove it's not the case. Lastly, eas off & then stop messaging profiles, for awhile, unless it's got to do with the forum. It's always easy for some people. Hang on in there it'll work out for you OP. |
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"I’m not attached and I’ll keep an eye out for any socials, is there anything you’d suggest to change to make people know I’m not attached? "
I put it as the first word on my bio and didn't use the word discrete. I can't accommodate because I have kids so I explained that at the bottom of my bio too. Though that may be not necessary. But if your unverified it's best be clear |
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The is a lot of attached folks here so often the assumption is guilty until proven innocent. It's unfortunate but also understandable.
In your defense, I read your bio and got no attached vibe at all. |
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"Thanks I’ll try all of the above "
Look at other's profiles OP & try to take idea's from them, be it pictures or something they say in their bio. You can always change them, as your going along on here. |
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"I’m not attached and I’ll keep an eye out for any socials, is there anything you’d suggest to change to make people know I’m not attached? "
My apologies
Ok if you use the word discreet on your bio
and also have up you can’t accommodate.
9 times out of 10 those two together would indicate the person is attached and wanting to play without their partner’s permission. |
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"The is a lot of attached folks here so often the assumption is guilty until proven innocent. It's unfortunate but also understandable.
In your defense, I read your bio and got no attached vibe at all."
Ya,that's true alright. I didn't either. Some people might pick it up that way, that's the thing. At the same time each to they're own. Whatever you do OP ALWAYS be yourself. |
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