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Introductions and making the first move
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I must be doing something wrong. Maybe the wrong approach.
Always try to be polite and cordial. Nearly always send face pic in first message.
But seldom get a reply. Indeed most messages aren't even opened.
I know some people get loads of messages and can't or don't have chance to see all.
So how do you introduce yourself?
And do any of the ladies make the first approach? |
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I saw someone mention yesterday that they had 300 messages that morning alone - I’d imagine the women get swamped.
Personally think theres nothing wrong with the polite approach - I’d imagine quite a few people know each other from the social events thiugh so they’re not really looking for totally new people - unless they’re hung like a horse or something  |
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There is a fine line between polite and sycophantic.
Women with lazy profiles get told they are stunning every day so one more won't make a lot of difference.
Some people don't like receiving facepics in an opening message because they see it as a lack of discretion and many look at the senders profile before they open the message and often the content is irrelevant if they don't like what they see. |
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"I must be doing something wrong. Maybe the wrong approach.
Always try to be polite and cordial. Nearly always send face pic in first message.
But seldom get a reply. Indeed most messages aren't even opened.
I know some people get loads of messages and can't or don't have chance to see all.
So how do you introduce yourself?
And do any of the ladies make the first approach?"
You’re prob not sending enough dickpics
Don’t overthink, just send a photo of your todger and a “how are ye?” |
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"Can’t have enough beercan’s or sky remote comparison pics attached to that cold opening mail !!
…..works nearly none of the time "
No you're doing it wrong... don't bother saying hi or any of that nonsense just tell them you're passing by their local superman's in 10 mins and ask if they fancy the ride!  |
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"Can’t have enough beercan’s or sky remote comparison pics attached to that cold opening mail !!
…..works nearly none of the time
No you're doing it wrong... don't bother saying hi or any of that nonsense just tell them you're passing by their local superman's in 10 mins and ask if they fancy the ride! "
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No you're doing it wrong... don't bother saying hi or any of that nonsense just tell them you're passing by their local superman's in 10 mins and ask if they fancy the ride! "
Thanks for that, explains what I am doing wrong |
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No you're doing it wrong... don't bother saying hi or any of that nonsense just tell them you're passing by their local superman's in 10 mins and ask if they fancy the ride!
Thanks for that, explains what I am doing wrong "
Sorry, couldn't help myself!
But I do wish you luck x |
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No you're doing it wrong... don't bother saying hi or any of that nonsense just tell them you're passing by their local superman's in 10 mins and ask if they fancy the ride!
Thanks for that, explains what I am doing wrong
Sorry, couldn't help myself!
But I do wish you luck x"
Don’t be Sorry  I was being sarcastic |
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No you're doing it wrong... don't bother saying hi or any of that nonsense just tell them you're passing by their local superman's in 10 mins and ask if they fancy the ride!
Thanks for that, explains what I am doing wrong
Sorry, couldn't help myself!
But I do wish you luck x
Don’t be Sorry I was being sarcastic "
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I only really meet at events now but before that most of my meets I was making first move. They have something appealing about their profile to intrigue me enough to reach out. But as I said here before if your a guy here with fuck all effort profile don't expect the women sliding into your inbox looking for a shag. |
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Personally I stopped messaging people on here awhile back. For the same reason as you said OP. From now on, either they've massaged me first or it's something to do with something on the forum or we've massaged eachother beforehand. Otherwise I don't bother messaging people anymore. 