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Discretion and it's meaning
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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discretion
1.
the quality of behaving or speaking in such a way as to avoid causing offence or revealing confidential information.
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the freedom to decide what should be done in a particular situation.
I'm curious if someone says they are " discretionary " are the ones that don't use it flashing each other when they meet, wearing upside pineapple brooches? Or sitting at a coffee shop table naked? |
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By *om TangoMan
over a year ago
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discretion For me is important. Judge me all yous fucking want. Not 2 fucks will be giving. I’m married. Wife knows I’m on a site. Doesn’t want to know what site or what I get up to. 1 rule. Don’t meet in our local town or get caught. Reason is she does not want her family and friends to find out. So discretion is needed to a certain degree with me. Can I head to Dublin or Belfast and meet for a coffee. Hell yes. Can I head to any town locally for a meeting. Hell no. So judging people because the ask for discretion is wrong until you know the reason behind it. |
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"discretion For me is important. Judge me all yous fucking want. Not 2 fucks will be giving. I’m married. Wife knows I’m on a site. Doesn’t want to know what site or what I get up to. 1 rule. Don’t meet in our local town or get caught. Reason is she does not want her family and friends to find out. So discretion is needed to a certain degree with me. Can I head to Dublin or Belfast and meet for a coffee. Hell yes. Can I head to any town locally for a meeting. Hell no. So judging people because the ask for discretion is wrong until you know the reason behind it. "
Nobody is judging anyone who asks for discretion.
The issue is that many ask for and expect it but don't respect others expectation and are happy to pass on their details. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"discretion For me is important. Judge me all yous fucking want. Not 2 fucks will be giving. I’m married. Wife knows I’m on a site. Doesn’t want to know what site or what I get up to. 1 rule. Don’t meet in our local town or get caught. Reason is she does not want her family and friends to find out. So discretion is needed to a certain degree with me. Can I head to Dublin or Belfast and meet for a coffee. Hell yes. Can I head to any town locally for a meeting. Hell no. So judging people because the ask for discretion is wrong until you know the reason behind it. "
I would think most people want discretion I just find it funny to be told in a first contact that the person is " discrete" abd its expected in return. I would think most people can meet in a coffee shop or hotel and act discrete, don't think anyone is going around shouting oh I'm a swinger.
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"discretion For me is important. Judge me all yous fucking want. Not 2 fucks will be giving. I’m married. Wife knows I’m on a site. Doesn’t want to know what site or what I get up to. 1 rule. Don’t meet in our local town or get caught. Reason is she does not want her family and friends to find out. So discretion is needed to a certain degree with me. Can I head to Dublin or Belfast and meet for a coffee. Hell yes. Can I head to any town locally for a meeting. Hell no. So judging people because the ask for discretion is wrong until you know the reason behind it.
I would think most people want discretion I just find it funny to be told in a first contact that the person is " discrete" abd its expected in return. I would think most people can meet in a coffee shop or hotel and act discrete, don't think anyone is going around shouting oh I'm a swinger.
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You'd be surprised. We were at a pre party for a big event in a pub not too long ago and one of the gang was going around telling staff and public in the bar that the group were swingers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Discretion means respecting other peoples privacy on Fab and sharing nothing with your Fab buddies that goes on between you both either in chat, sharing pics or any subsequent meets.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Discretion means respecting other peoples privacy on Fab and sharing nothing with your Fab buddies that goes on between you both either in chat, sharing pics or any subsequent meets.
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Exactly, does it really have to be spelt out for people |
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"Discretion means respecting other peoples privacy on Fab and sharing nothing with your Fab buddies that goes on between you both either in chat, sharing pics or any subsequent meets.
Exactly, does it really have to be spelt out for people"
Yes unfortunately it does.
I'm also very skeptical about people who don't care about their own identity and privacy. It doesn't fill me with confidence.
Telling real life friends or fellow Fab friends about what you've been upto with who and when is not cool.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Discretion means respecting other peoples privacy on Fab and sharing nothing with your Fab buddies that goes on between you both either in chat, sharing pics or any subsequent meets.
Exactly, does it really have to be spelt out for people
Yes unfortunately it does.
I'm also very skeptical about people who don't care about their own identity and privacy. It doesn't fill me with confidence.
Telling real life friends or fellow Fab friends about what you've been upto with who and when is not cool.
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I totally agree, but think you really can't explain this to people for whom gossip is a habit and a valuable currency. |
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"Discretion means respecting other peoples privacy on Fab and sharing nothing with your Fab buddies that goes on between you both either in chat, sharing pics or any subsequent meets.
Exactly, does it really have to be spelt out for people
Yes unfortunately it does.
I'm also very skeptical about people who don't care about their own identity and privacy. It doesn't fill me with confidence.
Telling real life friends or fellow Fab friends about what you've been upto with who and when is not cool.
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Apparently some believe that when they achieve a particular status on here they have a right to tell all to whoever is content to listen.
Others have to tag themselves with popular people in order to maintain their own status which often involves telling all.
It's only a matter of time before one pops into this thread to say how terrible it is. |
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"Discretion means respecting other peoples privacy on Fab and sharing nothing with your Fab buddies that goes on between you both either in chat, sharing pics or any subsequent meets.
Exactly, does it really have to be spelt out for people
Yes unfortunately it does.
I'm also very skeptical about people who don't care about their own identity and privacy. It doesn't fill me with confidence.
Telling real life friends or fellow Fab friends about what you've been upto with who and when is not cool.
I totally agree, but think you really can't explain this to people for whom gossip is a habit and a valuable currency."
I take your point. It becomes their nature. |
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"Discretion means respecting other peoples privacy on Fab and sharing nothing with your Fab buddies that goes on between you both either in chat, sharing pics or any subsequent meets.
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While thats a fab notion ... I think many on fab didn't get the memo  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Discretion means respecting other peoples privacy on Fab and sharing nothing with your Fab buddies that goes on between you both either in chat, sharing pics or any subsequent meets.
While thats a fab notion ... I think many on fab didn't get the memo "
Saying that u have had chatted to guys who start on about a meet they have had and what they got up to |
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"Discretion means respecting other peoples privacy on Fab and sharing nothing with your Fab buddies that goes on between you both either in chat, sharing pics or any subsequent meets.
While thats a fab notion ... I think many on fab didn't get the memo
Saying that u have had chatted to guys who start on about a meet they have had and what they got up to "
I would be more concerned about the people who start on about meets other people had and what they got up to.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Discretion means respecting other peoples privacy on Fab and sharing nothing with your Fab buddies that goes on between you both either in chat, sharing pics or any subsequent meets.
While thats a fab notion ... I think many on fab didn't get the memo
Saying that u have had chatted to guys who start on about a meet they have had and what they got up to "
That should say I have chatted.
I couldn't care less what people get up to , who they do, who they did, my only concern would be my safety, I'll make my own mind up about people but I have seen the gossip mills in action.. |
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