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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve recently seen a thread where the other person wanted someone to take their pics and give them suggestions on what they should put in their profile. Surely you can’t put any less effort into fab than that?
Would you be attracted to someone who put zero effort into being on fab? My thoughts are if they’ve put zero effort into their profile surely they’d put zero effort into having sex and you’d have to do all the work yourself!  |
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Profiles that feel they don't have to make much effort because they will obviously get lots of messages anyway are laughable.
Then they wonder why the quality of messages they receive is so crap and they struggle to get repeat meets. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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Of course they can make less effort.There are literally hundreds of blank profiles with fill in later on here. Or even worse people who use others bios and pics on here.
Someone asking for advice on pics they should put up doesn't bother me at least they are looking for ideas and thinking about improving their profile.If they actually act on advice given is another matter though as most who post those threads don't.
It's easy to ignore profiles that don't appeal or lack effort though so it's never an issue. |
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I would have respect for anyone looking for advice on how to better utilise what fab has to offer. Some, but not many, actually do take the advice.
Interestingly I have never seen a woman ask for advice. |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
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"I would have respect for anyone looking for advice on how to better utilise what fab has to offer. Some, but not many, actually do take the advice.
Interestingly I have never seen a woman ask for advice."
Pussy privilege! Even if a woman has fuck all on her profile or has the narkiest profile in the world, she’ll still get messages and people wanting to meet her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would have respect for anyone looking for advice on how to better utilise what fab has to offer. Some, but not many, actually do take the advice.
Interestingly I have never seen a woman ask for advice."
Thays csuse they ask each other |
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We receive messages from single men with blank or really minimal profiles all the time and I always try and reply when time allows.
Once or twice lately I've made a polite and genuine suggestion for their profile, before wishing them success. The advice has NEVER been received well.
What can you do, it is what it is  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We receive messages from single men with blank or really minimal profiles all the time and I always try and reply when time allows.
Once or twice lately I've made a polite and genuine suggestion for their profile, before wishing them success. The advice has NEVER been received well.
What can you do, it is what it is "
Unsolicited advice is generally perceived as criticism
My view is that if they don't have the nous to figure it out for themselves, there's no helping them |
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"We receive messages from single men with blank or really minimal profiles all the time and I always try and reply when time allows.
Once or twice lately I've made a polite and genuine suggestion for their profile, before wishing them success. The advice has NEVER been received well.
What can you do, it is what it is
Unsolicited advice is generally perceived as criticism
My view is that if they don't have the nous to figure it out for themselves, there's no helping them "
Harsh, but fair! |
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If someone puts no effort into their profile and the first message, I don't see why they expect someone else to make the effort and reply.
I'll only reply if there's something that is potentially interesting about the person and that can only really happen if some effort has been made |
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It's not just single men it has to be said.
I've had more than a few lackluster messages from couple profiles that apparently I should be grateful for.
Often with a demand for a face pic and no offer of one up front. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not just single men it has to be said.
I've had more than a few lackluster messages from couple profiles that apparently I should be grateful for.
Often with a demand for a face pic and no offer of one up front."
Not so much lacklustre messages , but a lack of engagement in the conversation gives a feeling of just being kept in the loop with mo real interest so I just delete and move on. |
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Oooooh I remember said thread...
When people ask for advice then take the advice and actually use it to improve their own profile - 100 % respect.
That individual wanted someone to write their bio for them and take the time to meet him to take some flattering photos for them because they couldn't be arsed to put in the effort themselves.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oooooh I remember said thread...
When people ask for advice then take the advice and actually use it to improve their own profile - 100 % respect.
That individual wanted someone to write their bio for them and take the time to meet him to take some flattering photos for them because they couldn't be arsed to put in the effort themselves.
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Yeah, that’s the one I’m thinking of. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve recently seen a thread where the other person wanted someone to take their pics and give them suggestions on what they should put in their profile. Surely you can’t put any less effort into fab than that?
Would you be attracted to someone who put zero effort into being on fab? My thoughts are if they’ve put zero effort into their profile surely they’d put zero effort into having sex and you’d have to do all the work yourself! "
lol surprised didn't ask them to write profile for them lol |
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