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By *og-Man OP Man
over a year ago
somewhere |
Seems to be a badge of pride from some men that they have never cum from a blowjob
So how do men and women feel about a woman not having an orgasm during oral sex
Does going down for hours on a profile just mean that your just not that good at it
Any thoughts
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes maybe. But if nothing was happening I'd have switched it up long before the hours mark 
Sometimes, no matter how good or skilled someone is, the orgasm just isn't going to happen and that's no-ones fault |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
Galway |
I think sometimes people focus too much on the orgasm as an end point.
Things can feel amazing and satisfying without there actually being an orgasm.
It’s also important to pay attention to body language but that is harder with a new person. |
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Doesn't bother me because it's never been a challenge and I would be working in minutes rather than hours.
I've never had any complaints even when it hasn't happened so it hasn't affected my credit score. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sounds exhausting, is that why some fall asleep during oral?"
I always fall asleep after I cum. Especially if I have cum a few times.
That’s why I always make sure a man cums 1st. Orgasms for me take up so much energy.
Need to rest my eyes for a bit  |
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By *og-Man OP Man
over a year ago
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"Sounds exhausting, is that why some fall asleep during oral?
I always fall asleep after I cum. Especially if I have cum a few times.
That’s why I always make sure a man cums 1st. Orgasms for me take up so much energy.
Need to rest my eyes for a bit "
I too need my 5 min nap when I'm allowed ....especially if Ive to drive home |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oral plus toys/ fingers is actually the easiest for me to come. If I am really horny just oral does the trick  . But has to be done just the right way  "
Oral is like most things in life, practice practice practice and that combined with a smidging of confidence in your own abilities and hey presto it will have the desired result 9 times out of 10. With new partners the ability to read body language can be harder so open clear verbal communication also helps. If I’m honest when a partner hasn’t cum from oral most times it was my ego at fault |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seems to be a badge of pride from some men that they have never cum from a blowjob
So how do men and women feel about a woman not having an orgasm during oral sex
Does going down for hours on a profile just mean that your just not that good at it
Any thoughts
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Definitely wouldn't call it a badge of pride! I wish i could it just doesn't happen
And as far as oral on a woman, if you're a good enough lover you'll know it isn't working and move on to something else! You'll both find a groove and get down to it!  |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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"Seems to be a badge of pride from some men that they have never cum from a blowjob
So how do men and women feel about a woman not having an orgasm during oral sex
Does going down for hours on a profile just mean that your just not that good at it
Any thoughts
Definitely wouldn't call it a badge of pride! I wish i could it just doesn't happen
And as far as oral on a woman, if you're a good enough lover you'll know it isn't working and move on to something else! You'll both find a groove and get down to it! "
This 100%  |
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An orgasm starts in her brain, so a relaxed ambiance, easy chat, gentle approach, teasing with tongue and lips,.. And maybe take the long way around before you even go near her clit.
Dont chase an orgasm,... as a poster above said , its nobody's fault if orgasm doesnt happen. Its an experience, an adventure, no goal,. Listen to her cues, body language, and sounds she's making.
Oh, soft tongue.. Very important. |
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"Oral plus toys/ fingers is actually the easiest for me to come. If I am really horny just oral does the trick . But has to be done just the right way
I could have wrote this myself "
Glad I am not the only one |
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"Seems to be a badge of pride from some men that they have never cum from a blowjob
So how do men and women feel about a woman not having an orgasm during oral sex
Does going down for hours on a profile just mean that your just not that good at it
Any thoughts
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Hours?,if I haven't orgasmed within ten minutes ,im ready for doggy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oral plus toys/ fingers is actually the easiest for me to come. If I am really horny just oral does the trick . But has to be done just the right way
I could have wrote this myself "
Absolutely this, my other half is the master of making me cum this way, but I have to stop him as I love us cumming together anally or vaginally |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"An orgasm starts in her brain, so a relaxed ambiance, easy chat, gentle approach, teasing with tongue and lips,.. And maybe take the long way around before you even go near her clit.
Dont chase an orgasm,... as a poster above said , its nobody's fault if orgasm doesnt happen. Its an experience, an adventure, no goal,. Listen to her cues, body language, and sounds she's making.
Oh, soft tongue.. Very important. "
Eloquently put  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"An orgasm starts in her brain, so a relaxed ambiance, easy chat, gentle approach, teasing with tongue and lips,.. And maybe take the long way around before you even go near her clit.
Dont chase an orgasm,... as a poster above said , its nobody's fault if orgasm doesnt happen. Its an experience, an adventure, no goal,. Listen to her cues, body language, and sounds she's making.
Oh, soft tongue.. Very important.
Eloquently put "
It’s how safe and comfortable you make a woman feel.
If your gonna be a c*nt chances of her climaxing will fall dramatically.
Everything comes down to energy exchange. If a woman choose not to have sexual relations or isn’t fully present with you it’s because she doesn’t feel safe in the energy / space you are providing her to her at the time.
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
Dunboyne |
I do recall trying various times with a FWB who said she never has an orgasm from oral. Of course I tried on various occasions, for varying lengths of time and she said she always enjoyed it for the first 5-10mins but then wanted to move on to other stimuli.
Then one day I tried a different approach and angle. 5mins or so and she orgasmed hard and grabbed my head like a demon as she thrust into my face, probably so she didn't have to see the smug I Told You I Could grin on my face
I'm not saying there's always a way but I am saying you need to try different approaches, just in case they work and provide a new type of pleasure for a play partner
Just don't be a dick about it. That's not oral  |
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By *om TangoMan
over a year ago
aughnacloy monaghan area |
May I be the first to say if I can’t make a lady cum by oral I feel very disappointed. Yes IT’s happened and ego did get damaged. I’m not afraid to admit I’ve failed at it. But I never go back to the start, I go back to where I failed. I think I’ve it mastered now. I would rush into in to get my kick from making her cum so I believe that’s where I failed. Nowadays I like to edge the lady. Well that’s when I get a chance. Bit of a dry season at the moment with me. |
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