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Strange mail

By *otass and scorpio OP Couple over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford

Anyone else get strange mail this morn , someone messaged us and said we are getting verified by bi guys who are over on fab guys too , then accused us of being the most unopened couple on fab towards bi men , no problem with gay bi men but for us sorry but it’s just a personal choice …. Person has now left fab again ……. We have a fair idea who it might be !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I got a mail this morning, the second in a week from a different single male profiles asking for somewhere for him and his female partner to meet, oh I could join in if I wanted.

ffs

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By *og-ManMan over a year ago

somewhere

"Anyone else get strange mail this morn , someone messaged us and said we are getting verified by bi guys who are over on fab guys too , then accused us of being the most unopened couple on fab towards bi men , no problem with gay bi men but for us sorry but it’s just a personal choice …. Person has now left fab again ……. We have a fair idea who it might be !! "

Feckin cheek of you having preferences on your own account

Yes there's men on here as straight and also on fab guys but thats their own business but obviously he was pissed off you wouldn't meet him

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By *otass and scorpio OP Couple over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford

"I got a mail this morning, the second in a week from a different single male profiles asking for somewhere for him and his female partner to meet, oh I could join in if I wanted.

ffs"
this place is so sad at times lol

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By *inkanddesireCouple over a year ago

Sth Dublin

Bi married cpl here but you have to respect people and their preferences

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By *otass and scorpio OP Couple over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford

"Bi married cpl here but you have to respect people and their preferences "
we respect all , we’re nice to all we meet regardless of sexuality , but we just don’t meet cpls with bi/gay men for play , if we meet at socials etc we chat away, no judgement

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By *otass and scorpio OP Couple over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford

Feckin cheek of you having preferences on your own account

Yes there's men on here as straight and also on fab guys but thats their own business but obviously he was pissed off you wouldn't meet him "
I’m not allowed be straight lol ??

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

On a previous profile about 5 or 6 years ago I got a message from a woman with 60 or 70 verifications who used to pop up on my local updates but we had never spoken.

She had 4 different profiles all of which had multiple verifications.

She told me she would never meet me because I had met and verified a woman who fucked bi men and they were all riddled with disease.

I blocked her and she sent me exactly the same message from the other 3 profiles which is how I knew they were all her.

The woman she was talking about is still my longest fab friend and her only crime was that she had played with a man who had rejected the other woman.

Strangely enough he was bi so not sure why she took the rejection so badly if she had such a low opinion of bi men.

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By *otass and scorpio OP Couple over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford

"On a previous profile about 5 or 6 years ago I got a message from a woman with 60 or 70 verifications who used to pop up on my local updates but we had never spoken.

She had 4 different profiles all of which had multiple verifications.

She told me she would never meet me because I had met and verified a woman who fucked bi men and they were all riddled with disease.

I blocked her and she sent me exactly the same message from the other 3 profiles which is how I knew they were all her.

The woman she was talking about is still my longest fab friend and her only crime was that she had played with a man who had rejected the other woman.

Strangely enough he was bi so not sure why she took the rejection so badly if she had such a low opinion of bi men. "
I think we may know who sent it , and they were rejected by us too but we thought we were friendly until the blocked us lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bi married cpl here but you have to respect people and their preferences "

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By *illow and FionnCouple over a year ago

Cork

That's our preference too. I mean, what do people expect? That you change your desires and preferences just for them?

I'm all for equality for all types of people but just because I'm not sexually into a certain type doesn't make me, or you, unopened! Weird term anyway.

Imagine trying to bully a gay person to be straight just because you want them! No fucking way would that be acceptable

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In my experience gay/bi men are very pushy types who can't seem to take no for an answer

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By *otass and scorpio OP Couple over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford

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By *otass and scorpio OP Couple over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford

That's our preference too. I mean, what do people expect? That you change your desires and preferences just for them?

I'm all for equality for all types of people but just because I'm not sexually into a certain type doesn't make me, or you, unopened! Weird term anyway.

Imagine trying to bully a gay person to be straight just because you want them! No fucking way would that be acceptable "
no way will we change it’s just our preference , we don’t shun bi/gay lads when we’re at socials etc chat away ffs , but no play

I also have no dr ugs on our profile if we were at a party and someone breaks out a bag of whatever… should we partake in the festivities too or would we be labelled by another term ? No again it’s not for us , personal preferences is all

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By *otass and scorpio OP Couple over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford

"In my experience gay/bi men are very pushy types who can't seem to take no for an answer "
never had that problem with any of the ones we spoke to anyways . But there are pushy ppl from all walks of life

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By *r_Insatiable666Man over a year ago

Cork

Most of the fabs on my pics and most of the friend invites I have on my profile are men, straight or whatever. I haven't had any be pushy outside of the first request or message.

That said, anybody can be a tosspot

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By *illow and FionnCouple over a year ago

Cork

That's our preference too. I mean, what do people expect? That you change your desires and preferences just for them?

I'm all for equality for all types of people but just because I'm not sexually into a certain type doesn't make me, or you, unopened! Weird term anyway.

Imagine trying to bully a gay person to be straight just because you want them! No fucking way would that be acceptable no way will we change it’s just our preference , we don’t shun bi/gay lads when we’re at socials etc chat away ffs , but no play

Yup. That's pretty reasonable. People are unfortunately not. Fuck them.

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By *if_JuliaCouple over a year ago

Dungannon

We had a strange mail last week fro. A single male profile asking we're him and his wife could go out for dinner

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

I had some strange mail a couple of years ago with people asking my advice on organising parties and socials.

They wanted to know what venues were best and how to vet guests and promote the events.

Strange because I've never organised any fab events or even been involved in the organisation so I don't know what conversations are going on elsewhere.