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Face pic collectors that don't reciprocate
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What's that about?
I feel like naming and shaming them. Lesson learned if someone asks without giving, it hints at entitlement. If their profile is all bla bla bla my rules and smacks of entitlement, bin em off ASAP. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To true they ask and not return one same has some people looking to meet verified people and there not even verified on the site"
Well everyone starts unverified and works from there.... That's no big deal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not sure why you'd want to name & shame them *shrug*
All they're doing is asking for something. It's not against the site rules. No-one has to comply.
I dunno, but incompatibility isn't really a reason to name & shame is it?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know, but the request is do you want to share, then I do, then they don't keep up to their half of their suggested reciprocal sharing. And then poof, no explanation.
It is rude. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Maybe but then they shouldn't suggest swapping pics, they should be transparent and say this is how I am I collect first and decide after.
Anyway, I ve learned my lesson if someone asks without showing theirs first, there is something a bit rude about that, and they are not for me. Something unethical about suggesting sharing and then not following through. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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Maybe they knew you and decided to end all contact and not share theirs as you'd know them
Same thing happens to others everyday...best thing to do is move on but don't name and shame.....you'll get a ban |
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By *arl2020Man
over a year ago
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Happens all the unfortunately and another thing happens not sure if happens to anyone else but happens me as I always include pic with first msg I get blocked so either they know me outside of fab are I'm not for them but it's annoying |
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Name and shame gets you banned I think, or at least it's highly frowned upon.
Sorry it happened to you OP, it happens too often that you'll have to do deal with a pic collector or somebody who stands you up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Happens all the unfortunately and another thing happens not sure if happens to anyone else but happens me as I always include pic with first msg I get blocked so either they know me outside of fab are I'm not for them but it's annoying "
Why is it annoying? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing annoys me more, at least reply with a face pic and say this is me sorry for wasting your time but I’m not interested "
Why? Why would you need to see my face if we're never going to meet? What difference will it make?
Also...why would someone apologise for wasting your time simply because they're not attracted to you?  |
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"I don't get the whole pic collector why would someone want to collect face pics..now if they were other type of pics that I can understand.."
I can only answer from experience in that I've been sent facepics and names of well known women on here by another woman.
The pics were at least 2 years old at the time from when they had initially met and verified each other.
I've never met or even spoken to the other women but their "friend" decided I needed to know the type of women they really were and who they were.
I've no doubt she has shared my facepic with others as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get the whole pic collector why would someone want to collect face pics..now if they were other type of pics that I can understand..
I can only answer from experience in that I've been sent facepics and names of well known women on here by another woman.
The pics were at least 2 years old at the time from when they had initially met and verified each other.
I've never met or even spoken to the other women but their "friend" decided I needed to know the type of women they really were and who they were.
I've no doubt she has shared my facepic with others as well. "
I understand it from this perspective. I guess its because the "pic collectors" phrase is bandied about so much. I think they are rare - at least with regard to face photos. In most cases it's just someone who isn't interested not reciprocating. Of course the kicker is you can't know which it is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's that about?
I feel like naming and shaming them. Lesson learned if someone asks without giving, it hints at entitlement. If their profile is all bla bla bla my rules and smacks of entitlement, bin em off ASAP. "
Yes!!!!! |
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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't get the whole pic collector why would someone want to collect face pics..now if they were other type of pics that I can understand..
I can only answer from experience in that I've been sent facepics and names of well known women on here by another woman.
The pics were at least 2 years old at the time from when they had initially met and verified each other.
I've never met or even spoken to the other women but their "friend" decided I needed to know the type of women they really were and who they were.
I've no doubt she has shared my facepic with others as well. "
This I've seen women do alright as has been done to me as well and it's only for malicious use...
What I'm trying to say is for normal.meets as the op is suggesting I can't see it as a face pic collector more a person who just wasn't interested if ya get me.. |
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By *indenMan
over a year ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
"Nothing annoys me more, at least reply with a face pic and say this is me sorry for wasting your time but I’m not interested "
So you want someone who has rejected you to send you a picture of themselves? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nothing annoys me more, at least reply with a face pic and say this is me sorry for wasting your time but I’m not interested
So you want someone who has rejected you to send you a picture of themselves?"
I think it's more, If someone wants the option to reject me based on my face pic, and in an effort to procure that option they suggest swapping pics, then they should be willing to actually swap, or own the fact that they didn't uphold their side of the swap.
If they want a face pic they should share one first. Not suggest an exchange and not actually exchange. |
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"Nothing annoys me more, at least reply with a face pic and say this is me sorry for wasting your time but I’m not interested
That would be an absolutely mental thing to do"
 that response. That made me lol |
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If they want a face pic they should share one first. Not suggest an exchange and not actually exchange. "
I agree with that 
However, some like to chance their arm at receiving one first and having the option not to reciprocate. |
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"What's that about?
I feel like naming and shaming them. Lesson learned if someone asks without giving, it hints at entitlement. If their profile is all bla bla bla my rules and smacks of entitlement, bin em off ASAP. "
Why don’t we do something completely mad and send a face pic of ourselves to each other at the stroke of midnight. No messing around getting it blown up to A4 size on canvas in Harvey Norman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing annoys me more, at least reply with a face pic and say this is me sorry for wasting your time but I’m not interested
So you want someone who has rejected you to send you a picture of themselves?
I think it's more, If someone wants the option to reject me based on my face pic, and in an effort to procure that option they suggest swapping pics, then they should be willing to actually swap, or own the fact that they didn't uphold their side of the swap.
If they want a face pic they should share one first. Not suggest an exchange and not actually exchange. "
Well in future you'll know to tell them to go first  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing annoys me more, at least reply with a face pic and say this is me sorry for wasting your time but I’m not interested
So you want someone who has rejected you to send you a picture of themselves?"
That isn't the point...........the point is having the integrity to follow through with what was agreed. Too much fucking entitlement on this site. |
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"I know, but the request is do you want to share, then I do, then they don't keep up to their half of their suggested reciprocal sharing. And then poof, no explanation.
It is rude. "
If some one asks to share a picture then they should be the 1st to do so. That's how I always do it . If they don't then I certainly won't |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing annoys me more, at least reply with a face pic and say this is me sorry for wasting your time but I’m not interested
So you want someone who has rejected you to send you a picture of themselves?
That isn't the point...........the point is having the integrity to follow through with what was agreed. Too much fucking entitlement on this site. "
I'm still not sure what is to be gained by them "following through". |
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There's a lot of profiles invested in the procurement of face pics. Some in sharing them (not cool). Some people are down right rude about it too.
I stay well clear of entitled demands from profiles.
Live and learn OP
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is very annoying and disrespectful. It has happened me a few times, i dont mind people not fancing me as i know not everyone fancies everyone, but if you are chatting to someone for long enough that it gets to a stage where ye both agree to swap face pics and then the other doesnt send back it think its so disrespectful and it says alot about that person. |
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By *indenMan
over a year ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
"Nothing annoys me more, at least reply with a face pic and say this is me sorry for wasting your time but I’m not interested
So you want someone who has rejected you to send you a picture of themselves?
That isn't the point...........the point is having the integrity to follow through with what was agreed. Too much fucking entitlement on this site. "
Yes, I get that, and I agree, but unfortunately not everyone’s moral compass points in the same direction.
My point is, people are unlikely to send a face pic to a person they’re rejecting, while some may appreciate it and it’s a nice thing to do, others may not take the rejection so well and I’m sure that’s not the type of person you would want to have a face pic of you. |
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"Nothing annoys me more, at least reply with a face pic and say this is me sorry for wasting your time but I’m not interested
So you want someone who has rejected you to send you a picture of themselves?
That isn't the point...........the point is having the integrity to follow through with what was agreed. Too much fucking entitlement on this site.
Yes, I get that, and I agree, but unfortunately not everyone’s moral compass points in the same direction.
My point is, people are unlikely to send a face pic to a person they’re rejecting, while some may appreciate it and it’s a nice thing to do, others may not take the rejection so well and I’m sure that’s not the type of person you would want to have a face pic of you."
My understanding is it isn't about the rejection it's the feeling of being duped into a situation. Asking if she wanted to share face pics and them not fulfilling their part of the agreement. I'd be pissed too. This is very much what face pic collector's do.
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By *indenMan
over a year ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
"Nothing annoys me more, at least reply with a face pic and say this is me sorry for wasting your time but I’m not interested
So you want someone who has rejected you to send you a picture of themselves?
That isn't the point...........the point is having the integrity to follow through with what was agreed. Too much fucking entitlement on this site.
Yes, I get that, and I agree, but unfortunately not everyone’s moral compass points in the same direction.
My point is, people are unlikely to send a face pic to a person they’re rejecting, while some may appreciate it and it’s a nice thing to do, others may not take the rejection so well and I’m sure that’s not the type of person you would want to have a face pic of you.
My understanding is it isn't about the rejection it's the feeling of being duped into a situation. Asking if she wanted to share face pics and them not fulfilling their part of the agreement. I'd be pissed too. This is very much what face pic collector's do.
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Yes, I get that, and it’s a very unpleasant situation, personally if I’m at the stage of swapping face pics I follow through, but like I say, not everyone’s moral compass points in the same, or right direction.
But guess that’s the difference between collectors and genuine people. |
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"What's that about?
I feel like naming and shaming them. Lesson learned if someone asks without giving, it hints at entitlement. If their profile is all bla bla bla my rules and smacks of entitlement, bin em off ASAP. "
Well said. Same experience n views here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've no problem sharing ours, we won't meet unless we've swapped, and it says it on our profile but we'll often wait until who we're chatting with brings it up or asks to swap because then it's on them to send first, even if there's no attraction we'll still send ours and politely explain there's no attraction, any time that's happened it ended well.
What we won't do is send them on when the other side has put face pics in their opening message, plenty of single lads and especially couples who's profile seems a bit sus do this, that's the only time we won't reciprocate |
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What we won't do is send them on when the other side has put face pics in their opening message, plenty of single lads and especially couples who's profile seems a bit sus do this, that's the only time we won't reciprocate "
This is an example of a face pic collector. They send a fake face pic in their opening message so you'll feel obliged to return the favour, esp when the pic is of a good-looking couple. They usually only have one or two veris. The message is long, written by the 'female' and every line ends in a load of xxxxxx (kisses).
I suggest that you don't reciprocate with your face pic  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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What we won't do is send them on when the other side has put face pics in their opening message, plenty of single lads and especially couples who's profile seems a bit sus do this, that's the only time we won't reciprocate
This is an example of a face pic collector. They send a fake face pic in their opening message so you'll feel obliged to return the favour, esp when the pic is of a good-looking couple. They usually only have one or two veris. The message is long, written by the 'female' and every line ends in a load of xxxxxx (kisses).
I suggest that you don't reciprocate with your face pic "
Cheers! Learned that early enough into the journey here, always verified too which is what caught us out in the very beginning but came to learn that like you said they're pic collectors. When we say sus couples profile this is a primary example of what we would be on about. Few have popped up around our way lately too. |
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What we won't do is send them on when the other side has put face pics in their opening message, plenty of single lads and especially couples who's profile seems a bit sus do this, that's the only time we won't reciprocate
This is an example of a face pic collector. They send a fake face pic in their opening message so you'll feel obliged to return the favour, esp when the pic is of a good-looking couple. They usually only have one or two veris. The message is long, written by the 'female' and every line ends in a load of xxxxxx (kisses).
I suggest that you don't reciprocate with your face pic
Cheers! Learned that early enough into the journey here, always verified too which is what caught us out in the very beginning but came to learn that like you said they're pic collectors. When we say sus couples profile this is a primary example of what we would be on about. Few have popped up around our way lately too."
Sorry, I wasn't aiming the comment at you, it was more a general comment to anyone who may be getting these mails.
It was when it happened a few times and we noticed a pattern that the penny finally dropped  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's that about?
I feel like naming and shaming them. Lesson learned if someone asks without giving, it hints at entitlement. If their profile is all bla bla bla my rules and smacks of entitlement, bin em off ASAP. "
Women are the same I'm afraid they say send a pic or no reply or send to let them know your serious,it's in there profile that they would send back but nothing happen to me a few times. It's bs mostly and not genuine. |
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Took us quite a while to be Fab verified as Sue was nervous about sending any pics of her. Eventually she decided that I could post body pics though only one of her boobs so far and we sent full no face nude pic of both to get site verified. Caution and patience with others too is our motto but we never send pics without a face pic first and only face we send is mine not Sue as yet anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe they thought u weren't for them and didn't see any point in continuing and sending there's.."
Proper rude though. Its a really annoying thing. Swap face pics surely means swap. Its not the end of the world if theres no attraction. Imo |
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What we won't do is send them on when the other side has put face pics in their opening message, plenty of single lads and especially couples who's profile seems a bit sus do this, that's the only time we won't reciprocate
This is an example of a face pic collector. They send a fake face pic in their opening message so you'll feel obliged to return the favour, esp when the pic is of a good-looking couple. They usually only have one or two veris. The message is long, written by the 'female' and every line ends in a load of xxxxxx (kisses).
I suggest that you don't reciprocate with your face pic
Cheers! Learned that early enough into the journey here, always verified too which is what caught us out in the very beginning but came to learn that like you said they're pic collectors. When we say sus couples profile this is a primary example of what we would be on about. Few have popped up around our way lately too.
Sorry, I wasn't aiming the comment at you, it was more a general comment to anyone who may be getting these mails.
It was when it happened a few times and we noticed a pattern that the penny finally dropped "
Ah no bother, great point though about the pattern |
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What we won't do is send them on when the other side has put face pics in their opening message, plenty of single lads and especially couples who's profile seems a bit sus do this, that's the only time we won't reciprocate
This is an example of a face pic collector. They send a fake face pic in their opening message so you'll feel obliged to return the favour, esp when the pic is of a good-looking couple. They usually only have one or two veris. The message is long, written by the 'female' and every line ends in a load of xxxxxx (kisses).
I suggest that you don't reciprocate with your face pic
Cheers! Learned that early enough into the journey here, always verified too which is what caught us out in the very beginning but came to learn that like you said they're pic collectors. When we say sus couples profile this is a primary example of what we would be on about. Few have popped up around our way lately too.
Sorry, I wasn't aiming the comment at you, it was more a general comment to anyone who may be getting these mails.
It was when it happened a few times and we noticed a pattern that the penny finally dropped
Ah no bother, great point though about the pattern "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ass h0ley behaviour!! 
In fairness everyone knows what feckin JarJar looks like guess I should delete my account, and learn to knit
Sorry that was a star wars joke in case you didnt get it "
sorry learning to knit was a joke |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The person who suggested swapping photos should be the first to produce photos.
I still wouldn't share, meet up for a cuppa first see how yis get on "
does that mean you would expect face from them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The person who suggested swapping photos should be the first to produce photos.
I still wouldn't share, meet up for a cuppa first see how yis get on does that mean you would expect face from them? "
No I'd meet them first tell them what I was wearing, those who know me I never share a picture on line it's to dangerous as people share pics, and people asking for pics or no reply I just keep scrolling |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The person who suggested swapping photos should be the first to produce photos.
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Have to agree here. Also if someone just randomly sends me a face pic in the first few messages that doesn't mean that they are entitled to one back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Face is the most attractive part of a woman. I respect ladies who never want to share face pictures, I just think they are uglies. "
Really? I didn't share a face pic you |
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"Face is the most attractive part of a woman. I respect ladies who never want to share face pictures, I just think they are uglies. "
Yes, that must be the reason we won't share them, we're pure ugly |
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"Face is the most attractive part of a woman. I respect ladies who never want to share face pictures, I just think they are uglies.
Really? I didn't share a face pic you "
You did and I liked a lot … exactly as you are in flesh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it hilarious that just because a woman doesn't want to share a face photo with someone they are called uglies.
Maybe they just didn't want to share with you
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Face is the most attractive part of a woman. I respect ladies who never want to share face pictures, I just think they are uglies.
Yes, that must be the reason we won't share them, we're pure ugly "
2 hotties in person though  |
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"Face is the most attractive part of a woman. I respect ladies who never want to share face pictures, I just think they are uglies.
Yes, that must be the reason we won't share them, we're pure ugly
2 hotties in person though "
Thanks, you're a ride yourself missus |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Find it hard to believe there's ppl just collecting face pics. More likely they aren't interested and don't bother replying,no response is a response as some say |
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