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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

My interest in attending a night in a club keeps growing every day I'm on here. I'm concerned about the dress codes and expectations there. Would black jeans and a shirt be fine in some places? Dressing down is something for later on once I get more established in the scene I feel. I think the first couple events I attend would be strictly just to chat, dance and have a couple drinks, meet people etc, rather than play. Can I expect there to be a good enough amount of people attending doing the same thing as me?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple  over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Try a social first. That way no need to worry about changing and no pressure.

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By *he zephyrCouple  over a year ago

The Sol


"Try a social first. That way no need to worry about changing and no pressure. "

I second this advice OP. you are asking a lot of good questions that I'm sure will benefit many newbies.

Once you get to socials you will meet other fabbers who will share knowledge and tips with you too and there's no pressure

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By *ifestyleMan  over a year ago

Omagh & Dublin

Agreed a few socials is best first If you’re going to a club for the 1st time best to have a playmate with you as it’s very hard for single males to get involved with established friendships

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My interest in attending a night in a club keeps growing every day I'm on here. I'm concerned about the dress codes and expectations there. Would black jeans and a shirt be fine in some places? Dressing down is something for later on once I get more established in the scene I feel. I think the first couple events I attend would be strictly just to chat, dance and have a couple drinks, meet people etc, rather than play. Can I expect there to be a good enough amount of people attending doing the same thing as me?"

Definitely try social first. Way easier to talk to people. It's basically like a normal night out of chats drinks and dancing. No pressure and you get to meet loads of likeminded ppl

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Thank you all for the advise much appreciated. Social first it is, but which one?!

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By *ofusplusCouple  over a year ago

Limerick


"Thank you all for the advise much appreciated. Social first it is, but which one?! "

I'd suggest one (or several) of the smaller, less formal socials with around 20 people would be best for a start. The large socials can be intimidating if you don't know anyone or make arrangements to meet someone as many people already know each other.

Keep an eye on the Forums and bite the bullet when the right one comes up

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By *andR2019Couple  over a year ago

Nunya


"Thank you all for the advise much appreciated. Social first it is, but which one?! "

I seen you asked DV8 for an invite in their thread, if you get from one then go. We go to them and they’re great, especially for single guys get verified.

Regarding dressing for an event, I would wear jeans and a shirt or trouser and a shirt and never have an issue. Also you don’t have to dress down at the vast majority of events too, only if comfortable to do so.

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