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over a year ago
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Is there signs people are looking to swing or are swingers?? I met a woman and her husband out Saturday and I definitely got vibes from her. We danced and she grabbed my arm alot and didn't push my hand of her hips. Plus I got a whisper at the end of the night. But there was nothing obvious. And I didn't want to think it's a fantasy in my head and be weird and make a move. So do you have any signs you give off? |
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"That I was the best one. Outta the group I was with. But I still don't wanna misread signs and mess with a guys wife if he's not into it"
She might just have been having a bit of craic.
The only way to know for sure is to ask. |
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You can always ask them both at the same time, "are you guys on fab?".
If they say yes, well, then it can't get more obvious than that. But if they ask what's is fab? Then you say "I meant are you having a fab night ?"
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Or a bit more subtle way to lead the conversation in this direction is by asking:
"are you guys a couple?" Or "how long have you two been a couple?"
Whatever the answer they come back with will, in 90% of the cases, be followed by them asking "How about you? Are you seeing anyone? Or are you single?"
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Then here is the moment when you can open the door by saying "Ah no, I only date couples".
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Trust me, after giving them this answer, they will be coming at you left, right and centre with all sort of curious questions . This will be your opportunity to introduce the concept of fab, show them your profile, explain about the life style and the different kinds of no pressure events (socials and/or play parties), the different clubs in UK & EU, examples of some pleasure activities different multi-player scenarios might entail, etc...
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Then see where things go from there. If they really are non swingers but curious, they will either eagerly engage in the conversation and share some of their fantasies and might even ask you back at the end of the night for a "drink".
Or, they will freak out (usually the guy in about 70% of the cases), shut the conversation down and walk away.
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There are a few other tried and tested ways and strategirs to suss out a couple, but this could take a few hours to explain them all.  |
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"Is there signs people are looking to swing or are swingers?? I met a woman and her husband out Saturday and I definitely got vibes from her. We danced and she grabbed my arm alot and didn't push my hand of her hips. Plus I got a whisper at the end of the night. But there was nothing obvious. And I didn't want to think it's a fantasy in my head and be weird and make a move. So do you have any signs you give off? "
Huge difference between having a good time and a person wanting to fuck you , there is no way l would cross that line until absolutely sure , in a second the whole night could be totally fucked up . |
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