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By *astello OP Woman
over a year ago
Far far away |
Are you a masterful cunnilingus or are you fab at fellatio?
Any tips or tricks for novices?
Do you love or hate to receive or give?
Interested to hear from male and female perspective where it was good, bad or indifferent. |
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I love giving oral, not so much receiving, which I know sounds really odd but I always seem to have my mind wonder off when I’m getting oral and get a bit bored. On the other hand, I love giving, nothing more horny than giving a sneaky glance up to see your play partners eyes closed and an excited expression on their face, makes me rock hard. |
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over a year ago
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Absolutely love giving, been told I’m not too bad at it lol. Begins slowly and sensually, the occasional gaze and figuring out what makes the body writhe  |
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I'll give a tip to men to listen for the signs of what's working (breathing, wetness, noises) and if it's working dont stop and if it isn't then change it up. My tip to women is communicate verbally and non-verbally and make sure he knows when it's working and when it isn't. It doesn't need to be a guessing game. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to lean gently on lower stomach as I lick. Then by gently moving my hand or changing its pressure changes the angle of the clit and licking technique and the lady tends to respond accordingly thankfully. It also helps me slide my fingers in and rotating them to tease her g-spot at same time of licking her clit. It also changes things up for both as moves the sensations around the whole vagina and labia. |
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Yes… I’m with the majority here..,, love giving oral to women… huge part of foreplay for me with a goal of helping them cum before and intercourse.
Preferably she has a smooth pussy…. But at least very well trimmed / maintained…
Love receiving too although there is deffo an art to giving guy head…. I like them wet and a good mix of mouth and hand action… including balls sucking and , if she/he into it… wouldn’t say no to receiving some rimming
But as with everything… practice makes perfect…. Just wish I had more willing fab friends to practice on 
Happy licking fabbers   |
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I've gotten much better at communicating how I like to receive. Everyone is so different. I'm a pretty noisy lover anyway so you'll hear me when it's working but these days I feel very comfortable saying 'try it like this'. The results speak for themselves.
Asking how a woman likes it works just as well. Not everyone likes gentle pressure to start. My last partner like firm direct pressure on her clit and I'm pretty sure it would have taken me a long time to figure it out if I hadn't asked.
Pillow talk is a nice time to ask gentle questions about things like that.
Obviously I want to know how Linden does it now too  |
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He loves to give and he gets very very hard from it. He does prefer giving over receiving in general but hasn't complaint receiving some lately
Her is his opposite  . We are a perfect match in that regard  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find the best head I've gotten has been for people who GENUINELY love sucking cock.
Eating pussy makes me very hard, if sucking dick doesn't make you wet (or hard) , probably a good chance you ain't too good at it , but like all posts , just my take on it.
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"Are you a masterful cunnilingus or are you fab at fellatio?
Not too bad at all at giving cunnilingus
Any tips or tricks for novices?
Be yourself and deliver to her something totally different. Leave your signature with your tongue
Do you love or hate to receive or give?
Love both
Interested to hear from male and female perspective where it was good, bad or indifferent. "
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Presenting PLARR - a techique for giving (only tested on women):
Patience
Listen(observe)
Adjust
Review
Repeat
Given time we could improve the acronym.
Note: further test subjects required to complete the documentation technique... |
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I've never had any complaints or equally never had anyone stop me and offer suggestions which tells me I must be doing it right.
It's instinctual so I can't offer tips.
I always preferred giving and was never comfortable receiving because I thought I got more pleasure from giving pleasure but in more recent times I've been able to relax and trust so I can enjoy receiving. |
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I loving giving oral to sex lady . And I absolutely love a good blow job .
My good lady wife gives an amazing blow job as any of the gentlemen she has been with will testify to .
Its not all about the sucking it's about the tounge the licking the caressing playing with the balls . If she can do all that properly hold onto her for life. |
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By *astello OP Woman
over a year ago
Far far away |
Thanks to everyone thats contributed. Hopefully a few new tips learned.
Not as much feedback on bjs.. Cum on guys.. Spill... Pardon the pun..
What gets you going... Wet, sloppy, deep, hands, mouth, boobs.. Etc etc |
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Love to give but a bit 'meh' about receiving when most guys go straight for the bean and it's just too much, too soon.
Guys, take the time to sensually explore her body on the way down because by the time you get there she'll be literally begging you for it. Just a li'l advice
Mrs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love to give but a bit 'meh' about receiving when most guys go straight for the bean and it's just too much, too soon.
Guys, take the time to sensually explore her body on the way down because by the time you get there she'll be literally begging you for it. Just a li'l advice
Mrs "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I could give advice on blow jobs then I'd say eye contact is sexy as hell.....that and please watch your teeth ...they hurt "
Agree with this eye contact is unbelievable and swirl that tongue around the head |
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"Love to give but a bit 'meh' about receiving when most guys go straight for the bean and it's just too much, too soon.
Guys, take the time to sensually explore her body on the way down because by the time you get there she'll be literally begging you for it. Just a li'l advice
Mrs "
Do they really skip past those nipples |
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"Love to give but a bit 'meh' about receiving when most guys go straight for the bean and it's just too much, too soon.
Guys, take the time to sensually explore her body on the way down because by the time you get there she'll be literally begging you for it. Just a li'l advice
Mrs "
Good advice!! Thanks for taking the time to pass it on…. Now the question is to start so slowly from the calves… slowly up the inside of the thighs… letting the hands pass by to the nipples all before reaching the tongues final destination… or go the other way from lips… to lips taking everything in in between |
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i absolutelly adore to lick
pussy and feel it getting wet ,rimming her ass,nice touch,tasting all the juices exploring it with my tongue as it vibrates and of course cumming in my mouth,as well i love to receive a nice edging blowjob |
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"Love to give but a bit 'meh' about receiving when most guys go straight for the bean and it's just too much, too soon.
Guys, take the time to sensually explore her body on the way down because by the time you get there she'll be literally begging you for it. Just a li'l advice
Mrs
Good advice!! Thanks for taking the time to pass it on…. Now the question is to start so slowly from the calves… slowly up the inside of the thighs… letting the hands pass by to the nipples all before reaching the tongues final destination… or go the other way from lips… to lips taking everything in in between "
Now yer talking |
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"Love to give but a bit 'meh' about receiving when most guys go straight for the bean and it's just too much, too soon.
Guys, take the time to sensually explore her body on the way down because by the time you get there she'll be literally begging you for it. Just a li'l advice
Mrs
Good advice!! Thanks for taking the time to pass it on…. Now the question is to start so slowly from the calves… slowly up the inside of the thighs… letting the hands pass by to the nipples all before reaching the tongues final destination… or go the other way from lips… to lips taking everything in in between
Now yer talking "
I prefer the practical to the talking |
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"I've got to admit, I really enjoy the whole 69 thing. It's like this fantastic way to share pleasure with my partner and create this amazing connection. We're both totally involved and focused on each other's pleasure at the same time. It's not just the physical aspect that's great – it's the way it lets us communicate openly about what we enjoy and what feels good. Plus, it adds a level of excitement and adventure that keeps things fresh and enjoyable. All in all, it's been a fantastic experience that's brought us even closer together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks to everyone thats contributed. Hopefully a few new tips learned.
Not as much feedback on bjs.. Cum on guys.. Spill... Pardon the pun..
What gets you going... Wet, sloppy, deep, hands, mouth, boobs.. Etc etc"
All of the above but the key to good BJ is enthusiasm and not trying to make me cum asap |
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By *eMacMan
over a year ago
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I think the key for both lady’s and men is to love what your doing. We all know that people do it as they feel they have to and I think that can be obvious but when you have a lady or man really into it the result is simply amazing oral. I remember an old girlfriend from a good few years ago and her thing was bj’s, she got turned on sucking cock and my God she was sensational enjoyed receiving also. Also lads going straight down and mauling the clit is mad, take your time, start slowly, it’s a treasure trail…..enjoy amazing nipples on the way down that trail, some lady’s get soooo turned on with lots of attention to their breasts almost like there is an invisible thread to the glorious clit! |
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"Thanks to everyone thats contributed. Hopefully a few new tips learned.
Not as much feedback on bjs.. Cum on guys.. Spill... Pardon the pun..
What gets you going... Wet, sloppy, deep, hands, mouth, boobs.. Etc etc"
I like to be touched and teased for while before oral happens. There's hard and there's Hard and my sensitivity goes way up with the latter.
As for technique I like slow and deep to begin with and a knowledge of the more sensitive parts of a dick really helps. Creative use of a tongue and a hand is always a winner.
Like a lot of guys I also enjoy a periodic visual tease with eye contact and lots of licking.
Deep throat for me has been rare and it's a singular experience.
Finally if the lady is submissive and permissive, I do enjoy taking control. |
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"Thanks to everyone thats contributed. Hopefully a few new tips learned.
Not as much feedback on bjs.. Cum on guys.. Spill... Pardon the pun..
What gets you going... Wet, sloppy, deep, hands, mouth, boobs.. Etc etc
I like to be touched and teased for while before oral happens. There's hard and there's Hard and my sensitivity goes way up with the latter.
As for technique I like slow and deep to begin with and a knowledge of the more sensitive parts of a dick really helps. Creative use of a tongue and a hand is always a winner.
Like a lot of guys I also enjoy a periodic visual tease with eye contact and lots of licking.
Deep throat for me has been rare and it's a singular experience.
Finally if the lady is submissive and permissive, I do enjoy taking control."
Noted |
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By *astello OP Woman
over a year ago
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Thanks for all the amazing contributions.. No doubt it will help both sides have awesome oral experiences.
The common thread is communication and feedback. So be more vocal to become a cunnilingus master or fellatio fabster. |
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"Thanks for all the amazing contributions.. No doubt it will help both sides have awesome oral experiences.
The common thread is communication and feedback. So be more vocal to become a cunnilingus master or fellatio fabster. "
An oral officiator as opposed to an anal aficionado. |
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