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Help needed! Get her to cum!

By *orny_Harry_Belfast OP Man over a year ago

lisburn

I've never had any issues like this before but a new sexual partner is providing some challenges lol

She has an extremely sensitive clit and doesn't naturally get as wet as some others.

Please give me some techniques, advice, guidance please! I'm killing myself trying to perform and I need an expert to help LOL

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By *affa31Woman over a year ago

Galway

"I've never had any issues like this before but a new sexual partner is providing some challenges lol

She has an extremely sensitive clit and doesn't naturally get as wet as some others.

Please give me some techniques, advice, guidance please! I'm killing myself trying to perform and I need an expert to help LOL

I’m assuming you’ve asked her what she likes and how she likes to cum?

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

Stop seeing it as a challenge or the ultimate goal.

It will happen when it is meant to.

There's no one size fits all solution.

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By *om TangoMan over a year ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

How do u mean. Like making her cum while fucking her?? How long is the foreplay. U need to explain a bit more. Does she like u going down on her? Are u a straight in kinda guy?

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin

"I've never had any issues like this before but a new sexual partner is providing some challenges lol

She has an extremely sensitive clit and doesn't naturally get as wet as some others.

Please give me some techniques, advice, guidance please! I'm killing myself trying to perform and I need an expert to help LOL

good job keeping that private….

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By *om TangoMan over a year ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

OP I see ur in Lisburn. If u want I can head up and take a run at her??of course u can watch from a distance. That way we could rule out or in that ur doing something wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've never had any issues like this before but a new sexual partner is providing some challenges lol

She has an extremely sensitive clit and doesn't naturally get as wet as some others.

Please give me some techniques, advice, guidance please! I'm killing myself trying to perform and I need an expert to help LOL

I hate this post, just saying.

You're killing yourself trying to perform.. do you consider making her cum the only thing that makes sex worthwhile?? How about the fact lots of women don't cum easily, and that it has nothing to do with what a man may/may not be doing??

Sex is more than just an orgasm...

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By *he zephyrCouple over a year ago

The Sol

"I've never had any issues like this before but a new sexual partner is providing some challenges lol

She has an extremely sensitive clit and doesn't naturally get as wet as some others.

Please give me some techniques, advice, guidance please! I'm killing myself trying to perform and I need an expert to help LOL

Slow down and get away from her clit so. Try not to think of her body as a thing with magic cum buttons!

And don't get anxious, get gently curious.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Read the title of the thread and skipped the OP. Have you tried using treats as a reward?

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"OP I see ur in Lisburn. If u want I can head up and take a run at her??of course u can watch from a distance. That way we could rule out or in that ur doing something wrong. "

Such a gent

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By *adger BrocMan over a year ago

Co. Cork

A pint bottle or two of Guinness will sort most things.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple over a year ago

Portstewart

Sounds like there is pressure for you to make her orgasm personally to us it sounds like you need to take a step back and go back to just cuddling and touching and work forward from there. Orgasms are just a very small part of being intimate and with time and patience trust will come and things will become easier as you learn each others bodies

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By *iscuits8Man over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

"OP I see ur in Lisburn. If u want I can head up and take a run at her??"

Good jaysus... you've outdone yourself here, fair play

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By *XlalaXXWoman over a year ago

tipperary

"I've never had any issues like this before but a new sexual partner is providing some challenges lol

She has an extremely sensitive clit and doesn't naturally get as wet as some others.

Please give me some techniques, advice, guidance please! I'm killing myself trying to perform and I need an expert to help LOL

I’m assuming you’ve asked her what she likes and how she likes to cum?"

Of course he hasn’t

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By *XlalaXXWoman over a year ago

tipperary

"I've never had any issues like this before but a new sexual partner is providing some challenges lol

She has an extremely sensitive clit and doesn't naturally get as wet as some others.

Please give me some techniques, advice, guidance please! I'm killing myself trying to perform and I need an expert to help LOL

Horny Harry from Belfast

I’m calling bullish!t

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A pint bottle or two of Guinness will sort most things."

Do you rub it on or what?

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By *XlalaXXWoman over a year ago

tipperary

"A pint bottle or two of Guinness will sort most things.

Do you rub it on or what?"

Like lube x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sounds like there is pressure for you to make her orgasm personally to us it sounds like you need to take a step back and go back to just cuddling and touching and work forward from there. Orgasms are just a very small part of being intimate and with time and patience trust will come and things will become easier as you learn each others bodies "

I agree. You are putting yourself under pressure and she may sense this and that can make it harder for her.

Relax and slow down. It's not a competition and you can't really do a comparision to previous meets.

We are all different and kissing/cuddling is a bit part of feeling comfortable with someone else.

Communication is key.

Good luck

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By *ilthyNightsCouple over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Most (but not all) girls know what they need to cum. It's not a test. It's ok to talk to her and ask.

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By *chochamberWoman over a year ago

Munster

Lube, lube, lube....OB Yes, I think it's called is very good. Bullet on clit, you enter from the side, she ll like it.

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By *antra MassageMan over a year ago

South Side.

I wouldn't know where to start answering this.....

You guarantee privacy in your profile, and publish her intimate details on Fab.!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Jesus don't kill yourself Harry, would she be interested in a 3sum ?

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin

"I've never had any issues like this before but a new sexual partner is providing some challenges lol

She has an extremely sensitive clit and doesn't naturally get as wet as some others.

Please give me some techniques, advice, guidance please! I'm killing myself trying to perform and I need an expert to help LOL

Are you mistaking an air valve for a clit?

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By *rmrs1234Couple over a year ago

Waterford

Ooof this is....... yeah.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Jesus don't kill yourself Harry, would she be interested in a 3sum ?

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By *-4pleasureCouple over a year ago

Belfast

"I've never had any issues like this before but a new sexual partner is providing some challenges lol

She has an extremely sensitive clit and doesn't naturally get as wet as some others.

Please give me some techniques, advice, guidance please! I'm killing myself trying to perform and I need an expert to help LOL

Are you mistaking an air valve for a clit?"

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