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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello everyone,
I'm new here and I've been having some difficulty getting involved in the community. It's been over three months, and I still haven't been able to make any friends or connections. It's a bit disheartening.
If anyone has any advice or tips, I'd greatly appreciate it. I'm also open to casual chats and getting to know new people, so please feel free to say hi or hello. Everyone is welcome.
Thank you in advance for any help! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello everyone,
I'm new here and I've been having some difficulty getting involved in the community. It's been over three months, and I still haven't been able to make any friends or connections. It's a bit disheartening.
If anyone has any advice or tips, I'd greatly appreciate it. I'm also open to casual chats and getting to know new people, so please feel free to say hi or hello. Everyone is welcome.
Thank you in advance for any help!"
You have a profile pic .. and a verification |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Absolutely, making connections on forums is a great approach. Being genuine, humble, and respectful towards others goes a long way in fostering positive interactions and building relationships in these online communities. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely, making connections on forums is a great approach. Being genuine, humble, and respectful towards others goes a long way in fostering positive interactions and building relationships in these online communities. "
exactly. I'm the Queen of killing threads as you can see lol
Goodnight x Louise |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
Forums, socials, , prioritising meeting up with people and having unique selling points all important .
On a side note , everything about the profile screams out ‘bicurious’ yet it says straight on the profile . This paragraph is a whole load of code :
‘ My versatile personality allows me to adapt to any situation, always valuing discretion. I'm excited to connect with captivating individuals, including women and couples, and eager to explore a variety of delightful experiences together ‘
I think you need to be clear about that , especially given your veri. One way or another .
Your video is with a woman who hasn’t verified you . Does she know her genitals are on fab ? This and the above are the sort of questions people wondering whether to meet you will be asking in my opinion. I know I would be. |
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Funny how they moan about meets but willing to do nothing to get into that called community  cracks me up...I've offered coffee meets numerous times...but all I hear back...if there is no shag why would I meet?!or I'm not gonna waste my time just for a coffee meet |
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"Funny how they moan about meets but willing to do nothing to get into that called community cracks me up...I've offered coffee meets numerous times...but all I hear back...if there is no shag why would I meet?!or I'm not gonna waste my time just for a coffee meet "
I don't know how you can expect sex to a first meet. there's no guarantee you will like a person when you meet them. |
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"Funny how they moan about meets but willing to do nothing to get into that called community cracks me up...I've offered coffee meets numerous times...but all I hear back...if there is no shag why would I meet?!or I'm not gonna waste my time just for a coffee meet "
Got that a few times ourselves |
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Social events are the way to go. Everyone is friendly. You'll meet men and women and maybe make a few friends. That's when doors start to open if you're interested in taking part in swinging as a community. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Forums, socials, , prioritising meeting up with people and having unique selling points all important .
On a side note , everything about the profile screams out ‘bicurious’ yet it says straight on the profile . This paragraph is a whole load of code :
‘ My versatile personality allows me to adapt to any situation, always valuing discretion. I'm excited to connect with captivating individuals, including women and couples, and eager to explore a variety of delightful experiences together ‘
I think you need to be clear about that , especially given your veri. One way or another .
Your video is with a woman who hasn’t verified you . Does she know her genitals are on fab ? This and the above are the sort of questions people wondering whether to meet you will be asking in my opinion. I know I would be. "
Having just read your post I took a look at the the video. I was thinking I had seen it before so I checked on my Skype chats and there it was! Sent to me by a supposedly female I’d been chatting with on Skype !
Dodgy profiles everywhere |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
Galway |
"Forums, socials, , prioritising meeting up with people and having unique selling points all important .
On a side note , everything about the profile screams out ‘bicurious’ yet it says straight on the profile . This paragraph is a whole load of code :
‘ My versatile personality allows me to adapt to any situation, always valuing discretion. I'm excited to connect with captivating individuals, including women and couples, and eager to explore a variety of delightful experiences together ‘
I think you need to be clear about that , especially given your veri. One way or another .
Your video is with a woman who hasn’t verified you . Does she know her genitals are on fab ? This and the above are the sort of questions people wondering whether to meet you will be asking in my opinion. I know I would be. Having just read your post I took a look at the the video. I was thinking I had seen it before so I checked on my Skype chats and there it was! Sent to me by a supposedly female I’d been chatting with on Skype !
Dodgy profiles everywhere "
Another one busted!
Even it wasn’t fake, a bareback fucking vid or pic on a single guys profile is not a good look |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Forums, socials, , prioritising meeting up with people and having unique selling points all important .
On a side note , everything about the profile screams out ‘bicurious’ yet it says straight on the profile . This paragraph is a whole load of code :
‘ My versatile personality allows me to adapt to any situation, always valuing discretion. I'm excited to connect with captivating individuals, including women and couples, and eager to explore a variety of delightful experiences together ‘
I think you need to be clear about that , especially given your veri. One way or another .
Your video is with a woman who hasn’t verified you . Does she know her genitals are on fab ? This and the above are the sort of questions people wondering whether to meet you will be asking in my opinion. I know I would be. Having just read your post I took a look at the the video. I was thinking I had seen it before so I checked on my Skype chats and there it was! Sent to me by a supposedly female I’d been chatting with on Skype !
Dodgy profiles everywhere
Another one busted!
Even it wasn’t fake, a bareback fucking vid or pic on a single guys profile is not a good look"
Previous poster it correct! Does that unfortunate woman know she has been recorded and posted online? I doubt it very much ! |
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By *indenMan
over a year ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
"Your profile reads like a linkedin blurb and is jam-packed with cliches….
ps - “Impeccable sense of style ” is in the eye of the beholder.
Be yourself !! "
While I agrees with others that there are certainly aspects of the profile what may arouse suspicion and perhaps put some people off we should also probably be mindful that English may not be the OP’s first language.
Having said that, saying you’re clean shaven in your bio while you appear to have a beard in your pics is confusing, unless you weren’t talking about your face of course. |
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"Absolutely, making connections on forums is a great approach. Being genuine, humble, and respectful towards others goes a long way in fostering positive interactions and building relationships in these online communities. "
It’s not Linkedin, take it easy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely, making connections on forums is a great approach. Being genuine, humble, and respectful towards others goes a long way in fostering positive interactions and building relationships in these online communities.
It’s not Linkedin, take it easy"
Maybe he's looking for deeper market penetrations? |
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You say on this post that your on here over 3 months. Your pictures & verification are 8 to 10 month's old. Your profile says you joined 10 month's ago aswell. Like which is it 3, 8 or 10 month's?
I'm not having a go at you, far from it. You need to be clearer with all of that, along with the other problems that's already said by the other's in the different posts above. As they could be red flags & keep people away from you.
Be yourself on every front from the forum to social meets. Interact more on the forum. There's threads about socials that's happening in or around Dublin. Don't be waiting for a social to come up, just around Dublin, if you can at all. 
Be thankful you've got 1 meet verified. Loads on here don't even have that yet.
Good with everything OP. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Funny how they moan about meets but willing to do nothing to get into that called community cracks me up...I've offered coffee meets numerous times...but all I hear back...if there is no shag why would I meet?!or I'm not gonna waste my time just for a coffee meet I don't know how you can expect sex to a first meet. there's no guarantee you will like a person when you meet them.
Plenty of them who are looking for a shag on a first meet...sad that really must be real desperate "
In fairness there's plenty of both sexes that will have sex on a first meet if there's some sort of a spark....don't mean desperation |
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