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I met a woman from Dundrum today. She was nothing like her profile but I was polite enough to formulate in my head what I would say to let her down gently when the time came. We spoke about how strange this site can be and she mentioned how some folks would not show up and even vanish during a date.I sympathized with her and we laughed it off. When I returned from the gents she had vanished  leaving me with the tab and feeling slightly embarrassed.
No real point to this story and fits not an expose but just a be careful lads.  |
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over a year ago
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"I met a woman from Dundrum today. She was nothing like her profile but I was polite enough to formulate in my head what I would say to let her down gently when the time came. We spoke about how strange this site can be and she mentioned how some folks would not show up and even vanish during a date.I sympathized with her and we laughed it off. When I returned from the gents she had vanished leaving me with the tab and feeling slightly embarrassed.
No real point to this story and fits not an expose but just a be careful lads. "
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over a year ago
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"I met a woman from Dundrum today. She was nothing like her profile but I was polite enough to formulate in my head what I would say to let her down gently when the time came. We spoke about how strange this site can be and she mentioned how some folks would not show up and even vanish during a date.I sympathized with her and we laughed it off. When I returned from the gents she had vanished leaving me with the tab and feeling slightly embarrassed.
No real point to this story and fits not an expose but just a be careful lads. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I met a woman from Dundrum today. She was nothing like her profile but I was polite enough to formulate in my head what I would say to let her down gently when the time came. We spoke about how strange this site can be and she mentioned how some folks would not show up and even vanish during a date.I sympathized with her and we laughed it off. When I returned from the gents she had vanished leaving me with the tab and feeling slightly embarrassed.
No real point to this story and fits not an expose but just a be careful lads. "
All joking aside OP ... report profile to admin |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought this thread was going to be about things you left behind in the toilet. I forgot my phone once or twice!
But that's quite a story OP! What makes it is that she telegraphed what would happen.
But like someone else said, seems like embarrassment was saved all around in this case.  |
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Try and be philosophical about it. She didn't waste too much of your time. You didn't have to go through the awkwardness of turning her down. At least she turned up. She was probably very unsure of herself (given that she didn't represent herself truthfully). |
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"I met a woman from Dundrum today. She was nothing like her profile but I was polite enough to formulate in my head what I would say to let her down gently when the time came. We spoke about how strange this site can be and she mentioned how some folks would not show up and even vanish during a date.I sympathized with her and we laughed it off. When I returned from the gents she had vanished leaving me with the tab and feeling slightly embarrassed.
No real point to this story and fits not an expose but just a be careful lads. "
Did you at least get the veri?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Manners cost nothing..!!
In this case, they cost around €40 
Moral of the story; next date will be at a cheaper pub
Weatherspoons "
I wouldn't go into Weatherspoons if someone gave ME €40.
Actually, that's not true - I'm a really cheap date |
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"It was pints. Bill was €40 but it's not about the money. It's just rude and embarrassing "
Ahh she's just lost all the sympathy I had for her if she stayed long enough to run up that bill. I thought she just bottled it and ran, but that sounds more deliberate. |
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"Why would someone bother doing this? Attention? Insecurity?
You couldn't be that desperate for a few free drinks that you'd do that to someone  "
Free predrinks I'd say. She probably thinks she's terribly clever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry op for what happened to you, but it's funny that I heard a story of another guy that met a lady in dundrum recently.
They chatted over coffee, then decided to take it further.
He booked a hotel close by, she said she'd run to the toilet first and kept running.
He ended up with a hotel room which was non refundable and the coffee bill.
Not so "cool"??? |
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It's just another example of the level of crazy in the air.
There are lots of games played within these walls that only the gamers can explain but on a happy note sales of rose tinted spectacles are up.  |
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By *XlalaXXWoman
over a year ago
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"Sorry op for what happened to you, but it's funny that I heard a story of another guy that met a lady in dundrum recently.
They chatted over coffee, then decided to take it further.
He booked a hotel close by, she said she'd run to the toilet first and kept running.
He ended up with a hotel room which was non refundable and the coffee bill.
Not so "cool"???"
That’s actually some sick sh!t
Makes u wonder how blokes get a hard time on here when women r carrying on like that |
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When I was 17 I went to work in a bar in London and this really hot girl was hitting on me at work. She invited me to the local nightclub after with her friend.
When I got there she asked me to mind her handbag and left me sitting there.
I'm still processing it. |
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"When I was 17 I went to work in a bar in London and this really hot girl was hitting on me at work. She invited me to the local nightclub after with her friend.
When I got there she asked me to mind her handbag and left me sitting there.
I'm still processing it."
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She must have felt you are trustworthy. Just out of curiosity, did she come back to collect her bag ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happened me once, in Cork city. Spent 3 or 4 hours chatting away, drinks served to the table, me paying, and when I came back from the toilets she was gone. I left, and could see her walking down the street, hand in hand with someone else. I left the site after that, but got my confidence back and rejoined, and met really nice people.
There's allsorts out there, just to give it time to find the nice ones (with a devilish attitude in bed, street angels, bed devil's).... |
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"When I was 17 I went to work in a bar in London and this really hot girl was hitting on me at work. She invited me to the local nightclub after with her friend.
When I got there she asked me to mind her handbag and left me sitting there.
I'm still processing it.
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She must have felt you are trustworthy. Just out of curiosity, did she come back to collect her bag ? "
Eventually. She brought up the back of the car park. It took me about a year to realise she wanted to have sex and she laughed at me for wanting to hold hands. |
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I just remembered the time I went with a fabber to Dublin zoo and at the gate he asked me would I mind paying for my own ticket, I agreed I would, at which point he pulls out a 2-for-1 voucher, so I paid for my ticket and he went in for free.
Actually that didn't happen, I'm just lightening the mood, but the moral of these stories are there is and always will be those who have no problem taking or making, whether that be coffee, drinks, coctails, food or hotels, just put it down to experience. Nice choice on the bar btw, not many will let you sit drinking without payment.
And one more thing OP, if someone was not like their profile in any way why would you stay drinking? I realise you were being kind but one drink would still have been considered gentlemanly.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just remembered the time I went with a fabber to Dublin zoo and at the gate he asked me would I mind paying for my own ticket, I agreed I would, at which point he pulls out a 2-for-1 voucher, so I paid for my ticket and he went in for free.
Actually that didn't happen, I'm just lightening the mood, but the moral of these stories are there is and always will be those who have no problem taking or making, whether that be coffee, drinks, coctails, food or hotels, just put it down to experience. Nice choice on the bar btw, not many will let you sit drinking without payment.
And one more thing OP, if someone was not like their profile in any way why would you stay drinking? I realise you were being kind but one drink would still have been considered gentlemanly.
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I suppose you wanna give people the benefit of the doubt, but I would feel very uncomfortable saying to someone that they're nothing like their profile - that's just me.
I've not had any experience like that on fab, but on dating sites. Turned up for coffee and you'd swear I'd farted in her face. I normally wouldn't mind, but it was a 2 hour drive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe this woman in Dundrum gets a weird buzz from what she does
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Where is Dundrum anyway ?
Just need to update my Google Map route options. Avoid motorway, tolls and Dundrum "
I've only been to the big shopping centre there |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Maybe this woman in Dundrum gets a weird buzz from what she does"
This
She knows its easy if she's deleting her profile and then setting up again to try her luck
At least its in the open now and hopefully others now are more weary of meeting in Dundrum
I presume it was the pub in Dundrum and it's fairly easy to disappear going to or coming back from the toilets
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"Maybe this woman in Dundrum gets a weird buzz from what she does
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Where is Dundrum anyway ?
Just need to update my Google Map route options. Avoid motorway, tolls and Dundrum
I've only been to the big shopping centre there"
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Oooooo, they have a big shopping centre, nice. I might reconsider then. After all my fab promotion campaigns take place in shopping centres.
True story . I put a table, brochures, free kissing samples and everything |
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You make a fair point, that said, I had travelled quite a distance so I thought no harm in hanging out for a couple of drinks. The conversation was flowing and we even had a laugh about this and that.
I paid for the first round then they offered a tab after that.
I am putting it down to experience but as I said earlier, two others have contacted and now a third person with the same complaint. |
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True story . I put a table, brochures, free kissing samples and everything
When’s the next day that this is on? And is there much tongue in the kisses?
Asking for a friend…"
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Well, in the spirit of this post I think the next campaign should be in Dundrum
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Terms & Conditions apply though:
1- Attendees shall not take a trip to the toilet until the end of the event.
2- Attendees must hand in all their 2-for-1 vouchers prior to entry to the venue.
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By *eth TVTV/TS
over a year ago
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Well, in the spirit of this post I think the next campaign should be in Dundrum
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Terms & Conditions apply though:
1- Attendees shall not take a trip to the toilet until the end of the event.
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Perhaps I could slip on a Tena Lady. Five drops; I’ve a fierce goo on me  |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"I’m mad to know would she have a different version of events "
Since her modus operandi seems to be drink ,go and delete her profile we'll never know but she probably gets a huge kick out of it especially if she's reading this thread
I can understand a person disappearing at an opertune moment for a number of reasons
A neighbour walked in or just chickened out of telling someone thanks and goodbye there's no spark
But stiffing someone for the bill is not right
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"I’m mad to know would she have a different version of events
Yeah, like how long was he in the bathroom for? "
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We will never know. Well, of course not until she creates a new profile instead of the one deleted and put up pictures from 15-20 years ago (or the ones taken from the right angles). Only then we could have a small window of opportunity to ask her before she deletes that profile again. |
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"Yes after a drink we sat out back in the beer garden/shipping container area. I had went bathroom at one point and she'd done a runner and I was blocked on what's app by then. "
If she blocked you on WhatsApp then she has you blocked but not others.
Send me her number. I'll ask her myself why she left you sitting with the bill.
Leaving someone with the bill like that is a c*nt of a move (to put it in it's mildest form).
Woman should be ashamed of herself. |
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"Yes after a drink we sat out back in the beer garden/shipping container area. I had went bathroom at one point and she'd done a runner and I was blocked on what's app by then.
If she blocked you on WhatsApp then she has you blocked but not others.
Send me her number. I'll ask her myself why she left you sitting with the bill.
Leaving someone with the bill like that is a c*nt of a move (to put it in it's mildest form).
Woman should be ashamed of herself."
Agree entirely |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Unfortunately there are people out there that we will never understand the inner workings of their minds. All you can do is try and learn from it. Again as I said earlier it was horrible that this happened to you. Don't let her destroy your confidence as there are lots of good decent people on fab. You will rise above this . |
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Sh1tty thing to do, childish as well, happens to us all at one time or another.
I met a guy for an after work drink, he was rushing to the airport and meeting Me briefly. I ll admit I prob wasn't looking my best, in a very conservative work outfit. We were chatting away, walked into the busy pub, I kept walking trying to find a seat, when I turned around he was gone, he ld done a legger and blocked me.
This was from a dating site, not fab. |
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"Sh1tty thing to do, childish as well, happens to us all at one time or another.
I met a guy for an after work drink, he was rushing to the airport and meeting Me briefly. I ll admit I prob wasn't looking my best, in a very conservative work outfit. We were chatting away, walked into the busy pub, I kept walking trying to find a seat, when I turned around he was gone, he ld done a legger and blocked me.
This was from a dating site, not fab. "
Thanks, at first I was mortified to be honest but I'm fine now, I know it's her and not me given that she's a repeat offender.
This post has help me see there are plenty of nice folks on fab. I appreciate your kind words, thank you |
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"Yes after a drink we sat out back in the beer garden/shipping container area. I had went bathroom at one point and she'd done a runner and I was blocked on what's app by then.
If she blocked you on WhatsApp then she has you blocked but not others.
Send me her number. I'll ask her myself why she left you sitting with the bill.
Leaving someone with the bill like that is a c*nt of a move (to put it in it's mildest form).
Woman should be ashamed of herself."
. Pm sent |
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over a year ago
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"I’m mad to know would she have a different version of events
Yeah, like how long was he in the bathroom for?
This made me lol way too hard "
And did she completely finish her drink |
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By *XlalaXXWoman
over a year ago
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"I’m mad to know would she have a different version of events
Yeah, like how long was he in the bathroom for?
This made me lol way too hard
And did she completely finish her drink"
Finished hers AND his |
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"You'd wonder what goes through people's minds when they pull stunts like that. It's a pretty sly and cowardly thing to do.
It’s calculated
And it’s becoming apparent she has previous "
Not to put too fine a point on it... She sounds a bit of a c*nt
But, does she have nice tits OP? |
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"You'd wonder what goes through people's minds when they pull stunts like that. It's a pretty sly and cowardly thing to do.
It’s calculated
And it’s becoming apparent she has previous
Not to put too fine a point on it... She sounds a bit of a c*nt
But, does she have nice tits OP?"
They looked decent in her photos. But she looked far less flattering irl. |
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By *XlalaXXWoman
over a year ago
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"You'd wonder what goes through people's minds when they pull stunts like that. It's a pretty sly and cowardly thing to do.
It’s calculated
And it’s becoming apparent she has previous
Not to put too fine a point on it... She sounds a bit of a c*nt
But, does she have nice tits OP?
They looked decent in her photos. But she looked far less flattering irl. "
Story of my life lol |
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By *XlalaXXWoman
over a year ago
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"You'd wonder what goes through people's minds when they pull stunts like that. It's a pretty sly and cowardly thing to do.
It’s calculated
And it’s becoming apparent she has previous
Not to put too fine a point on it... She sounds a bit of a c*nt
But, does she have nice tits OP?"
More to life than nice tits |
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"You'd wonder what goes through people's minds when they pull stunts like that. It's a pretty sly and cowardly thing to do.
It’s calculated
And it’s becoming apparent she has previous
Not to put too fine a point on it... She sounds a bit of a c*nt
But, does she have nice tits OP?
More to life than nice tits "
Whaaaaaa? |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
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"Yes after a drink we sat out back in the beer garden/shipping container area. I had went bathroom at one point and she'd done a runner and I was blocked on what's app by then.
If she blocked you on WhatsApp then she has you blocked but not others.
Send me her number. I'll ask her myself why she left you sitting with the bill.
Leaving someone with the bill like that is a c*nt of a move (to put it in it's mildest form).
Woman should be ashamed of herself.. Pm sent "
Please don’t tell me you’ve sent on her phone number to a stranger |
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By *XlalaXXWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes after a drink we sat out back in the beer garden/shipping container area. I had went bathroom at one point and she'd done a runner and I was blocked on what's app by then.
If she blocked you on WhatsApp then she has you blocked but not others.
Send me her number. I'll ask her myself why she left you sitting with the bill.
Leaving someone with the bill like that is a c*nt of a move (to put it in it's mildest form).
Woman should be ashamed of herself.. Pm sent
Please don’t tell me you’ve sent on her phone number to a stranger "
Hey girl
I really want her version of events |
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"Yes after a drink we sat out back in the beer garden/shipping container area. I had went bathroom at one point and she'd done a runner and I was blocked on what's app by then.
If she blocked you on WhatsApp then she has you blocked but not others.
Send me her number. I'll ask her myself why she left you sitting with the bill.
Leaving someone with the bill like that is a c*nt of a move (to put it in it's mildest form).
Woman should be ashamed of herself.. Pm sent
Please don’t tell me you’ve sent on her phone number to a stranger "
I'd probably get in trouble with the fabmasters if I did that  |
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"You'd wonder what goes through people's minds when they pull stunts like that. It's a pretty sly and cowardly thing to do."
There are opportunists everywhere. They'd take your eye out if they thought they could get away with it. Kinda shocking when you yourself have been brought up to treat people with respect. It's often down to poor parenting I think. |
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Also must have been a posh place if you didn't have to pay upfront.
