The first thing you look for in a potential partner, be it sex or serious, either or. What’s your first go 2 that pulls you in?
For me it’s looks. No point saying otherwise. I have to physically fancy them and that comes from using one’s eyes. The rest follows. |
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"Yes.. it's looks.. but that doesn't mean conventionally fashion-magazine attractive. It’s a certain something that physically clicks or doesn't. "
exactly. I don’t have a physical type, it’s something attracts me and that can vary.
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
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Obviously if your first interaction is in person, it’s likely the way they look that will draw you in…I tend to take a second glance at tall, broad guys with beards.
If it’s here and our first interaction is chatting, it’s a sense of humour, the ability to make me laugh and be slightly ridiculous. |
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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago
Meath / Dublin / Birmingham |
"I tend to take a second glance at tall, broad guys with beards."
Ah shite
"If it’s here and our first interaction is chatting, it’s a sense of humour, the ability to make me laugh and be slightly ridiculous."
But hold on a second! |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
Galway |
"I tend to take a second glance at tall, broad guys with beards.
Ah shite
If it’s here and our first interaction is chatting, it’s a sense of humour, the ability to make me laugh and be slightly ridiculous.
But hold on a second!"
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"Obviously if your first interaction is in person, it’s likely the way they look that will draw you in…I tend to take a second glance at tall, broad guys with beards.
If it’s here and our first interaction is chatting, it’s a sense of humour, the ability to make me laugh and be slightly ridiculous. "
Looks like I tick all the boxes.....except the "slightly ridiculous" one.
I am actually totally ridiculous so I guess that's me out of the running.
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For me, If it's face to face, it's look's first, like yourself OP. The rest can or should follow.
If it's online, like here, it's there personality, while we're interacting. For me personally, that can be a hard thing to get across to people.
Everyone is different &'each to there own.   |
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"Face to face there certainly has to be an attraction, but as others have said that doesn't mean coverboy/girl pretty.
Personality and confidence are more attractive traits than looks."
Just add angel wings and you have the perfect combination.  |
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