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By *onegalfunguy OP   Man  over a year ago

Donegal

How can we identify swingers when out and about,can we come up with something, let's hear them ?

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By *og-ManMan  over a year ago

somewhere

An upside down pineapple sticker on their forehead

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"An upside down pineapple sticker on their forehead "

Other than that we could all put badges on saying I’m a swinger! Lol It would seriously help matters, don’t you think!

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By *ilthyNightsCouple  over a year ago

East / North, Cork

No. Theres no universal secret sign that's used that you can look for here in Ireland. Anyone who tells you otherwise is bullshitting. Swinging is Ireland is so rare that you're unlikely to come across swingers in a regular night out. Your best bet is to pull an interested non-swinger.

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By *ammerandthongsCouple  over a year ago

Limerick

The female plays pool while the male takes some revealing pics

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By *aidbare5Couple  over a year ago

down the road


"No. Theres no universal secret sign that's used that you can look for here in Ireland. Anyone who tells you otherwise is bullshitting. Swinging is Ireland is so rare that you're unlikely to come across swingers in a regular night out. Your best bet is to pull an interested non-swinger."

This sits on the top of our fantasy list

A few weeks ago when out we got chatting to a couple, clicked straight away, loads of fun and you could feel the flirting. They even invited us to stay in their place so I could have a few drinks. All the signs were pointing towards them being swingers and we were on for a good night. We said feck it let's tell them we are swingers!

The male of the couple went from chatty and great criac to absolutely mute and faded into the background, he actualy silently freaked out! The female not so much seemed intereted in the topic and was asking loads of questions. It left for an awkward few mins. We gave them a lift home but needless to say we didn't go in and went home even though she politely asked us in for tea where he turned around and said "no way"

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By *omtom7Man  over a year ago

Tralee

Ireland for you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No. Theres no universal secret sign that's used that you can look for here in Ireland. Anyone who tells you otherwise is bullshitting. Swinging is Ireland is so rare that you're unlikely to come across swingers in a regular night out. Your best bet is to pull an interested non-swinger.

This sits on the top of our fantasy list

A few weeks ago when out we got chatting to a couple, clicked straight away, loads of fun and you could feel the flirting. They even invited us to stay in their place so I could have a few drinks. All the signs were pointing towards them being swingers and we were on for a good night. We said feck it let's tell them we are swingers!

The male of the couple went from chatty and great criac to absolutely mute and faded into the background, he actualy silently freaked out! The female not so much seemed intereted in the topic and was asking loads of questions. It left for an awkward few mins. We gave them a lift home but needless to say we didn't go in and went home even though she politely asked us in for tea where he turned around and said "no way" "

What do you think would happen if you ever bumped into the same couple again?

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By *inkywife1981Couple  over a year ago

A town near you

Use the who's near feature when out and then use your powers of deduction

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By *ilthyNightsCouple  over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Ireland for you "

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By *arrot_in_a_boxCouple  over a year ago

kinda dublin

You can wear an earring in your right ear, and ask people of theyre a friend of Dorothy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Carries pampas grass in top pocket every time I go out

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By *om TangoMan  over a year ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

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By *om TangoMan  over a year ago

aughnacloy monaghan area


"Use the who's near feature when out and then use your powers of deduction "

That only works if their in this site. I know and have been with swingers that aren’t on any sites. It’s just not there thing. Cuckolding couple I get with the very odd time, he says he’s not on for posting pictures of his wife for creepy men to jeck over. I can see his point because I bet there is a lot of pictures copied from here and shared in WhatsApp groups and I know for a fact some have ended up on twitter

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By *inkywife1981Couple  over a year ago

A town near you

We live on the outskirts of a small rural town. We like to think we are discreet and fly below the radar. We know for a fact that there are two couples in our town who are on fab as one couple has face pics on profile and we seen one couple in the chat room showing there faces obviously after a few beers.

Anyway on one occasion when we were out in town one of the couples sat at our table and started chatting to us (we wouldn't really know them) we freaked out thinking they had sussed us! Maybe they had or maybe they were just being friendly and there was nothing to it.

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By *inkywife1981Couple  over a year ago

A town near you


"Use the who's near feature when out and then use your powers of deduction

That only works if their in this site. I know and have been with swingers that aren’t on any sites. It’s just not there thing. Cuckolding couple I get with the very odd time, he says he’s not on for posting pictures of his wife for creepy men to jeck over. I can see his point because I bet there is a lot of pictures copied from here and shared in WhatsApp groups and I know for a fact some have ended up on twitter

"

Never considered that our pics could be shared elsewhere though we don't have public face pics!

Deleting all public pics today lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm in the sticks and surrounded by them

Years back I was in town on a works night out and got talking to the bar manager. We discovered we were going to the same fab m&g in Cork the same week. Still laugh about it when we meet

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm in the sticks and surrounded by them

Years back I was in town on a works night out and got talking to the bar manager. We discovered we were going to the same fab m&g in Cork the same week. Still laugh about it when we meet"

Nothing wrong with the sticks out here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm in the sticks and surrounded by them

Years back I was in town on a works night out and got talking to the bar manager. We discovered we were going to the same fab m&g in Cork the same week. Still laugh about it when we meet

Nothing wrong with the sticks out here "

there's just no shaking you is there?

Stop stealing my pampas grass!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm in the sticks and surrounded by them

Years back I was in town on a works night out and got talking to the bar manager. We discovered we were going to the same fab m&g in Cork the same week. Still laugh about it when we meet

Nothing wrong with the sticks out here there's just no shaking you is there?

Stop stealing my pampas grass!"

All the world loves a lover, you can’t blame the guy for trying can you?

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By *cuk4funCouple  over a year ago

city centre

Since we joined , we usually have a laugh when out in town asking each other to "spot " the swingers...has led to a few flirty moments but we never got to ask any cpl as it just didn't seem appropriate

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By *aptain Caveman41Man  over a year ago

Home

Wear pineapple socks

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By *arryWhiteXxxMan  over a year ago

Midleton


"An upside down pineapple sticker on their forehead "

Ahhh! I was wondering what that was all about!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Is a woman wearing an ankle bracelet a sign??

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By *og-ManMan  over a year ago

somewhere

The best craic is when you're in a pub or shop and someone is very close in the see who's near

At a social last week in a hotel,about 30 of us having drinks and a couple updated their profile to say they were on a family holiday and a load of swingers were in the bar

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By *elle xWoman  over a year ago

Doire Theas

Flamingoes

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By *asual777Man  over a year ago

i travel all over

Sharing plates rather than starter main course

And always a dessert

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sharing plates rather than starter main course

And always a dessert "

That's bs cos I don't share

And I never eat dessert

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By *ilthyNightsCouple  over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Is a woman wearing an ankle bracelet a sign??"

No. For the vast majority it's just jewelery

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By *asual777Man  over a year ago

i travel all over


"Sharing plates rather than starter main course

And always a dessert

That's bs cos I don't share

And I never eat dessert "

We are so OVER

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sharing plates rather than starter main course

And always a dessert

That's bs cos I don't share

And I never eat dessert "

But you wouldn't say no to seconds though

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By *itemeagainMan  over a year ago

Wexford


"Is a woman wearing an ankle bracelet a sign??

No. For the vast majority it's just jewelery"

So its a sign for the minority

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By *indenMan  over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"Wear pineapple socks "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm in the sticks and surrounded by them

Years back I was in town on a works night out and got talking to the bar manager. We discovered we were going to the same fab m&g in Cork the same week. Still laugh about it when we meet

Nothing wrong with the sticks out here there's just no shaking you is there?

Stop stealing my pampas grass!"

Nope . And you’re garden needed trimming

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By *ilthyNightsCouple  over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Is a woman wearing an ankle bracelet a sign??

No. For the vast majority it's just jewelery

So its a sign for the minority "

Sure, but a secretive sign is pointless if its mixed in with a majority of identical signs without the same meaning.

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By *itemeagainMan  over a year ago

Wexford


"Is a woman wearing an ankle bracelet a sign??

No. For the vast majority it's just jewelery

So its a sign for the minority

Sure, but a secretive sign is pointless if its mixed in with a majority of identical signs without the same meaning."

The takeaway here is ... chance it with anyone wearing an ankle bracelet then

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By *ilthyNightsCouple  over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Approaching couples where the wife is wearing an anklet is likely to get action alright... most likely a punch in the jaw

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By *itemeagainMan  over a year ago

Wexford


"Approaching couples where the wife is wearing an anklet is likely to get action alright... most likely a punch in the jaw"

Ahhh your so negative

Sure ya might even end up introducing them to a whole new outlook

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By *inkywife1981Couple  over a year ago

A town near you


"Is a woman wearing an ankle bracelet a sign??

No. For the vast majority it's just jewelery

So its a sign for the minority

Sure, but a secretive sign is pointless if its mixed in with a majority of identical signs without the same meaning."

You would have to be pretty brazen or confident to wear an anklet with one of those very obvious charms like HW or queen of spades symbol etc lol

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By *ilthyNightsCouple  over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Is a woman wearing an ankle bracelet a sign??

No. For the vast majority it's just jewelery

So its a sign for the minority

Sure, but a secretive sign is pointless if its mixed in with a majority of identical signs without the same meaning.

You would have to be pretty brazen or confident to wear an anklet with one of those very obvious charms like HW or queen of spades symbol etc lol"

Yes that would work as a sign for showing what you are to someone else, but I've never seen this in real life on someone advertising themselves... Although I remember seeing a social media post about a hubby accidentally buying a hotwire anklet for his wife lol.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple  over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Oh I did see an ace of spades tattoo once but even that could have other meanings.

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By *huCullainMan  over a year ago

Rathowen

So my 'im a swinger' face tattoo was a bad idea. Is that what we're saying here

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By *itemeagainMan  over a year ago

Wexford


"Oh I did see an ace of spades tattoo once but even that could have other meanings. "

Most likely

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By *inkywife1981Couple  over a year ago

A town near you


"Oh I did see an ace of spades tattoo once but even that could have other meanings. "

I can only imagine the stuff people have inadvertently wore or had tattooed on themselves without knowing any subtle alt meaning

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By *itemeagainMan  over a year ago

Wexford

For most people.. tattoo wise I thing the and of spades is just kinda embracing your darker side .

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By *affa31Woman  over a year ago

Galway

Wearing a tiny pineapple bracelet for the social today

I mean it’s too small for anyone to really see it but it amuses me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No. Theres no universal secret sign that's used that you can look for here in Ireland. Anyone who tells you otherwise is bullshitting. Swinging is Ireland is so rare that you're unlikely to come across swingers in a regular night out. Your best bet is to pull an interested non-swinger.

This sits on the top of our fantasy list

A few weeks ago when out we got chatting to a couple, clicked straight away, loads of fun and you could feel the flirting. They even invited us to stay in their place so I could have a few drinks. All the signs were pointing towards them being swingers and we were on for a good night. We said feck it let's tell them we are swingers!

The male of the couple went from chatty and great criac to absolutely mute and faded into the background, he actualy silently freaked out! The female not so much seemed intereted in the topic and was asking loads of questions. It left for an awkward few mins. We gave them a lift home but needless to say we didn't go in and went home even though she politely asked us in for tea where he turned around and said "no way" "

Their loss

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple  over a year ago

kinkytown

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple  over a year ago

kinkytown

If you listen to the old swinging legends it was pampas grass and then it went to ankle bracelets and now apparently it's upside down pineapples. Never understood why or how it was any of these have to do with swinging and put as much weight in them as I do most other legends

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I heard it was gnomes too

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By *im44Man  over a year ago

traveling with work, but mainly Ovens Cork

Upside down pineapple, badge , earring, necklace, sticker...

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By *itemeagainMan  over a year ago

Wexford


"Upside down pineapple, badge , earring, necklace, sticker..."

Ahh ffs .... ... I'm not meeting some mad yoke covered in pineapples head to toe

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By *og-ManMan  over a year ago

somewhere


"Upside down pineapple, badge , earring, necklace, sticker...

Ahh ffs .... ... I'm not meeting some mad yoke covered in pineapples head to toe "

Unless you're the man from Del Monte

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By *itemeagainMan  over a year ago

Wexford


"Upside down pineapple, badge , earring, necklace, sticker...

Ahh ffs .... ... I'm not meeting some mad yoke covered in pineapples head to toe

Unless you're the man from Del Monte "

Even then ... I ain't having all these pineapples clashing with me fab white get up

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By *ofusplusCouple  over a year ago

Limerick


"No. Theres no universal secret sign that's used that you can look for here in Ireland. Anyone who tells you otherwise is bullshitting. Swinging is Ireland is so rare that you're unlikely to come across swingers in a regular night out. Your best bet is to pull an interested non-swinger.

This sits on the top of our fantasy list

A few weeks ago when out we got chatting to a couple, clicked straight away, loads of fun and you could feel the flirting. They even invited us to stay in their place so I could have a few drinks. All the signs were pointing towards them being swingers and we were on for a good night. We said feck it let's tell them we are swingers!

The male of the couple went from chatty and great criac to absolutely mute and faded into the background, he actualy silently freaked out! The female not so much seemed intereted in the topic and was asking loads of questions. It left for an awkward few mins. We gave them a lift home but needless to say we didn't go in and went home even though she politely asked us in for tea where he turned around and said "no way" "

Oh crikey

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By *ofusplusCouple  over a year ago

Limerick


"Wearing a tiny pineapple bracelet for the social today

I mean it’s too small for anyone to really see it but it amuses me "

I've got one of those too

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By *inkywife1981Couple  over a year ago

A town near you

I get uncomfortable when people keep using and emphasising the word Fab in conversations. Are they trying to tell me something?

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By *unsigntwoCouple  over a year ago

athlone


"Wearing a tiny pineapple bracelet for the social today

I mean it’s too small for anyone to really see it but it amuses me

I've got one of those too "

Oh i have them too and necklace

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By *unsigntwoCouple  over a year ago

athlone


"I get uncomfortable when people keep using and emphasising the word Fab in conversations. Are they trying to tell me something?"

We find it funny

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By *inkywife1981Couple  over a year ago

A town near you


"I get uncomfortable when people keep using and emphasising the word Fab in conversations. Are they trying to tell me something?

We find it funny "

I just stand there thinking to myself my secrets out!!

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By *adger BrocMan  over a year ago

Co. Cork

Black band on right hand ring finger.

Has me having to beat swingers off with my walking stick in coffee shops and bars.

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By *im44Man  over a year ago

traveling with work, but mainly Ovens Cork

I am actually from del monte,,, literally

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"For most people.. tattoo wise I thing the and of spades is just kinda embracing your darker side . "

Or they're a Motörhead fan

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By *s louWoman  over a year ago

Enniskillen

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By *andytownMan  over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"I get uncomfortable when people keep using and emphasising the word Fab in conversations. Are they trying to tell me something?"

Quite possibly

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By *eebeedee100Couple  over a year ago

Limerick


"An upside down pineapple sticker on their forehead

Ahhh! I was wondering what that was all about!"

Try having an upside pineapple tattoo It's very discreet

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Black band on right hand ring finger.

Has me having to beat swingers off with my walking stick in coffee shops and bars.

"

This was what i believed to be the secret sign! Black ring, But on the left hand! But i don't think its caught on in Ireland! My ex wore a black ring on her hand on out first date i thought i was sorted! NOOOOPE!

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By *ORDERMANMan  over a year ago

wrexham

Mentioned this before...

Recall an episode of tagart about swingers where the secret sign was stone garden hedgehogs in front garden

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By *ilverfox74Man  over a year ago

dublin offaly


"The female plays pool while the male takes some revealing pics "

I like your thinking. A game of strip pool lol

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