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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"An upside down pineapple sticker on their forehead "
Other than that we could all put badges on saying I’m a swinger! Lol It would seriously help matters, don’t you think!  |
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No. Theres no universal secret sign that's used that you can look for here in Ireland. Anyone who tells you otherwise is bullshitting. Swinging is Ireland is so rare that you're unlikely to come across swingers in a regular night out. Your best bet is to pull an interested non-swinger. |
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By *aidbare5Couple
over a year ago
down the road |
"No. Theres no universal secret sign that's used that you can look for here in Ireland. Anyone who tells you otherwise is bullshitting. Swinging is Ireland is so rare that you're unlikely to come across swingers in a regular night out. Your best bet is to pull an interested non-swinger."
This sits on the top of our fantasy list
A few weeks ago when out we got chatting to a couple, clicked straight away, loads of fun and you could feel the flirting. They even invited us to stay in their place so I could have a few drinks. All the signs were pointing towards them being swingers and we were on for a good night. We said feck it let's tell them we are swingers!
The male of the couple went from chatty and great criac to absolutely mute and faded into the background, he actualy silently freaked out! The female not so much seemed intereted in the topic and was asking loads of questions. It left for an awkward few mins. We gave them a lift home but needless to say we didn't go in and went home even though she politely asked us in for tea where he turned around and said "no way"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. Theres no universal secret sign that's used that you can look for here in Ireland. Anyone who tells you otherwise is bullshitting. Swinging is Ireland is so rare that you're unlikely to come across swingers in a regular night out. Your best bet is to pull an interested non-swinger.
This sits on the top of our fantasy list
A few weeks ago when out we got chatting to a couple, clicked straight away, loads of fun and you could feel the flirting. They even invited us to stay in their place so I could have a few drinks. All the signs were pointing towards them being swingers and we were on for a good night. We said feck it let's tell them we are swingers!
The male of the couple went from chatty and great criac to absolutely mute and faded into the background, he actualy silently freaked out! The female not so much seemed intereted in the topic and was asking loads of questions. It left for an awkward few mins. We gave them a lift home but needless to say we didn't go in and went home even though she politely asked us in for tea where he turned around and said "no way" "
What do you think would happen if you ever bumped into the same couple again?  |
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By *om TangoMan
over a year ago
aughnacloy monaghan area |
"Use the who's near feature when out and then use your powers of deduction "
That only works if their in this site. I know and have been with swingers that aren’t on any sites. It’s just not there thing. Cuckolding couple I get with the very odd time, he says he’s not on for posting pictures of his wife for creepy men to jeck over. I can see his point because I bet there is a lot of pictures copied from here and shared in WhatsApp groups and I know for a fact some have ended up on twitter
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We live on the outskirts of a small rural town. We like to think we are discreet and fly below the radar. We know for a fact that there are two couples in our town who are on fab as one couple has face pics on profile and we seen one couple in the chat room showing there faces obviously after a few beers.
Anyway on one occasion when we were out in town one of the couples sat at our table and started chatting to us (we wouldn't really know them) we freaked out thinking they had sussed us! Maybe they had or maybe they were just being friendly and there was nothing to it.  |
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"Use the who's near feature when out and then use your powers of deduction
That only works if their in this site. I know and have been with swingers that aren’t on any sites. It’s just not there thing. Cuckolding couple I get with the very odd time, he says he’s not on for posting pictures of his wife for creepy men to jeck over. I can see his point because I bet there is a lot of pictures copied from here and shared in WhatsApp groups and I know for a fact some have ended up on twitter
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Never considered that our pics could be shared elsewhere though we don't have public face pics!
Deleting all public pics today lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in the sticks and surrounded by them
Years back I was in town on a works night out and got talking to the bar manager. We discovered we were going to the same fab m&g in Cork the same week. Still laugh about it when we meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm in the sticks and surrounded by them
Years back I was in town on a works night out and got talking to the bar manager. We discovered we were going to the same fab m&g in Cork the same week. Still laugh about it when we meet"
Nothing wrong with the sticks out here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm in the sticks and surrounded by them
Years back I was in town on a works night out and got talking to the bar manager. We discovered we were going to the same fab m&g in Cork the same week. Still laugh about it when we meet
Nothing wrong with the sticks out here " there's just no shaking you is there?
Stop stealing my pampas grass! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm in the sticks and surrounded by them
Years back I was in town on a works night out and got talking to the bar manager. We discovered we were going to the same fab m&g in Cork the same week. Still laugh about it when we meet
Nothing wrong with the sticks out here there's just no shaking you is there?
Stop stealing my pampas grass!"
All the world loves a lover, you can’t blame the guy for trying can you?  |
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By *cuk4funCouple
over a year ago
city centre |
Since we joined , we usually have a laugh when out in town asking each other to "spot " the swingers...has led to a few flirty moments but we never got to ask any cpl as it just didn't seem appropriate  |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
The best craic is when you're in a pub or shop and someone is very close in the see who's near
At a social last week in a hotel,about 30 of us having drinks and a couple updated their profile to say they were on a family holiday and a load of swingers were in the bar |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sharing plates rather than starter main course
And always a dessert
That's bs cos I don't share
And I never eat dessert "
But you wouldn't say no to seconds though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm in the sticks and surrounded by them
Years back I was in town on a works night out and got talking to the bar manager. We discovered we were going to the same fab m&g in Cork the same week. Still laugh about it when we meet
Nothing wrong with the sticks out here there's just no shaking you is there?
Stop stealing my pampas grass!"
Nope . And you’re garden needed trimming  |
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"Is a woman wearing an ankle bracelet a sign??
No. For the vast majority it's just jewelery
So its a sign for the minority "
Sure, but a secretive sign is pointless if its mixed in with a majority of identical signs without the same meaning. |
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"Is a woman wearing an ankle bracelet a sign??
No. For the vast majority it's just jewelery
So its a sign for the minority
Sure, but a secretive sign is pointless if its mixed in with a majority of identical signs without the same meaning."
The takeaway here is ... chance it with anyone wearing an ankle bracelet then  |
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"Approaching couples where the wife is wearing an anklet is likely to get action alright... most likely a punch in the jaw"
Ahhh your so negative
Sure ya might even end up introducing them to a whole new outlook  |
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"Is a woman wearing an ankle bracelet a sign??
No. For the vast majority it's just jewelery
So its a sign for the minority
Sure, but a secretive sign is pointless if its mixed in with a majority of identical signs without the same meaning."
You would have to be pretty brazen or confident to wear an anklet with one of those very obvious charms like HW or queen of spades symbol etc lol |
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"Is a woman wearing an ankle bracelet a sign??
No. For the vast majority it's just jewelery
So its a sign for the minority
Sure, but a secretive sign is pointless if its mixed in with a majority of identical signs without the same meaning.
You would have to be pretty brazen or confident to wear an anklet with one of those very obvious charms like HW or queen of spades symbol etc lol"
Yes that would work as a sign for showing what you are to someone else, but I've never seen this in real life on someone advertising themselves... Although I remember seeing a social media post about a hubby accidentally buying a hotwire anklet for his wife lol. |
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"Oh I did see an ace of spades tattoo once but even that could have other meanings. "
I can only imagine the stuff people have inadvertently wore or had tattooed on themselves without knowing any subtle alt meaning |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. Theres no universal secret sign that's used that you can look for here in Ireland. Anyone who tells you otherwise is bullshitting. Swinging is Ireland is so rare that you're unlikely to come across swingers in a regular night out. Your best bet is to pull an interested non-swinger.
This sits on the top of our fantasy list
A few weeks ago when out we got chatting to a couple, clicked straight away, loads of fun and you could feel the flirting. They even invited us to stay in their place so I could have a few drinks. All the signs were pointing towards them being swingers and we were on for a good night. We said feck it let's tell them we are swingers!
The male of the couple went from chatty and great criac to absolutely mute and faded into the background, he actualy silently freaked out! The female not so much seemed intereted in the topic and was asking loads of questions. It left for an awkward few mins. We gave them a lift home but needless to say we didn't go in and went home even though she politely asked us in for tea where he turned around and said "no way" "
Their loss  |
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If you listen to the old swinging legends it was pampas grass and then it went to ankle bracelets and now apparently it's upside down pineapples. Never understood why or how it was any of these have to do with swinging and put as much weight in them as I do most other legends  |
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"Upside down pineapple, badge , earring, necklace, sticker...
Ahh ffs .... ... I'm not meeting some mad yoke covered in pineapples head to toe
Unless you're the man from Del Monte "
Even then ... I ain't having all these pineapples clashing with me fab white get up  |
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"No. Theres no universal secret sign that's used that you can look for here in Ireland. Anyone who tells you otherwise is bullshitting. Swinging is Ireland is so rare that you're unlikely to come across swingers in a regular night out. Your best bet is to pull an interested non-swinger.
This sits on the top of our fantasy list
A few weeks ago when out we got chatting to a couple, clicked straight away, loads of fun and you could feel the flirting. They even invited us to stay in their place so I could have a few drinks. All the signs were pointing towards them being swingers and we were on for a good night. We said feck it let's tell them we are swingers!
The male of the couple went from chatty and great criac to absolutely mute and faded into the background, he actualy silently freaked out! The female not so much seemed intereted in the topic and was asking loads of questions. It left for an awkward few mins. We gave them a lift home but needless to say we didn't go in and went home even though she politely asked us in for tea where he turned around and said "no way" "
Oh crikey  |
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"I get uncomfortable when people keep using and emphasising the word Fab in conversations. Are they trying to tell me something?
We find it funny "
I just stand there thinking to myself my secrets out!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Black band on right hand ring finger.
Has me having to beat swingers off with my walking stick in coffee shops and bars.
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This was what i believed to be the secret sign! Black ring, But on the left hand! But i don't think its caught on in Ireland! My ex wore a black ring on her hand on out first date i thought i was sorted! NOOOOPE! |
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