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Would like some advice on this. I am a single gut, not the best body, can't accom, not much to stand me out from the mass of single guys looking for a MF couple, until we get a chance to meet. I am not giving any luck getting responses and have put a pic of my cock on my profile as I genuinely think it is my best chance of getting noticed, but absolutely get why couples feel they have seen enough of them. Any advice, keep it up or take it down? |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
The advice Id give you is do what you think is best as its your profile
Some women want dick pics ,some dont.
The one thing I would do is put up a picture as your profile because most people won't answer messages from blank profiles
Not a dick pic
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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Personally dick pics do absolutely nothing for me let it be their profile pic or on their profile, id rather see any pic then a blank silhouette but like i said that's just my opinion it's your profile you should do as you see fit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally up to you - it's your profile and you should use it how you want to, but is a cock really all there is to you?
Personally I've no issue with cock pics so long as there are also photos that give me an impression of the whole person |
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By *indenMan
over a year ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
At the moment 100% of your public pics are cock pics, I’d say that’s probably too much, most will probably assume you have a cock even without posting a pic of it, but, it’s your profile so post the pics you like yourself.
You’re never going to please everyone so start by pleasing yourself, post the pics you’ve comfortable with, don’t take it to seriously and add a bit of variety. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would like some advice on this. I am a single gut, not the best body, can't accom, not much to stand me out from the mass of single guys looking for a MF couple, until we get a chance to meet. I am not giving any luck getting responses and have put a pic of my cock on my profile as I genuinely think it is my best chance of getting noticed, but absolutely get why couples feel they have seen enough of them. Any advice, keep it up or take it down?"
Everyman has a dick pic on this site but only the clever ones keep them private ..that’s my advice from a man |
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By *MCOUPLECouple
over a year ago
North Coast |
We look for them as ultimately it’s what Mrs is after and better to get it out of the way early doors.
Do agree that some are horrible namely ones next an open toilet etc etc. Staged ones to exaggerate size are also annoying.
As previously stated it’s the whole packed though and not just the frank and beans |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally don't get turned on by them, you could literally put a picture of your hand up.
Try to get fit though, lots of the guys are, so the boys are up against it, maybe try to exude a little sexuality through your body. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally don't get turned on by them, you could literally put a picture of your hand up.
Try to get fit though, lots of the guys are, so the boys are up against it, maybe try to exude a little sexuality through your body. "
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"Would like some advice on this. I am a single gut, not the best body, can't accom, not much to stand me out from the mass of single guys looking for a MF couple, until we get a chance to meet. I am not giving any luck getting responses and have put a pic of my cock on my profile as I genuinely think it is my best chance of getting noticed, but absolutely get why couples feel they have seen enough of them. Any advice, keep it up or take it down?"
To be fair, it's a pretty impressive cock! |
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"Would like some advice on this. I am a single gut, not the best body, can't accom, not much to stand me out from the mass of single guys looking for a MF couple, until we get a chance to meet. I am not giving any luck getting responses and have put a pic of my cock on my profile as I genuinely think it is my best chance of getting noticed, but absolutely get why couples feel they have seen enough of them. Any advice, keep it up or take it down?"
You may think you don't have the best body, but you might be surprised how many women prefer a 'dad bod' over an athletic one. I can't see much bar your dick in first pic but from what I can see you aren't coming from as bad a place as you think. As for dick pics, I'll admit I put one on public now and again. I try steer clear of close ups tho but some probably like them |
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"I personally don't get turned on by them, you could literally put a picture of your hand up.
Try to get fit though, lots of the guys are, so the boys are up against it, maybe try to exude a little sexuality through your body. "
Try to get fit 
Can you imagine if a guy set that to a curvy woman 
Bud you do you . Put up the pics your comfortable with ... teasing pics like silhouette of cock or shirt with no pants from behind etc . Tend to go well .
Have a look in the pics section and see what you think you my like to try.
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"I personally don't get turned on by them, you could literally put a picture of your hand up.
Try to get fit though, lots of the guys are, so the boys are up against it, maybe try to exude a little sexuality through your body.
Fab needs a Fav button for comments "
Affs lad ... I tried to ignore this but honestly it'd be wrong if I did.
We have spent decades trying to guess the world to stop making women feel like they have to be a certain way and now it's seeping into men feeling the same, And you actually want to be a part of that?
The world is hard enough without making people self-conscious  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think he is being hard on himself, OP S body looks fit to me.
I put up a profile pic of a roasted leg of lamb, and it got attention.... People thought it was a turd and I was hinting at wanting to poop on them.Fab is a pretty mad place at times.... Lols |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just to confirm: OP said he wasn't fit, and I didn't even root through his pic, just presumed he was as he said he was. But the reality is, he is fit, so OP love your body, it is fit and attractive.
I love shower pics, suds upped, or pictures straight after a shower can be nice, skin all dewy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally don't get turned on by them, you could literally put a picture of your hand up.
Try to get fit though, lots of the guys are, so the boys are up against it, maybe try to exude a little sexuality through your body.
Fab needs a Fav button for comments
Affs lad ... I tried to ignore this but honestly it'd be wrong if I did.
We have spent decades trying to guess the world to stop making women feel like they have to be a certain way and now it's seeping into men feeling the same, And you actually want to be a part of that?
The world is hard enough without making people self-conscious "
We may disagree a lot of the time but not on this occasion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me a profile with no profile pic is a no
As for a cock and fanny pic and cock up your arse it really is a turn off, that's just my opinion, less is more |
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"I personally don't get turned on by them, you could literally put a picture of your hand up.
Try to get fit though, lots of the guys are, so the boys are up against it, maybe try to exude a little sexuality through your body. "
so the cuddly people on here haven't a chance in your eyes I take it. |
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"Would like some advice on this. I am a single gut, not the best body, can't accom, not much to stand me out from the mass of single guys looking for a MF couple, until we get a chance to meet. I am not giving any luck getting responses and have put a pic of my cock on my profile as I genuinely think it is my best chance of getting noticed, but absolutely get why couples feel they have seen enough of them. Any advice, keep it up or take it down?"
OP, your being to hard on yourself. Nothing wrong with a cock pic on a profile, maybe add a few pictures with it. You'll get a better response with a profile pic alright.
I personally am far from ripped/fit meself. If people don't like it/me. No harm done, I'm being meself.
Do whatever you want to do OP. It's your profile, at the end of the day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I personally don't get turned on by them, you could literally put a picture of your hand up.
Try to get fit though, lots of the guys are, so the boys are up against it, maybe try to exude a little sexuality through your body. so the cuddly people on here haven't a chance in your eyes I take it. "
No in fairness, I often find curvy women attractive and I m a big believer in bright, sparkly, fun, engaging people. But I guess the reality is we all look at pictures and we are visual and it's usually the pictures that grab our attention. I like a ripped man, but I m also nervous with them, because I m curve and have wobbly bits myself. |
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I haven't felt the need to have a public dick pic and no one has ever asked for one before a coffee meet or otherwise.
Tbh OP you look like you are in decent shape so get the camera out and set a timer.
I like B&W photos and I always try to take a different one each. I'm usually I take a wide shot and crop it in.
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"I personally don't get turned on by them, you could literally put a picture of your hand up.
Try to get fit though, lots of the guys are, so the boys are up against it, maybe try to exude a little sexuality through your body. so the cuddly people on here haven't a chance in your eyes I take it.
No in fairness, I often find curvy women attractive and I m a big believer in bright, sparkly, fun, engaging people. But I guess the reality is we all look at pictures and we are visual and it's usually the pictures that grab our attention. I like a ripped man, but I m also nervous with them, because I m curve and have wobbly bits myself. "
The problem is when people like me who are carrying a little bit of weight read comments like yours we ask ourselves are we really wasting our time on here.just let you know word's hurt. I'll leave it there and hopefully in the future people will think a little before they comment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me a profile with no profile pic is a no
As for a cock and fanny pic and cock up your arse it really is a turn off, that's just my opinion, less is more "
I agree cock pic turn off I no pic but we met back in day old friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally don't get turned on by them, you could literally put a picture of your hand up.
Try to get fit though, lots of the guys are, so the boys are up against it, maybe try to exude a little sexuality through your body. so the cuddly people on here haven't a chance in your eyes I take it.
No in fairness, I often find curvy women attractive and I m a big believer in bright, sparkly, fun, engaging people. But I guess the reality is we all look at pictures and we are visual and it's usually the pictures that grab our attention. I like a ripped man, but I m also nervous with them, because I m curve and have wobbly bits myself. The problem is when people like me who are carrying a little bit of weight read comments like yours we ask ourselves are we really wasting our time on here.just let you know word's hurt. I'll leave it there and hopefully in the future people will think a little before they comment."
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I m sorry, I didn't mean to hurt your feelings, I m sure you are very sexy. |
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"Would like some advice on this. I am a single gut, not the best body, can't accom, not much to stand me out from the mass of single guys looking for a MF couple, until we get a chance to meet. I am not giving any luck getting responses and have put a pic of my cock on my profile as I genuinely think it is my best chance of getting noticed, but absolutely get why couples feel they have seen enough of them. Any advice, keep it up or take it down?"
If you think your cock is the best way to get noticed then you’ve a lot to learn |
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"I personally don't get turned on by them, you could literally put a picture of your hand up.
Try to get fit though, lots of the guys are, so the boys are up against it, maybe try to exude a little sexuality through your body. so the cuddly people on here haven't a chance in your eyes I take it.
No in fairness, I often find curvy women attractive and I m a big believer in bright, sparkly, fun, engaging people. But I guess the reality is we all look at pictures and we are visual and it's usually the pictures that grab our attention. I like a ripped man, but I m also nervous with them, because I m curve and have wobbly bits myself. The problem is when people like me who are carrying a little bit of weight read comments like yours we ask ourselves are we really wasting our time on here.just let you know word's hurt. I'll leave it there and hopefully in the future people will think a little before they comment..
I m sorry, I didn't mean to hurt your feelings, I m sure you are very sexy. "
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By *panishRebelMan
over a year ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
"I think he is being hard on himself, OP S body looks fit to me.
I put up a profile pic of a roasted leg of lamb, and it got attention.... People thought it was a turd and I was hinting at wanting to poop on them.Fab is a pretty mad place at times.... Lols "
Now I feel like just putting random shit up to see the reaction ???????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think he is being hard on himself, OP S body looks fit to me.
I put up a profile pic of a roasted leg of lamb, and it got attention.... People thought it was a turd and I was hinting at wanting to poop on them.Fab is a pretty mad place at times.... Lols
Now I feel like just putting random shit up to see the reaction ????????"
Do it, for the laugh.... Lols x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me a profile with no profile pic is a no
As for a cock and fanny pic and cock up your arse it really is a turn off, that's just my opinion, less is more I agree cock pic turn off I no pic but we met back in day old friend "
You never let me put on your garda hat on lol |
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By *XlalaXXWoman
over a year ago
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"I think he is being hard on himself, OP S body looks fit to me.
I put up a profile pic of a roasted leg of lamb, and it got attention.... People thought it was a turd and I was hinting at wanting to poop on them.Fab is a pretty mad place at times.... Lols
Now I feel like just putting random shit up to see the reaction ????????"
Put ya g string up |
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By *panishRebelMan
over a year ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
"I personally don't get turned on by them, you could literally put a picture of your hand up.
Try to get fit though, lots of the guys are, so the boys are up against it, maybe try to exude a little sexuality through your body. so the cuddly people on here haven't a chance in your eyes I take it.
No in fairness, I often find curvy women attractive and I m a big believer in bright, sparkly, fun, engaging people. But I guess the reality is we all look at pictures and we are visual and it's usually the pictures that grab our attention. I like a ripped man, but I m also nervous with them, because I m curve and have wobbly bits myself. "
I don't think you need to worry about your little wobbly bits.
And yer man doesn't need to worry about his bod. Being comfortable and confident with what you have is the most attractive thing.
In the end, in person and a profile are hard to match right.
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By *panishRebelMan
over a year ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
"I think he is being hard on himself, OP S body looks fit to me.
I put up a profile pic of a roasted leg of lamb, and it got attention.... People thought it was a turd and I was hinting at wanting to poop on them.Fab is a pretty mad place at times.... Lols
Now I feel like just putting random shit up to see the reaction ????????
Do it, for the laugh.... Lols x"
It's a pity it takes so long to get through the pending.... I have 3 on from earlier.
But yeah I will see if random shit can work. Maybe I will start a new thread of random shit... |
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By *panishRebelMan
over a year ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
"I think he is being hard on himself, OP S body looks fit to me.
I put up a profile pic of a roasted leg of lamb, and it got attention.... People thought it was a turd and I was hinting at wanting to poop on them.Fab is a pretty mad place at times.... Lols
Now I feel like just putting random shit up to see the reaction ????????
Put ya g string up "
Feck no too uncomfortable..... A pice of strip will do the same |
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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago
The bog |
Op u do your profile how u like it's yours..if people don't like it that's on them not u...also nobody has the right to tell people to get fitter that there up against others I'm sorry but I Found that comment so disrespectful... |
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Shocking lack of high quality pics of good, hard, well groomed cocks on here in my opinion.
OP if you've got it flaunt it. Make me drool.
But if it's a hairy limp thing hanging over an unflushed toilet, you can keep that on private. |
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"Shocking lack of high quality pics of good, hard, well groomed cocks on here in my opinion.
OP if you've got it flaunt it. Make me drool.
But if it's a hairy limp thing hanging over an unflushed toilet, you can keep that on private. "
straight to the point you know what you like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let's have a cock and fanjo amnesty day. Everyone get them up on their profile pictures for 24 hours!!!
You start 
Ladies first, surely?
I asked first
It's rude not to let a lady go first"
Gowan .. I'm not a lady .. well I am |
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"Let's have a cock and fanjo amnesty day. Everyone get them up on their profile pictures for 24 hours!!!
You start
Ladies first, surely?
I asked first
It's rude not to let a lady go first
Gowan .. I'm not a lady .. well I am"
Well, if you are one then off you go. It'll be a chance to be more "Grrrr!"
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"Let's have a cock and fanjo amnesty day. Everyone get them up on their profile pictures for 24 hours!!!
You start
Ladies first, surely?
I asked first
It's rude not to let a lady go first
Gowan .. I'm not a lady .. well I am
Well, if you are one then off you go. It'll be a chance to be more "Grrrr!"
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I'm going to me leaba .. got a pic my eyes are hurting a pic of a cheap hobknob lol.. Great banter ya mad shit x |
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"Let's have a cock and fanjo amnesty day. Everyone get them up on their profile pictures for 24 hours!!!
You start
Ladies first, surely?
I asked first
It's rude not to let a lady go first
Gowan .. I'm not a lady .. well I am
Well, if you are one then off you go. It'll be a chance to be more "Grrrr!"
I'm going to me leaba .. got a pic my eyes are hurting a pic of a cheap hobknob lol.. Great banter ya mad shit x "
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I wonder what % of male fab members have gym bodies vs dad bods?
I imagine most fab males would be dad bods.
If a gym bod (male or female) reckons a dad bod should "get fit", that screams to me (Mr) that a) they're shallow, and b) they don't understand or haven't experienced that it isn't the gym body that's the turn on - it's far more than that.
When browsing fab profiles, I (Mr) almost always scroll past a "perfect" gym body profile pic without having a look at the profile. It'll be the half-dressed, teasing or playful pic that catches my eye.
Perhaps women on fab care more about male's body shapes than sex appeal - chubby men can have very impressive charisma and personality and sex appeal.
After being on here a while now, I can see how cock pics would prompt disinterest in a woman - a modest/average sized cock on a man with huge charisma will surely appeal more than a huge cock on a dull man?
Yes, we have a cock pic in our profile pics, but I (Mr) see P as being the sexier half of our couple, so there are more pics of her than me.
A cock is a cock is a cock... no?
A group of pics can't really present the fullest picture of how sexy and sexual a person or couple can be, can they?
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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago
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"I wonder what % of male fab members have gym bodies vs dad bods?
I imagine most fab males would be dad bods.
If a gym bod (male or female) reckons a dad bod should "get fit", that screams to me (Mr) that a) they're shallow, and b) they don't understand or haven't experienced that it isn't the gym body that's the turn on - it's far more than that.
When browsing fab profiles, I (Mr) almost always scroll past a "perfect" gym body profile pic without having a look at the profile. It'll be the half-dressed, teasing or playful pic that catches my eye.
Perhaps women on fab care more about male's body shapes than sex appeal - chubby men can have very impressive charisma and personality and sex appeal.
After being on here a while now, I can see how cock pics would prompt disinterest in a woman - a modest/average sized cock on a man with huge charisma will surely appeal more than a huge cock on a dull man?
Yes, we have a cock pic in our profile pics, but I (Mr) see P as being the sexier half of our couple, so there are more pics of her than me.
A cock is a cock is a cock... no?
A group of pics can't really present the fullest picture of how sexy and sexual a person or couple can be, can they?
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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago
The bog |
"What is a man? Only a cock o a pair of legs!!!!
Joke, night xxxx to all those lovely gabby cocks and fanjos, nighty x"
If a man said this about a woman all hell would break loose...
Men shouldn't condemn these kinda comments either... |
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"What is a man? Only a cock o a pair of legs!!!!
Joke, night xxxx to all those lovely gabby cocks and fanjos, nighty x
If a man said this about a woman all hell would break loose...
Men shouldn't condemn these kinda comments either..."
these types of comments are not on whether you are joking or not |
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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago
The bog |
"What is a man? Only a cock o a pair of legs!!!!
Joke, night xxxx to all those lovely gabby cocks and fanjos, nighty x
If a man said this about a woman all hell would break loose...
Men shouldn't condemn these kinda comments either... these types of comments are not on whether you are joking or not "
No there not..if a man had said a woman was a fanny on legs I guarantee u there would be hell from everyone |
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"What is a man? Only a cock o a pair of legs!!!!
Joke, night xxxx to all those lovely gabby cocks and fanjos, nighty x
If a man said this about a woman all hell would break loose...
Men shouldn't condemn these kinda comments either... these types of comments are not on whether you are joking or not
No there not..if a man had said a woman was a fanny on legs I guarantee u there would be hell from everyone "
100% correct |
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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago
north and south |
"Sorry I'm a newbie here, does OP mean original poster? If so thank everyone for your comments, makes more sense now.
It means exactly that. "
Most people think we are cocky and that’s far enough without having to look at them too ! |
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We can say that we don't have any pics of hubs cock on our profile hidden or otherwise it's just a personal preference thing for us we prefer to see the first reaction in person and not because its anything special but just our choice |
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OP look at other guys profiles, look at those that have verifications, those that don’t, see if there is a pattern or what those that are successful do.
Not all will be Greek gods.
It not easy out there but where there’s a will there’s a way. |
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"OP look at other guys profiles, look at those that have verifications, those that don’t, see if there is a pattern or what those that are successful do.
Not all will be Greek gods.
It not easy out there but where there’s a will there’s a way."
Absolutely. Think of the time spent looking at profiles and messaging that feels absolutely fruitless and instead invest that time in your profile and your social interactions and see what happens. |
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
City Centre |
OP if you want your profile to stand out at least put up a profile pic.
Personally, I'm not a fan of dick pics but always good to have one as some girls love them. Saying that all your public pics are dick pics...I definitely think it's better to put up a variety of pics so people can get some idea of you!
Best of luck.
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By *XlalaXXWoman
over a year ago
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"OP look at other guys profiles, look at those that have verifications, those that don’t, see if there is a pattern or what those that are successful do.
Not all will be Greek gods.
It not easy out there but where there’s a will there’s a way.
Absolutely. Think of the time spent looking at profiles and messaging that feels absolutely fruitless and instead invest that time in your profile and your social interactions and see what happens."
Wise man |
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