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Men 40+ Let's Talk about sex
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I wondered how you men are finding your sexual experience now that you are a little bit older. I have not being having sex myself for the last few months as my last experience was terrible. I was overweight and struggling to get an erection before that experience. So I started a healthy diet and less alcohol. I have lost some weight and things are looking up so to speak. I do have other issues besides the weight which I'd discuss privately. Anyway I feel that getting this out in the open might help men to not be afraid to say they struggle too. Talk about it with your doctor and don't be ashamed X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can see that I start gain weight a bit faster but I still try to eat healthy home made food. Ibtry to live actively and think to go to gym and get some shape.
As sex I don't have problem still hard and can run  |
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I'm very lucky that dispite a fairly unhealthy lifestyle I haven't suffered any sexual dysfunction. If/when I do I will be waiting at my Drs door looking for pills. I have less energy than I did in my 20s, but I have always prioritised sex so any additional effort has been put in that's been needed. Obviously age catches up with us all though in the end and so be it. |
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Sex has never been a priority for me at any age so it's not really much different than it ever has been.
I didn't join here until I was 52 and have always treated it as a hobby more than a necessity or lifestyle choice.
I have had a number of ongoing health issues over the last 18-20 months which is why I haven't been meeting and won't be for the foreseeable future but it's only a blip in the grand scheme of things.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sex has never been a priority for me at any age so it's not really much different than it ever has been.
I didn't join here until I was 52 and have always treated it as a hobby more than a necessity or lifestyle choice.
I have had a number of ongoing health issues over the last 18-20 months which is why I haven't been meeting and won't be for the foreseeable future but it's only a blip in the grand scheme of things.
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Sad to hear about your health problems hope you will recover fast and fully join our erotic community  |
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By *ealmc1973Man
over a year ago
Limerick, Clare, Tipperary |
...as horny as ever. Now, that I know my body good enough to know what I want and what to put on my bucketlist.
Truth is, I am too lazy to go on all night long and need some time to gather my strength after hard day at work, before jumping into bed. We are not 20 anymore 
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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago
north and south |
"...as horny as ever. Now, that I know my body good enough to know what I want and what to put on my bucketlist.
Truth is, I am too lazy to go on all night long and need some time to gather my strength after hard day at work, before jumping into bed. We are not 20 anymore
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Waist size same as when I was 30 years ago , plus am not putting any on or I will have to purchased new leather jeans |
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One of the best things about aging like this is you get to know yourself, your want and your limits.
20 years ago I wouldn't have been as confident talking to a partner, but thankfully things change |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everything as regards Sexual well being depends on blood flow..you gotta give yourself the best chance if you want to , smoking & drinking seriously affect performance and the ability to sexually perform, if the blood flow isn't what it should be then the performance or the working isn't the same . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me the main thing is having the confidence to not beat around the bush and be straight with whoever I’m with about what works and what I want.
When they can do the same then that’s when the best sex happens  |
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"For me the main thing is having the confidence to not beat around the bush and be straight with whoever I’m with about what works and what I want.
When they can do the same then that’s when the best sex happens "
What he said |
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Good for you & your right OP.
Men need to talk more about their Health & whatever else they want or need to talk about. 
More than likely I'll do this backwards, so to speak.
Weight loss.
About 3 & half year's ago, over about a 6 week period. I lost about 2 stone, it's like it ran off me ASAP(SERIOUSLY not joking). I don't eat overly healthy. I've a fairly sweet tooth.
Over the year's I have been off the drink for a year, if not more. Can't personally say I lost weight cause of it.
Highly unlikely to go a full year without seening the Dr. I usually get a letter, call or a text to make an appointment. That usually means I need to turn into a vampire for a pit & give blood.
I've other minor health issues aswell. 
That's done yearly, along with €20. Since covid ended, I've started to go 2 other times during the year, about 6 months between eachother.
Cause of the weight loss I'm back wearing size of clothes that I could wear back about 30 year's ago,thankfully. Must get my finger out & start to get more active going forward. To help keep the weight at bay, aswell as I'll be changing jobs within the next 12 month's.
If I didn't lose the weight I don't think, I'd be on here & very unlikely to have some of the pictures that I on here.
I need to more research & look over the data more, on the sex front. |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
Dunboyne |
I'm gone to fuck!
Unfortunately not literally.
Drinking and smoking more than ever, which is costing me a small fortune in both money and health. Gone very lazy and breathing getting raspy.
Think I need recommendations for a good hypnaetist or something because everything else has failed me and I'm not looking forward to next healthcheck.
Had to spell the watch waver wrong due to site rules |
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