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Do throuples exist publicly in Ireland yet....
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Myself and my FB are just chatting about throuples, and how they seem to be becoming more mainstream and common, or at least less taboo online, and are wondering, have they began to become a thing in Ireland yet, or is Ireland still a little wet behind the ears.... anyone have any personal experience? I can see them having a lot of pros.... I imagine there are lots of women and men, whose lives and careers, circumstances etc who would find such an arrangement beneficial to them in regards a work/career life balance.... and of course im sure couples whose relationships would benefit massively from such an arrangement....... discussion?? |
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"Yep... Was in one for a few years. I've the divorce to show for it. Wouldn't recommend "
Well we're not married, it didn't end well for you then, what didn't work? wife got jealous, you got jealous, third party wanted one but not the other so caused the break down to get rid of one of ye?? if not to much of a sore subject or hard for you to revisit could you give more details?
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"Yep... Was in one for a few years. I've the divorce to show for it. Wouldn't recommend
Well we're not married, it didn't end well for you then, what didn't work? wife got jealous, you got jealous, third party wanted one but not the other so caused the break down to get rid of one of ye?? if not to much of a sore subject or hard for you to revisit could you give more details?
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Without being TOO specific... The sex was never any kind of issue for anyone. It was more the emotional/relationship needs that come with having more than 1 loving relationship for me. I was supported/encouraged by my exwife to love someone else.. and eventually allowed myself to do so, but that ended up creating conflict that ended in a very painful ultinatum which i knew was going to create resentment in the long term. Basically in my view it's very emotionally damaging to allow loving bonds to build up and then try and take that away once the bonds were in place. As I said.... I wouldn't recommend. |
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There's a throuple living in one of houses on our estate. The neighbours etc have great gossip sessions running them down, the married part of the throuple have issues over it from their eldest kids. We don't have issues with them ourselves.
Unfortunately Ireland seems to be still a bit backward thinking when it comes to the poly dynamic still.
We've discussed something similar in regards to Dee having a girlfriend. |
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