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Worst thing about mid-life and beyond?
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I’ll start. It’s not the extra wrinkle, the inability to eat what you want. The pain, somewhere, always, something hurts!
For me the worst thing is every time I realise those fantasies with a cougar or the classic milf are becoming impossible the older I get! The dreams of an older woman taking me under her wing in my 20s are long gone  |
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I don't live in the past anymore but it used to be tough looking back at the huge gaps in my life and how much further away my nonexistent teenage years were.
Apart from that I've never had an issue about getting older. |
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"I don't live in the past anymore but it used to be tough looking back at the huge gaps in my life and how much further away my nonexistent teenage years were.
Apart from that I've never had an issue about getting older. "
Absolutely, there is a huge part of me that is enjoying getting older. |
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I enjoying my midlife, as I can fuck dad or the son as they are both great ages ( if you know what I mean) plus found that sex more sensational than before and I don’t have time to listen someone judgement. |
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"I enjoying my midlife, as I can fuck dad or the son as they are both great ages ( if you know what I mean) plus found that sex more sensational than before and I don’t have time to listen someone judgement. "
Ha ha exactly!! Best of both worlds!
Huge bonus as you age is being more confident and able to say no, to walk away, to be you. |
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"I think there's a questionnaire online OP to see if your having a midlife crisis.
Life Sucks?...
Job Sucks...
Wife Doesn't  "
I think I had a mid life crisis at around 33 for some reason. Now that I think of it, that’s kind of worrying isn’t it?!?! Ha ha |
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"I think there's a questionnaire online OP to see if your having a midlife crisis.
Life Sucks?...
Job Sucks...
Wife Doesn't
I think I had a mid life crisis at around 33 for some reason. Now that I think of it, that’s kind of worrying isn’t it?!?! Ha ha"
Not at all 
Its out of your way now  |
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By *og-ManMan
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I think its a lot easier for men to be middled aged or old as I think of myself now
Do I wish I was younger with all the problems and worries that I had at the time....probably not.
Do I wish I was a lot older ...probably not ....still don't intend to live to a ripe old age ...once my kids are 100% self sufficient I'd like to jump on a plane to Switzerland after saying goodbye to everyone
At present ....I'm in a good place apart from a long term illness and general aches and pains and that will get worse
Dont want to wake up dead just yet
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"I think its a lot easier for men to be middled aged or old as I think of myself now
Do I wish I was younger with all the problems and worries that I had at the time....probably not.
Do I wish I was a lot older ...probably not ....still don't intend to live to a ripe old age ...once my kids are 100% self sufficient I'd like to jump on a plane to Switzerland after saying goodbye to everyone
At present ....I'm in a good place apart from a long term illness and general aches and pains and that will get worse
Dont want to wake up dead just yet
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"I think its a lot easier for men to be middled aged or old as I think of myself now
Do I wish I was younger with all the problems and worries that I had at the time....probably not.
Do I wish I was a lot older ...probably not ....still don't intend to live to a ripe old age ...once my kids are 100% self sufficient I'd like to jump on a plane to Switzerland after saying goodbye to everyone
At present ....I'm in a good place apart from a long term illness and general aches and pains and that will get worse
Dont want to wake up dead just yet
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Sorry to hear about your I'll health |
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By *og-ManMan
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"I think its a lot easier for men to be middled aged or old as I think of myself now
Do I wish I was younger with all the problems and worries that I had at the time....probably not.
Do I wish I was a lot older ...probably not ....still don't intend to live to a ripe old age ...once my kids are 100% self sufficient I'd like to jump on a plane to Switzerland after saying goodbye to everyone
At present ....I'm in a good place apart from a long term illness and general aches and pains and that will get worse
Dont want to wake up dead just yet
Sorry to hear about your I'll health "
Its not the worst in the overall scheme of things in fairness |
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"For me? Menopause,hands down, and everything associated with it. Oh, and bastard gravity  "
Yep, that and knowing how a slow lingering death is the norm in my family |
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"Life is too short to be looking at the negatives.
Lost of positives about getting older also if you have your shit together and look after yourself "
Tell that to the menopause  The loss of ovarian follicular function and decline of oestrogen doesn't really give a flying fig how well you have your shit together or look after yourself. It's incredibly difficult to not look at the negatives when they pervade every part of your life, every hour of every day. It's right and proper that peri and menopausal women look at that negative impact and talk about that negative impact rather than sweep it under the carpet and stay quiet.
And of course there are positives to getting older but that wasn't the question  |
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Getting older is never ever going to be the same as it has been in all our history. Fundamentally life as we know it is on the cusp of entirely changing forever. Life as we know it is already after changing In ways that can never go back. In 3 years time we will not even recognize the world. That's not to say it will be a bad thing, Guaranteed it will be astronomically different worldwide. So too will our lives and how we get old. |
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No problems so far. You are that old how you feel old.I feel like teenage boy. Of course endurance and stamina are not same but well I never like running  |
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"Now I’m getting older it takes me 3 times as long to empty my bladder!!!
Wait till you start getting up 3 times to go to the loo "
You’re tellling me it’s going to get worse  |
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"Now I’m getting older it takes me 3 times as long to empty my bladder!!!
Wait till you start getting up 3 times to go to the loo
You’re tellling me it’s going to get worse "
Not at all ... your just going to start passing out the window at night
Its all good |
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"Getting older is never ever going to be the same as it has been in all our history. Fundamentally life as we know it is on the cusp of entirely changing forever. Life as we know it is already after changing In ways that can never go back. In 3 years time we will not even recognize the world. That's not to say it will be a bad thing, Guaranteed it will be astronomically different worldwide. So too will our lives and how we get old."
You predicting doom's day again |
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Just coming out the other side of menopause it was a far from easy experience but I am still here and smiling , but alas gravity does seem to be getting heavier and my ass now has its own postcode . |
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"Just coming out the other side of menopause it was a far from easy experience but I am still here and smiling , but alas gravity does seem to be getting heavier and my ass now has its own postcode . "
Hahahaha. funny lady |
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"Getting older is never ever going to be the same as it has been in all our history. Fundamentally life as we know it is on the cusp of entirely changing forever. Life as we know it is already after changing In ways that can never go back. In 3 years time we will not even recognize the world. That's not to say it will be a bad thing, Guaranteed it will be astronomically different worldwide. So too will our lives and how we get old.
You predicting doom's day again "
No I've never predicted dooms day 
Never in history have we created something more intelligent than ourselves and capable of learning.
Ai is not more empathetic than humans 
Life will never be the same again ... if we are careful and respectful, it will be close to an actual utopia |
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"Just coming out the other side of menopause it was a far from easy experience but I am still here and smiling , but alas gravity does seem to be getting heavier and my ass now has its own postcode . "
Everything hot in 2023 has its own postcode |
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"Getting older is never ever going to be the same as it has been in all our history. Fundamentally life as we know it is on the cusp of entirely changing forever. Life as we know it is already after changing In ways that can never go back. In 3 years time we will not even recognize the world. That's not to say it will be a bad thing, Guaranteed it will be astronomically different worldwide. So too will our lives and how we get old.
You predicting doom's day again
No I've never predicted dooms day
Never in history have we created something more intelligent than ourselves and capable of learning.
Ai is not more empathetic than humans
Life will never be the same again ... if we are careful and respectful, it will be close to an actual utopia "
Is that you Elon? |
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"Getting older is never ever going to be the same as it has been in all our history. Fundamentally life as we know it is on the cusp of entirely changing forever. Life as we know it is already after changing In ways that can never go back. In 3 years time we will not even recognize the world. That's not to say it will be a bad thing, Guaranteed it will be astronomically different worldwide. So too will our lives and how we get old.
You predicting doom's day again
No I've never predicted dooms day
Never in history have we created something more intelligent than ourselves and capable of learning.
Ai is not more empathetic than humans
Life will never be the same again ... if we are careful and respectful, it will be close to an actual utopia
Is that you Elon? "
So 2020 |
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"Getting older is never ever going to be the same as it has been in all our history. Fundamentally life as we know it is on the cusp of entirely changing forever. Life as we know it is already after changing In ways that can never go back. In 3 years time we will not even recognize the world. That's not to say it will be a bad thing, Guaranteed it will be astronomically different worldwide. So too will our lives and how we get old.
You predicting doom's day again
No I've never predicted dooms day
Never in history have we created something more intelligent than ourselves and capable of learning.
Ai is not more empathetic than humans
Life will never be the same again ... if we are careful and respectful, it will be close to an actual utopia "
Ai is now ...... |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Getting older is never ever going to be the same as it has been in all our history. Fundamentally life as we know it is on the cusp of entirely changing forever. Life as we know it is already after changing In ways that can never go back. In 3 years time we will not even recognize the world. That's not to say it will be a bad thing, Guaranteed it will be astronomically different worldwide. So too will our lives and how we get old.
You predicting doom's day again
No I've never predicted dooms day
Never in history have we created something more intelligent than ourselves and capable of learning.
Ai is not more empathetic than humans
Life will never be the same again ... if we are careful and respectful, it will be close to an actual utopia
Ai is now ......"
So how do we know you're not A.I |
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"Getting older is never ever going to be the same as it has been in all our history. Fundamentally life as we know it is on the cusp of entirely changing forever. Life as we know it is already after changing In ways that can never go back. In 3 years time we will not even recognize the world. That's not to say it will be a bad thing, Guaranteed it will be astronomically different worldwide. So too will our lives and how we get old.
You predicting doom's day again
No I've never predicted dooms day
Never in history have we created something more intelligent than ourselves and capable of learning.
Ai is not more empathetic than humans
Life will never be the same again ... if we are careful and respectful, it will be close to an actual utopia
Ai is now ......"
Pass! Sorry, I'm on the wrong thread. |
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"Getting older is never ever going to be the same as it has been in all our history. Fundamentally life as we know it is on the cusp of entirely changing forever. Life as we know it is already after changing In ways that can never go back. In 3 years time we will not even recognize the world. That's not to say it will be a bad thing, Guaranteed it will be astronomically different worldwide. So too will our lives and how we get old.
You predicting doom's day again
No I've never predicted dooms day
Never in history have we created something more intelligent than ourselves and capable of learning.
Ai is not more empathetic than humans
Life will never be the same again ... if we are careful and respectful, it will be close to an actual utopia "
There's an if in that which humankind as a whole is not capable of so Utopia won't ever happen |
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"Getting older is never ever going to be the same as it has been in all our history. Fundamentally life as we know it is on the cusp of entirely changing forever. Life as we know it is already after changing In ways that can never go back. In 3 years time we will not even recognize the world. That's not to say it will be a bad thing, Guaranteed it will be astronomically different worldwide. So too will our lives and how we get old.
You predicting doom's day again
No I've never predicted dooms day
Never in history have we created something more intelligent than ourselves and capable of learning.
Ai is not more empathetic than humans
Life will never be the same again ... if we are careful and respectful, it will be close to an actual utopia
Ai is now ......
So how do we know you're not A.I "
You don't. |
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"Getting older is never ever going to be the same as it has been in all our history. Fundamentally life as we know it is on the cusp of entirely changing forever. Life as we know it is already after changing In ways that can never go back. In 3 years time we will not even recognize the world. That's not to say it will be a bad thing, Guaranteed it will be astronomically different worldwide. So too will our lives and how we get old.
You predicting doom's day again
No I've never predicted dooms day
Never in history have we created something more intelligent than ourselves and capable of learning.
Ai is not more empathetic than humans
Life will never be the same again ... if we are careful and respectful, it will be close to an actual utopia
There's an if in that which humankind as a whole is not capable of so Utopia won't ever happen "
The alternative to the if, been given by someone the best AI mines on the planet at the moment is, unfortunately a world where in the next 2-3 years The capabilities of AI will be misused misregulators and results in a real existential treat .
Unfortunately it all rests on what data sets we feed ai to learn. We have an opportunity right now to instill in the most intelligent organisms that we have ever known I'm our values and beliefs.
Or we instill in them all our hatred bigotry aggression etc.
Right now however it's an undeniable fact that the world will be fundamentally never the same again within the next 12 to 36 months.
One of the simplest examples some are citing, Is that now no teacher in the world can give an essay as homework!!!
We have never experienced such a change at such a rate in the history of humans that we are aware of. That just gives a slight glimpse into how things are on the cost of changing forever 
Eyes open people |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Worst thing about getting older is waking up and feeling stiff for no reason!lol"
I can certainly relate to that, I thought it was just morning wood until I joined this site, but, I'm struggling with it throughout the day now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Mid life & beyond?...only one thing to say ...we have no choice ..man or woman ...no choice in the matter...just make the most of what you can while you can..like the Desiderata said " gracefully surrender the things of youth " ...good job l hope to grow old disgracefully |
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"I have no worst thing, I'm happier in myself, I'm looking forward to a next stage in life and looking forward to the journey of getting there. Things that are out of my control, I'm not going to stress over enjoy the now and all the sexiness I hope it brings. Xx  "
Hear hear! |
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