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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what do others do ?
If you see a fabber you like and want to meet or just chat , fab their pictures ,send them a Wink or just go ahead and message them."
I'm pretty slow off the mark in that regard.Im more interested in members that use the forum. It just seems to be a more immediate process, even if the meets are not. |
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I don't view profiles in stealth mode... I'll fab pics and if I like the look of them I'll drop a wink too. It just means whoever I'm looking at can see I've viewed them and am interested. If they want to get in touch then happy days...if not,no harm done!! It really limits interaction but I'd rather that than be annoying people with unsolicited messages!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always send them a message. It shows a bit more respect to them and lets them know that at least I read their profile.
If I receive a wink, I send a message thanking them for taking the time to read my profile.
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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago
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We will fab pics quite often on friends and local updates, but we wink to indicate we’re interested in a couple. If the wink is reciprocated, we’ll definitely message. We’re more likely to message at times when we’ve no planned meets. |
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By *apri 555 OP Man
over a year ago
wexford or Dublin |
"We will fab pics quite often on friends and local updates, but we wink to indicate we’re interested in a couple. If the wink is reciprocated, we’ll definitely message. We’re more likely to message at times when we’ve no planned meets."
Good morning 
So the way you guys do it is like a bit of a build up to a msg , fab shows ya like a pic ,a wink shows intrest and hopfully leads to a msg ,
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"We always send a wink if we like what we see  "
Winks can be misconstrued, we actually had a couple of knock backs in the past after we responded to some winks so we don’t bother with them anymore (unless we get a message with it) now we either just fab or send a message |
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I've no problem fabbing pics. A good picture is a good picture and deserves a fab. Apart from that if it's a profile I like but I've absolutely no interaction with before,I might show interest by sending a wink and fabbing some pics (not necessarily every single pic) if a wink happens to find it's way back to me then I'll send a msg and say hi.
I think a lot of ppl here now have come to the realisation that women and couples get bombarded with msgs that are likely to get bulk deleted or just not read anyway, so a wink can have every much a chance of being seen as a msg. It can be disheartening when you do put time and effort into writing a decent msg only for it to be ignored deleted and never read.
Tbh I kinda think it's better for the women and couples to send msgs first as you know they will be read and guys will respond. But hey,that only one dish of a varied menu and there are many other dished ppl can choose from here. |
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I don't respond to winks, he doesn't either cos he's too lazy to 
), send a message 
