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Why are women more into taller men?
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For me personally given himself is a foot taller than me its a thing of feeling like he can "protect" me but also that he can pick me up and throw me around etc (consensual sexual way obvs) mind you its hard not to be taller than me so theres that.
In terms of men getting a hard time if their preference is for slimmer women, i havent personally seen it but they shouldnt. A lot of people have preference for certain bodies and what "floats our boat" and noone should get any shit for what they like and are attracted to. |
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As a fat woman, I have no negative feelings towards men who prefer slim women.
I'm also a woman who prefers tall men. It's an aesthetic that appeals to me. I like a man to envelop me. I like when we hug to rest my head on his chest. I enjoy the protector feeling. I like looking up into a man's eyes. I like having to get up on my tiptoes to steal a kiss.
When I'm with a short man I feel like his mammy. I feel huge. I feel awkward. I feel self conscious. I feel like a (wo)man mountain. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As a fat woman, I have no negative feelings towards men who prefer slim women.
I'm also a woman who prefers tall men. It's an aesthetic that appeals to me. I like a man to envelop me. I like when we hug to rest my head on his chest. I enjoy the protector feeling. I like looking up into a man's eyes. I like having to get up on my tiptoes to steal a kiss.
When I'm with a short man I feel like his mammy. I feel huge. I feel awkward. I feel self conscious. I feel like a (wo)man mountain."
So what’s average minimum hight guy go for? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m 6”2, not just Fab 6”2 either ..
But I had a gf who was 6 foot and I loved it , loved shorter women too, and inbetween. It’s not w dealbreaker for me is my point, and for others it is and that’s just way of it.
Much rather someone says right out what they don’t like, saves time gettin invested in something that’s doomed from the get go . |
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It's evolutionary. Tall people didn't have any problem stunting their height. They could be healthy and strong and well able to hunt and gather food so they were able to grow tall. That means he is more likely to have the resources to feed and protect his mate and their kids. |
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I’m also 6’2”. I enjoy being with women of all heights, from short to tall.
Given my own height it’s usual that women are quite a bit shorter than me. I actually don’t think I’ve ever been with someone my own height- I think that would be an interesting experience! |
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As others have said height is an evolutionary trait and has that feel of protection.
Regarding men, the only time I’ve seen it as an issue is when other men are nasty or ignorant with how they make their preferences known. You don’t have to belittle someone’s weight or shape when say you prefer a slimmer person.
Ultimately it’s an each to their own choice. |
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Like.everurhing here it's a preference. I have zero interest in meeting someone shorter than me, been there done that, found it a huge disappointment every time. So my preference is for taller and won't change |
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I'm 5'1 so everyone's taller than me lol Height has never been a thing I'm looking at before meeting someone. If the right vibe and connection is there, the body shape, the height and the age really don't matter. However, I do have a weakness for tall men with dad bods, in my experience, they give the sweetest cuddles
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"I'm 5'1 so everyone's taller than me lol Height has never been a thing I'm looking at before meeting someone. If the right vibe and connection is there, the body shape, the height and the age really don't matter. However, I do have a weakness for tall men with dad bods, in my experience, they give the sweetest cuddles
Anna "
We do |
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"I’m also 6’2”. I enjoy being with women of all heights, from short to tall.
Given my own height it’s usual that women are quite a bit shorter than me. I actually don’t think I’ve ever been with someone my own height- I think that would be an interesting experience!"
Same, I don't think I've ever been with a woman my own height.
Tall, fit women are the real unicorns! |
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I don't really go looking for a guy based on his height but I do believe it could be an evolutionary thing because I do tend to end up with men at least a foot+ taller than me. To be honest im short anyway so finding a guy my height might prove difficult  |
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"Like.everurhing here it's a preference. I have zero interest in meeting someone shorter than me, been there done that, found it a huge disappointment every time. So my preference is for taller and won't change "
What hight are you |
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"Like.everurhing here it's a preference. I have zero interest in meeting someone shorter than me, been there done that, found it a huge disappointment every time. So my preference is for taller and won't change
What hight are you"
5'11 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’m also 6’2”. I enjoy being with women of all heights, from short to tall.
Given my own height it’s usual that women are quite a bit shorter than me. I actually don’t think I’ve ever been with someone my own height- I think that would be an interesting experience!
Well I have always had girls that are shorter than me! But every relationship had shit!
Same, I don't think I've ever been with a woman my own height.
Tall, fit women are the real unicorns!"
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Well I’m 6’4” and still finding it difficult on fab. Maybe the smaller men try harder to get women here. On the body shape I much rather a female with a big ass and big tits and in order for a female to have these things they need to have weight on them and I’m happy with that. So bring on the sexy curvy women |
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Height has never been a think I was checking to be honest, unless the person states they want someone taller/shorter than them. I am fairly average height for an Irish guy, so not bothered either way.
Also OP you can just check peoples profiles for their height rather than asking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a fat woman, I have no negative feelings towards men who prefer slim women.
I'm also a woman who prefers tall men. It's an aesthetic that appeals to me. I like a man to envelop me. I like when we hug to rest my head on his chest. I enjoy the protector feeling. I like looking up into a man's eyes. I like having to get up on my tiptoes to steal a kiss.
When I'm with a short man I feel like his mammy. I feel huge. I feel awkward. I feel self conscious. I feel like a (wo)man mountain.
So what’s average minimum hight guy go for?"
I prefer 6ft plus
Obviously there are exceptions and being tall doesn't trump everything else |
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It's purely preference I think.
Some like taller and won't waver on that.
Some like bigger some like smaller bodies.
You can't please everyone or be everyone's cup of tea either.
Personality will attract me a lot quicker than height will.
I married a guy that's shorter than me
Em x |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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Height mattered to me when I was younger. Nowadays I couldn't be bothered. There's other great characteristics that I find much more convincing.
Anyhow it always intrigues me that height is a selection criteria of first degree on here; what happened to all the 'personality' claims?  |
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"Height mattered to me when I was younger. Nowadays I couldn't be bothered. There's other great characteristics that I find much more convincing.
Anyhow it always intrigues me that height is a selection criteria of first degree on here; what happened to all the 'personality' claims? "
I've always been open about being one of those shallow cunts who wants physical attraction first  |
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"Height mattered to me when I was younger. Nowadays I couldn't be bothered. There's other great characteristics that I find much more convincing.
Anyhow it always intrigues me that height is a selection criteria of first degree on here; what happened to all the 'personality' claims?
I've always been open about being one of those shallow cunts who wants physical attraction first "
Same  |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Height mattered to me when I was younger. Nowadays I couldn't be bothered. There's other great characteristics that I find much more convincing.
Anyhow it always intrigues me that height is a selection criteria of first degree on here; what happened to all the 'personality' claims?
I've always been open about being one of those shallow cunts who wants physical attraction first "
I think there's nothing wrong with that whatsoever, especially when you're looking for a nsa encounter only. We do 'eat' with all our senses. |
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"Height mattered to me when I was younger. Nowadays I couldn't be bothered. There's other great characteristics that I find much more convincing.
Anyhow it always intrigues me that height is a selection criteria of first degree on here; what happened to all the 'personality' claims?
I've always been open about being one of those shallow cunts who wants physical attraction first
I think there's nothing wrong with that whatsoever, especially when you're looking for a nsa encounter only. We do 'eat' with all our senses. "
And then there is the few here that don't eat at all. I'm keeping hydrated anyhows, but a shell of a man since I joined the site. |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
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I am more drawn to a guy 6ft plus but it’s not a dealbreaker.
For me, it’s about feeling enveloped by a guy. I’m taller and broader than all my friends so it’s nice to feel “small” now and then |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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"Well I’m 6’4” and still finding it difficult on fab. Maybe the smaller men try harder to get women here. On the body shape I much rather a female with a big ass and big tits and in order for a female to have these things they need to have weight on them and I’m happy with that. So bring on the sexy curvy women "
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"So why are women more into taller men?
And when men are more into slimmer women, it’s perceived negatively towards men for that choice?
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It's simply down to genetics and DNA programming-women are more drawn to tall and broad men as subconsciously such are deemed as more protective and possibly more virile. In the same way, men can't help staring at a woman's breasts-its the nurturing thing as we suckled on them as babies |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"So why are women more into taller men?
And when men are more into slimmer women, it’s perceived negatively towards men for that choice?
It's simply down to genetics and DNA programming-women are more drawn to tall and broad men as subconsciously such are deemed as more protective and possibly more virile. In the same way, men can't help staring at a woman's breasts-its the nurturing thing as we suckled on them as babies "
Thats why the baby formula aisle gives me a hard on  |
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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago
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"I'm 6ft9 never find woman that wants tall guy like me
Holy fuck
I think you broke Lolly…
That height absofuckingloutly
" I think I could miss out a amazing woman if I worried about Height weight etc personality comes in all shades all sizes all ages and we are not taking them on for life !! It’s a swinging site  |
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I’m 6’5” and only in recent years felt comfortable in my height, was always insecure about it before.
Especially when I got attention simply for being tall.
A good question is why are tall guys like me often really into short curvy girls? |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
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"For me personally given himself is a foot taller than me its a thing of feeling like he can "protect" me but also that he can pick me up and throw me around etc (consensual sexual way obvs) mind you its hard not to be taller than me so theres that.
There is a disparity when it comes to preferences.
Men are more likely to get it in the neck and challenged for having preferences.
Women can have a preference list as long as your arm and this is acceptable.
In terms of men getting a hard time if their preference is for slimmer women, i havent personally seen it but they shouldnt. A lot of people have preference for certain bodies and what "floats our boat" and noone should get any shit for what they like and are attracted to. "
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"So why are women more into taller men?
And when men are more into slimmer women, it’s perceived negative towards men for that choice?
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I would say a large part of the drive is sociological too ...
We are culturally influenced to stick with this stereotype too ! |
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"So why are women more into taller men?
And when men are more into slimmer women, it’s perceived negative towards men for that
what if he s got no legs but a giant cock ?
" then he can walk on his cock  |
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"So why are women more into taller men?
And when men are more into slimmer women, it’s perceived negative towards men for that
what if he s got no legs but a giant cock ?
then he can walk on his cock "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's purely preference I think.
Some like taller and won't waver on that.
Some like bigger some like smaller bodies.
You can't please everyone or be everyone's cup of tea either.
Personality will attract me a lot quicker than height will.
I married a guy that's shorter than me
Em x"
Oh, cool |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me personally given himself is a foot taller than me its a thing of feeling like he can "protect" me but also that he can pick me up and throw me around etc (consensual sexual way obvs) mind you its hard not to be taller than me so theres that.
In terms of men getting a hard time if their preference is for slimmer women, i havent personally seen it but they shouldnt. A lot of people have preference for certain bodies and what "floats our boat" and noone should get any shit for what they like and are attracted to. "
I seen you mentioned about him protect you and first pic I see on your profile is Mike mayers , scarred the sh1t out of me lol |
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"For me personally given himself is a foot taller than me its a thing of feeling like he can "protect" me but also that he can pick me up and throw me around etc (consensual sexual way obvs) mind you its hard not to be taller than me so theres that.
In terms of men getting a hard time if their preference is for slimmer women, i havent personally seen it but they shouldnt. A lot of people have preference for certain bodies and what "floats our boat" and noone should get any shit for what they like and are attracted to.
I seen you mentioned about him protect you and first pic I see on your profile is Mike mayers , scarred the sh1t out of me lol"
Yeah sorry about that  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm into smaller women in height to me ...sorta fit better together lying in bed
How tall are you
I'm 5 foot 10 so standard enough "
I am 5,7 foot, but feel like not good enough! And most comments women like 6+… though shorter dude could take out a tall dude if he is very fit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love been with taller men, not saying the sex is better that depends on the guy and connection. Maybe at 5ft10 I was always considered tall growing up (and in irish terms.. a big girl with child bearing hips), so it's nice to be with guy that doesn't make me feel BIG. Plus I rather keep my bending over activities for other things than kissing him. |
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"I'm into smaller women in height to me ...sorta fit better together lying in bed
How tall are you
I'm 5 foot 10 so standard enough
I am 5,7 foot, but feel like not good enough! And most comments women like 6+… though shorter dude could take out a tall dude if he is very fit."
Women who like taller men are not interested in if they are tough or not! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I would love if all men did that and not try bite my nipple off!
Certified tall, non-nipple biter here "
Good to know! Maybe some men weren't breast fed and don't have the natural instinct to suckle rather than bite! Think this could be another forum question!  |
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"I'm into smaller women in height to me ...sorta fit better together lying in bed
How tall are you
I'm 5 foot 10 so standard enough
I am 5,7 foot, but feel like not good enough! And most comments women like 6+… though shorter dude could take out a tall dude if he is very fit.
Women who like taller men are not interested in if they are tough or not!"
Is it he have bigger cock  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm into smaller women in height to me ...sorta fit better together lying in bed
How tall are you
I'm 5 foot 10 so standard enough
I am 5,7 foot, but feel like not good enough! And most comments women like 6+… though shorter dude could take out a tall dude if he is very fit."
I feel like is now my default response these days |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm into smaller women in height to me ...sorta fit better together lying in bed
How tall are you
I'm 5 foot 10 so standard enough
I am 5,7 foot, but feel like not good enough! And most comments women like 6+… though shorter dude could take out a tall dude if he is very fit.
I feel like is now my default response these days"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I would love if all men did that and not try bite my nipple off!
Certified tall, non-nipple biter here
Good to know! Maybe some men weren't breast fed and don't have the natural instinct to suckle rather than bite! Think this could be another forum question! "
I do believe you’re right - that would be a good forum question  |
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By *indenMan
over a year ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
In a recently conducted study by Sydney University it was found that the most common word to appear on profiles in the “looking for interesting in” part of a bio was……tall…..
Harumph……  |
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