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Hi I'm planning a bi party for a few weeks time. Just a few people meet up in a hotel room & go with the flow with what everyone is comfortable with. A drink, chat, laugh and fun.
If your a bi cpl or bi single female or male who is verified with pics who just wants to let go & enjoy with like minded people reply privately.
Hopefully it can be a meet & greet to meet people for regular fun discreet times. Thanks x |
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That's very true but if you can't be honest about who you are what's the point am sick of bi guys putting straight on their profile because they think women won't meet them I am part of a group who meet regularly most of the guys that attend are bi and let me tell you they have no problems meeting women be out and proud it's not the 60s that we live in |
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By *inxySTV/TS
over a year ago
dublin |
"That's very true but if you can't be honest about who you are what's the point am sick of bi guys putting straight on their profile because they think women won't meet them I am part of a group who meet regularly most of the guys that attend are bi and let me tell you they have no problems meeting women be out and proud it's not the 60s that we live in "
"Because they think women won't meet them" well from my perspective I had a male profile here some years ago with a mix of average male photos and then photos of myself as Sandra. When I posted as a male I got some decent interest but as soon as the spotted Sandra pics, boom radio silence.
The vast majority of girls want nothing to do with bi guys which is fine but I can 100% see why a guy wo is at the beginning of exploring his bi side would keep it quiet. Fair play to you or being inclusive bit very few females here are when it comes to bi guys |
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Both raising valued points.
As guy who is starting out with little or no verification ( I know I have one). Why would we kill off half our chances.
It hard for us to get stating talking/get a response. to people.
I find bi couples are completely open to changing to straight males.
It is not the same for straight couples they want not to do with bi men.
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Not going to get into an argument over this so will just leave it there I have my views on it and they won't change shouldn't matter whether you are just starting out or an experienced guy it's wrong to deceive people because you haven't the balls to be true to what you are in my opinion if you are willing to lie about who you are what else are you lying about so it's no wonder women don't want to meet you I wouldn't either |
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"Where would it be taking part what part of the country "
Hi, First one is in Wexford. There is quiet a few interested in Kilenny also so all goes well will be another one there. Thanks for your interest x
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"Not going to get into an argument over this so will just leave it there I have my views on it and they won't change shouldn't matter whether you are just starting out or an experienced guy it's wrong to deceive people because you haven't the balls to be true to what you are in my opinion if you are willing to lie about who you are what else are you lying about so it's no wonder women don't want to meet you I wouldn't either "
There are people who might not be ready to be out. Out might come in stages and be helped along by supportive experiences both here and in real life. |
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By *inxySTV/TS
over a year ago
dublin |
"Not going to get into an argument over this so will just leave it there I have my views on it and they won't change shouldn't matter whether you are just starting out or an experienced guy it's wrong to deceive people because you haven't the balls to be true to what you are in my opinion if you are willing to lie about who you are what else are you lying about so it's no wonder women don't want to meet you I wouldn't either "
Wow. When was making a point about a personal experience an argument?. That's some leap I've got to say. Also I'm not lying about who I am but I'm open minded enough to consider the worries some guys and girls have about coming out. You're essentially saying someone who hasn't yet become comfortable with their sexualty is a liar and shouldn't be trusted.
You're supportive of bisexuality as long as its on your terms and therein lies the reason why so many guys here are afraid of their lives to be open. I hope the event is an amazing success and again well done to all involved for holding it but maybe refrain from calling people liars just because they are unsure of or scared to admit they are bi, it's really unhelpful to those who want a helping hand. Imagine a younger person being told to grow a pair of balls because they are uncomfortable admitting to strangers they are bi. Despite your unwillingness I am happy to say I'm open minded enough to chat to anyone   . |
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Seems you aren't allowed to express opinions on here now what's the point of a open forum if you can't say how you feel without people attacking you all I simply meant was I don't like being lied too if someone isn't sure of there sexuality that's fine but don't be saying you are straight then posting on a post advertising a bi party he clearly isn't confused |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Previously when I had my male profile, it was the norm for lots of fab straight guys to suddenly turn bi at the stroke of midnight .. it got ridiculous as I'd no problem chatting to guys as they could potentially be messaging about anything (yes some talk about footie etc) but in the end, I unfortunately had to use filters. Amazingly since Lorraine decided that fab was for her also, not one single bi (straight) man has messaged us  |
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It's no one's business what someone's sexuality is. Why do others think they are entitled to know these details? I've never once in all the years I'm on here asked a guy I was talking with if he was straight or bi. Why would I?
If someone is asking to join a bi party, take it that they're interested...it's really that simple.
OP I hope you have a great time |
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"Seems you aren't allowed to express opinions on here now what's the point of a open forum if you can't say how you feel without people attacking you all I simply meant was I don't like being lied too if someone isn't sure of there sexuality that's fine but don't be saying you are straight then posting on a post advertising a bi party he clearly isn't confused "
It could be your wording that people had a problem with & not your actual option.
Personally I don't think anybody should be hiding their sexuality.
Going by my experience on Fab, it's a fairly common for men to say they're straight. When their really bi or bi-(curous). I'm fairly sure I seen on another thread straight straight or Fab straight.  |
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By *indenMan
over a year ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
What’s with the constant need for people to be labelled, pigeon holed or put into a particular box here?
I thought the original post was very clear, very well written, friendly, relaxed and inviting.
It didn’t say that you must have bi or bi-curious on your profile, in fact, to my reading, it was quite the opposite.
There are broader terms required here to define how people view themselves, or more importantly, how they feel about themselves, than provided for here…..
Otherwise the difference of opinion on where the line falls between being discreet and being a liar will always be a problem.
No one’s business….
Apologies OP…… |
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I find sexuality is like grieving,you should never judge how someone experiences it.
Were all on a life long journey and it takes time to become comfortable with things.
I appreciate all the points made on here but kindness is important in these things.
Were all at different points on down the road. |
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By *liviacdTV/TS
over a year ago
Greystones, Galway |
I've been on fab for a few years now and have had many conversations with, and met a few, who had straight on their profile. They explained that they weren't sure of their sexuality and saw a gurl like me as a gradual introduction to bisexuality. Many of these were very nice and basically honest guys. I can understand why they were reticent about stating their sexuality outright. Its a big step. At least two of these guys now have bi on their profiles
Guys who have lots of experience, visible from their verifications, I have less understanding for!
Depending on the date and time I'm interested. |
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"It's no one's business what someone's sexuality is. Why do others think they are entitled to know these details? I've never once in all the years I'm on here asked a guy I was talking with if he was straight or bi. Why would I?
If someone is asking to join a bi party, take it that they're interested...it's really that simple.
OP I hope you have a great time"
Agree x |
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"Hi I'm planning a bi party for a few weeks time. Just a few people meet up in a hotel room & go with the flow with what everyone is comfortable with. A drink, chat, laugh and fun.
If your a bi cpl or bi single female or male who is verified with pics who just wants to let go & enjoy with like minded people reply privately.
Hopefully it can be a meet & greet to meet people for regular fun discreet times. Thanks x "
Potentially interested depending on dates |
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