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Turned down 3sum - unprotected
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all
Just get your opinion, had where couple wanted me to join for 3sum! Sounded really good! Really wanted sex…??????
But they wanted no condoms… And my rule play safe! Do you guys think by me turning down the chance was crazy? I know cream pie is fucking awesome! But my health safety comes first. Couples please comment on what you think! Just as much wanted sex I could not compromise on this sti’s is real! Once you get it have it for life! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i think you’re just trying to get attention that’s all, like you are one in a million)) "
Mmmm, well does it not make you the same? by making the comment you made…
Or you trying to ware the balls.
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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago
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"i think you’re just trying to get attention that’s all, like you are one in a million))
Mmmm, well does it not make you the same? by making the comment you made…
Or you trying to ware the balls.
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To be fair, I don't think they need to look for attention. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely it doesn't matter if its a 2some or 3some or more some, you are either committed to wearing protection or not.
If they don't want you to wear it, then they are the same with everyone and sooner or later they are gonna be riddled. Think you dodged a bullet there. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Surely it doesn't matter if its a 2some or 3some or more some, you are either committed to wearing protection or not.
If they don't want you to wear it, then they are the same with everyone and sooner or later they are gonna be riddled. Think you dodged a bullet there. "
No, don’t think it will be first or last to not want wear condoms. That’s where the respect comes in. But all she wants a creampie regardless! On to their own… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I totally respect your decision to not do something you're not happy with, and I also respect their choice to want the thing that they want."
Yep this is the other side of it.
It's not scandalous or shocking, it just means you're incompatible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I totally respect your decision to not do something you're not happy with, and I also respect their choice to want the thing that they want."
This… when people say on here “discretion”… making a forum post about them is the opposite if that .. a gentleman never tells , whether he approves or no..  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In any sexual encounter you shouldn't do something you're uncomfortable with or compromise your hard limits just because the other party wants it. "
Very true, you have to be comfortable. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I totally respect your decision to not do something you're not happy with, and I also respect their choice to want the thing that they want.
Yep this is the other side of it.
It's not scandalous or shocking, it just means you're incompatible "
Think 100% agree, have to be on same page |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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You stuck to your boundaries and rules and you're right to. But there is no need to knock what others do either on here and that includes people who look for bare back. You're just not right for each other so you did the right thing by not meeting if you're not happy. The same as everyone else on here who turns down a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You stuck to your boundaries and rules and you're right to. But there is no need to knock what others do either on here and that includes people who look for bare back. You're just not right for each other so you did the right thing by not meeting if you're not happy. The same as everyone else on here who turns down a meet. "
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Thanks |
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"i think you’re just trying to get attention that’s all, like you are one in a million))
Mmmm, well does it not make you the same? by making the comment you made…
Or you trying to ware the balls.
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So you admit thats what your doing...  |
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"Surely it doesn't matter if its a 2some or 3some or more some, you are either committed to wearing protection or not.
If they don't want you to wear it, then they are the same with everyone and sooner or later they are gonna be riddled. Think you dodged a bullet there.
No, don’t think it will be first or last to not want wear condoms. That’s where the respect comes in. But all she wants a creampie regardless! On to their own…"
Respect in what regard ? Whos respect ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i think you’re just trying to get attention that’s all, like you are one in a million))
Mmmm, well does it not make you the same? by making the comment you made…
Or you trying to ware the balls.
So you admit thats what your doing... "
Actually been sarcastic |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I totally respect your decision to not do something you're not happy with, and I also respect their choice to want the thing that they want.
This  "
Yip 100% bru |
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"I totally respect your decision to not do something you're not happy with, and I also respect their choice to want the thing that they want.
This
Yip 100% bru"
Maybe try being respectful by not complaining about them in a public tread in future ... just a thought..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone on here is trying to get attention from someone....
Flashing tits, cocks and ass'!!!!
Attention whores the lot of you.... XXX
Plus honesty isn't slapping 5 filters over yourself either.
But then again unsafe is pretty dumb unless you're fully prepped  |
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"Safe sex all the way.
No glove..no love
Thanks love - so not going crazy! "
In our (limited) experience of swing scenarios, we've only ever seen unprotected sex between couples.
It is standard (but not exclusive) practice to use condoms, if that is what you are asking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's their preference to not want to use one and yours to want to and say no if you're not comfortable. It's personal preference and just means you weren't a match. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Safe sex all the way.
No glove..no love
Thanks love - so not going crazy!
In our (limited) experience of swing scenarios, we've only ever seen unprotected sex
It is standard (but not exclusive) practice to use condoms, if that is what you are asking."
Yes, I can quite believe that! Like others have said - there was no compatible… they did not want to bound to my boundaries… And that’s way it goes. And for sure I will find a couple or single that will be compatible understandings |
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