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over a year ago
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"What should a man do"
She needs some romantic gestures! You know what she likes, get her flowers… simple word like “I love you”!
Sometimes life just takes over, need also time together alone away with no distractions. |
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"What should a man do
She needs some romantic gestures! You know what she likes, get her flowers… simple word like “I love you”!
Sometimes life just takes over, need also time together alone away with no distractions."
Ya thanks need to look at whT we had |
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There are some women that aren’t really interested in sex that’s the reality, it’s not your fault and romantic shite wouldn’t help, nothing will help if there’s no sex and you’ve tried many times without response, well you’re free to look somewhere else |
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"There are some women that aren’t really interested in sex that’s the reality, it’s not your fault and romantic shite wouldn’t help, nothing will help if there’s no sex and you’ve tried many times without response, well you’re free to look somewhere else "
I know but I wish I was having some sort of a sexual relationship with my wife mainly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are some women that aren’t really interested in sex that’s the reality, it’s not your fault and romantic shite wouldn’t help, nothing will help if there’s no sex and you’ve tried many times without response, well you’re free to look somewhere else "
Wow, I see you leaving your man at drop of a hat! |
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By *anandJCouple
over a year ago
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"What should a man do"
Talk to her, instead of looking for the solution on fab. We had the same and it took as a year before we fixed ourself. Now we have great sex life between us and are on fab together. |
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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago
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Talk to her, could be many reasons stress, hormones, tiredness.
Communication is key, perhaps foreplay to see if it works.
Seeing as you're on fab, don't make the jump until you're sure it's right for you and your marriage. |
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This is a conversation you need to have with her, it may need someone in the middle, it may need you to look at yourself in the mirror…..
There are a lot of reasons and buying some flowers may be the worst thing you could do |
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One of life's most difficult dilemmas for which there are no easy answers. Yes talking is good, romantic gestures can help, counselling may bring about a satisfactory solution.
But if there is an imbalance between the needs and desires of partners then some possible outcomes are;
Split up and lose what is good in the relationship in the hope of finding satisfaction, which may be short-lived, elsewhere.
Do nothing and live on frustrated and making your life and everybody else's miserable.
Go outside your relationship for intimacy. Yes it is deceitful and brings guilt and the risk of being found out, but if you are discreet it may be the best possible compromise in the circumstances.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Had same problem both wasn’t interested in the sex, I wasn’t feel feminine enough no attention or romantic in our relationship, I got on fab seeking for proof of that I still attractive for men to gain my confidence, while trying to get my husband attention back to me, after lots of chatting with him I give him a present tantra massage , after he went our sex life is got so great.
So this is my story to sort it out, if you love your wife you should fight back for your happiness together, it’s possible to find solution if is love still in the air. Wishing you best luck x |
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"What should a man do stay of this have a small bit of respect for your wife maybe theres something going on with her and you on here worrying about your poor cock talk to you wife...."
Making more friends I see.. |
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
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"Talk to her, could be many reasons stress, hormones, tiredness.
Communication is key, perhaps foreplay to see if it works.
Seeing as you're on fab, don't make the jump until you're sure it's right for you and your marriage. "
Exactly this talk to her! Communication is so so important! You really do not want to do something on here you will regret.
You can also get professional help.
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"What should a man do stay of this have a small bit of respect for your wife maybe theres something going on with her and you on here worrying about your poor cock talk to you wife....
Making more friends I see.."
can i be your friend  |
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"What should a man do"
Maybe she knows you have a secret account on a swinger site and that’s put her off intimacy? If she has found out, she’s probably struggling in particular over your description of yourself as “honest” in your bio |
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"What should a man do
Maybe she knows you have a secret account on a swinger site and that’s put her off intimacy? If she has found out, she’s probably struggling in particular over your description of yourself as “honest” in your bio "
aw leave the poor lad alone its not his fault that he cares more about his cock then his wifes feelings |
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"There are some women that aren’t really interested in sex that’s the reality, it’s not your fault and romantic shite wouldn’t help, nothing will help if there’s no sex and you’ve tried many times without response, well you’re free to look somewhere else "
That's the worst advice I've ever read 
Op, communication is everything in a relationship, as is pulling your weight around the house, showing her affection, going on date nights and appreciating her in general. There are soooo many factors affecting a woman's libido and they all need to be right for her to want to have sex with you.
Don't go looking for it elsewhere without getting her prior consent as that's just a recipe for disaster as I'm sure you know.
Good luck with it all, I do empathise with your situation.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If she's off sex she must be getting it elsewhere, just a thought "
I know a woman who said to her husband " l love sex ..just not with you " |
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"There are some women that aren’t really interested in sex that’s the reality, it’s not your fault and romantic shite wouldn’t help, nothing will help if there’s no sex and you’ve tried many times without response, well you’re free to look somewhere else
That's the worst advice I've ever read
Op, communication is everything in a relationship, as is pulling your weight around the house, showing her affection, going on date nights and appreciating her in general. There are soooo many factors affecting a woman's libido and they all need to be right for her to want to have sex with you.
Don't go looking for it elsewhere without getting her prior consent as that's just a recipe for disaster as I'm sure you know.
Good luck with it all, I do empathise with your situation.
Mrs "
Always beware of a woman telling a guy that he can go off and have sex with others... sometimes it's often a honey trap ..and something she can hold over him... forever.. |
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OP I empathise with your situation. It's not easy. There is some great advice up there and some terrible advice too.
All I can say to you is that as important as it is to do the things you're wife needs to feel attractive and supported, you can, and need to do these things to yourself too so then that when you do act it's coming from a positive place.
Be kind to yourself in small ways. For me it's having an extra shower, keeping my beard and hair tidy and going for a short walk in the evening. Regular small things go along way. And you never know maybe after a week or two she might say yes if you ask her for a walk.
Best of luck |
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"There are some women that aren’t really interested in sex that’s the reality, it’s not your fault and romantic shite wouldn’t help, nothing will help if there’s no sex and you’ve tried many times without response, well you’re free to look somewhere else
That's the worst advice I've ever read
Op, communication is everything in a relationship, as is pulling your weight around the house, showing her affection, going on date nights and appreciating her in general. There are soooo many factors affecting a woman's libido and they all need to be right for her to want to have sex with you.
Don't go looking for it elsewhere without getting her prior consent as that's just a recipe for disaster as I'm sure you know.
Good luck with it all, I do empathise with your situation.
Mrs
Always beware of a woman telling a guy that he can go off and have sex with others... sometimes it's often a honey trap ..and something she can hold over him... forever.."
Eh, how can she if she already gave her consent  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Talk to her, could be many reasons stress, hormones, tiredness.
Communication is key, perhaps foreplay to see if it works.
Seeing as you're on fab, don't make the jump until you're sure it's right for you and your marriage. "
Good advice… |
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