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What gifts have you received from Fabbers?
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There is a thread running today about who should pay for the hotel room for a meet.
While its never necessary, I'm often touched by the thoughtfulness and generosity of some people I've met.
One couple brought me a personalised calender.
Another, a book, ordered online, with artwork of all the kinks and fetishes I like.
A pastry chef fattened me up with two trays of the most delicious pastries.
A cook brought me, whiskey cake and porter cake, straight from the oven. Some brought me wine.
I was very impressed, and their thoughtfulness made the meets very memorable.
What gifts have you given or received at meets?
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I probably should add, that most of those treats were on repeat meets, where we had got to know each other and had shared a lot of intimacies, kinks, etc. That's why I love repeat meets with people who've become friends. |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"Ohhh and a courgette 
A courgette.....?? "
A message i got on here about wanting to use a courgette on me and shared it with a friend, the follow morning we met for coffee and he slid one over the table was brilliant |
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over a year ago
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"Ohhh and a courgette
A courgette.....??
A message i got on here about wanting to use a courgette on me and shared it with a friend, the follow morning we met for coffee and he slid one over the table was brilliant "
Thats brilliant lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never received any gifts on first meets. Wouldn't want any, either. A guy did want to meet me in Ann Summers to buy me an outfit but too weird for me.
Have bought and received gifts from fbs though |
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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago
The bog |
Instill haven't even got me bloody snack box let alone anything else...I did have one person throw a fiver at me and told me to buy one..I was so disgusted caise it cost more than a fiver for one so had to do with euro saver menu in mcdona instead.. |
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I haven't had the pleasure of receiving a gift but if I'm visiting someone at home for the first time I like to bring a bottle of wine for for the house.
I'd usually bring something small and delicious to accompany a drink whether hotel or home. It's nice to titillate all the senses |
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
Gods Own Country |
I had a lovely gift of a tea set, proper one for brewing. Various flavoured teas also , was very thoughtful as I had mentioned just briefly that I was enjoying the new way of drinking tea.
Was several years ago and I still have it. |
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"One fabber did treat me well . I got night away perfume and a few other bits . But we had met a few times.
Another fabber gives me doughnuts and taytos for nothing in return . "
Think we know who the latter was...  |
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"  Jesus where am I going wrong? I haven’t even been bought a coffee
Same here, I had to buy own tea on the help a fabber thread 
Ahhha haha lmao
Wtf
Swear to god .. he was there before me, he had his coffee , said go on in and order, we sat outside the killeshin Hotel "
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Miserable pri*k.
Cuppa tae is definitely on me Lou,
if/when we meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One fabber did treat me well . I got night away perfume and a few other bits . But we had met a few times.
Another fabber gives me doughnuts and taytos for nothing in return .
Think we know who the latter was... "
So do I and I wasn't even there lol, I got a bag of malteers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Jesus where am I going wrong? I haven’t even been bought a coffee
Same here, I had to buy own tea on the help a fabber thread
Ahhha haha lmao
Wtf
Swear to god .. he was there before me, he had his coffee , said go on in and order, we sat outside the killeshin Hotel
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Miserable pri*k.
Cuppa tae is definitely on me Lou,
if/when we meet."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbh if anyone bought me anything I'd find it very ick even if it was a repeat meet, it's just my thing if you wanna buy me anything tea will do, as they say each to their own, if I want something I'll buy myself |
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There is a few couples we meet regularly and if we are going to their houses especially we would always bring something they would do the same if coming to ours .
Could be
Flowers
Drink
Desert
Cheeses
Given and received all of them |
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By *ollypop9Woman
over a year ago
wouldn't you like to know |
Apart from themed birthday and Christmas gifts from fab friends, as in pineapple theme etc...
One guy made me smile, he landed with a 3 pack of car air freshners into my car for our coffee meet.
The cute thing about it was, they were the ones shaped like three known ice Lollies.
Lollies = Lolly ....
Maybe I'm easy pleased, but I liked it.
And they smelled amazing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apart from themed birthday and Christmas gifts from fab friends, as in pineapple theme etc...
One guy made me smile, he landed with a 3 pack of car air freshners into my car for our coffee meet.
The cute thing about it was, they were the ones shaped like three known ice Lollies.
Lollies = Lolly ....
Maybe I'm easy pleased, but I liked it.
And they smelled amazing."
And liquorice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got a beautiful bottle of whisky and chocolates lately as a very thoughtful thank you gift for visiting a lady at her hotel to massage her. I didn't need it but when I drink it I think of her.
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By *ollypop9Woman
over a year ago
wouldn't you like to know |
"Apart from themed birthday and Christmas gifts from fab friends, as in pineapple theme etc...
One guy made me smile, he landed with a 3 pack of car air freshners into my car for our coffee meet.
The cute thing about it was, they were the ones shaped like three known ice Lollies.
Lollies = Lolly ....
Maybe I'm easy pleased, but I liked it.
And they smelled amazing.
And liquorice "
Oh absolutely. My favourite. Yummy
And this lady is an absolute gem for bringing it for me. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does emotional trauma count as a gift?!  "
It shouldn't and if it does fab ain't for ya .. find them fuck them then leave .. its my motto .. NSA sex sounds harsh but it works.. nobody is boiling my bunny rabbit |
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Where do I start...
First gift was from secret Easter Santa that we organized during lockdowns (good few fabbers sent each other a small parcel. It was beautiful)
We got fridge magnet picture frames, squishy and a sketch pad.
Second massive gift was a huge bouquet of flowers that a bunch of fabbers collectively sent to our home after my cancer diagnosis.
Then there were two hampers of pamper stuff organized by fab ladies during chemo.
Then there was secret Santa organized by Devine Destiny for one of our socials where Dirk got a gigantic light bulb from Pete Panther and a tub of fisting lube lol
Then there was a few times I got dick shaped soaps, boobie egg cup...
For my birthday (at the freak show) I received a beautiful duck frame, money heist eyeshadow pallete and more self pampering stuff from dear friends.
Most important gifts that we received were donations for charities we support.
There's many more things I forgot to mention that we received over the years
Fabbers have been very kind and generous towards us as we always strive to give back as much as we get.
M&D |
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By *ndqtMan
over a year ago
The Wild West |
"Ohhh and a courgette
A courgette.....??
A message i got on here about wanting to use a courgette on me and shared it with a friend, the follow morning we met for coffee and he slid one over the table was brilliant "
Are you sure that wasnt your local green grocer Lolly |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Ohhh and a courgette
A courgette.....??
A message i got on here about wanting to use a courgette on me and shared it with a friend, the follow morning we met for coffee and he slid one over the table was brilliant
Are you sure that wasnt your local green grocer Lolly "
No it was definitely her local turf supplier  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive received chocolate anuses and a voodoo doll, fake Tayto crisps, and a personalised drinking cup amongst other things
I've given jam, pineapple fairy lights, rum, pineapple earrings, wine, Belfast baps, and bush shampoo
*apologies for any gifts I may have left out - menopause brain |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Ive received chocolate anuses and a voodoo doll, fake Tayto crisps, and a personalised drinking cup amongst other things
I've given jam, pineapple fairy lights, rum, pineapple earrings, wine, Belfast baps, and bush shampoo
*apologies for any gifts I may have left out - menopause brain "
Low blow with the fake Tayto |
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over a year ago
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"Ive received chocolate anuses and a voodoo doll, fake Tayto crisps, and a personalised drinking cup amongst other things
I've given jam, pineapple fairy lights, rum, pineapple earrings, wine, Belfast baps, and bush shampoo
*apologies for any gifts I may have left out - menopause brain
Low blow with the fake Tayto "
Was hoping my big baps might blindside you |
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"Ive received chocolate anuses and a voodoo doll, fake Tayto crisps, and a personalised drinking cup amongst other things
I've given jam, pineapple fairy lights, rum, pineapple earrings, wine, Belfast baps, and bush shampoo
*apologies for any gifts I may have left out - menopause brain
Low blow with the fake Tayto
Was hoping my big baps might blindside you "
Talk about hitting them with the old one-two. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Ive received chocolate anuses and a voodoo doll, fake Tayto crisps, and a personalised drinking cup amongst other things
I've given jam, pineapple fairy lights, rum, pineapple earrings, wine, Belfast baps, and bush shampoo
*apologies for any gifts I may have left out - menopause brain
Low blow with the fake Tayto
Was hoping my big baps might blindside you "
In fairness the Belfast bab was gorgeous |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive received chocolate anuses and a voodoo doll, fake Tayto crisps, and a personalised drinking cup amongst other things
I've given jam, pineapple fairy lights, rum, pineapple earrings, wine, Belfast baps, and bush shampoo
*apologies for any gifts I may have left out - menopause brain
Low blow with the fake Tayto
Was hoping my big baps might blindside you
Talk about hitting them with the old one-two. "
BM only got one He had to share with Yoser |
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"Ive received chocolate anuses and a voodoo doll, fake Tayto crisps, and a personalised drinking cup amongst other things
I've given jam, pineapple fairy lights, rum, pineapple earrings, wine, Belfast baps, and bush shampoo
*apologies for any gifts I may have left out - menopause brain "
I'm responsible for chocolate anuses and a voodoo doll  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive received chocolate anuses and a voodoo doll, fake Tayto crisps, and a personalised drinking cup amongst other things
I've given jam, pineapple fairy lights, rum, pineapple earrings, wine, Belfast baps, and bush shampoo
*apologies for any gifts I may have left out - menopause brain
I'm responsible for chocolate anuses and a voodoo doll "
They were actually really nice! |
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If meeting for first time I was bought tea a few times, others I paid for myself and sometimes I paid for him too. I don’t mind either way.
From mostly long time fab friends (Friends with or without benefits) if holding a party or if it’s my birthday, or no reason at all: candles, alcohol, ice-cream, chocolate, flowers, lunch, nights away, diffusers, fun items, spa voucher, play blue voucher, liquorish, donuts, etc
I’ve been pretty spoilt!  
I love giving presents too though usually chocolate, alcohol, diner, breakfast, little trinkets, fun sweets or flowers
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ohhh and a courgette
A courgette.....??
A message i got on here about wanting to use a courgette on me and shared it with a friend, the follow morning we met for coffee and he slid one over the table was brilliant
Are you sure that wasnt your local green grocer Lolly
No it was definitely her local turf supplier "
I have being known to bring bags of my own turf as a gift |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Instill haven't even got me bloody snack box let alone anything else...I did have one person throw a fiver at me and told me to buy one..I was so disgusted caise it cost more than a fiver for one so had to do with euro saver menu in mcdona instead.."
I'll buy ya the snackbox and garlic chips too |
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"Ive received chocolate anuses and a voodoo doll, fake Tayto crisps, and a personalised drinking cup amongst other things
I've given jam, pineapple fairy lights, rum, pineapple earrings, wine, Belfast baps, and bush shampoo
*apologies for any gifts I may have left out - menopause brain
Low blow with the fake Tayto
Was hoping my big baps might blindside you
Talk about hitting them with the old one-two.
BM only got one He had to share with Yoser "
Sharing is caring, not envious at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have met some really great people on fab
I have recieved.
Chocolates
Whisky
Teddy bears
Waterford crystal
Flowers
Ect.
I have also given gifts
Some amaxing people on fab "
Amazing people I'm here also lol .. just saying |
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By *DSGCouple
over a year ago
That place in |
I have gotten prints of photos from my profile, by the person that took the photos
We had meals paid for if that counts?
Was given flowers and I can't forget some lovely donuts |
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
where the wild roses grow |
"Ive received chocolate anuses and a voodoo doll, fake Tayto crisps, and a personalised drinking cup amongst other things
I've given jam, pineapple fairy lights, rum, pineapple earrings, wine, Belfast baps, and bush shampoo
*apologies for any gifts I may have left out - menopause brain
Low blow with the fake Tayto
Was hoping my big baps might blindside you
Talk about hitting them with the old one-two.
BM only got one He had to share with Yoser "
Did someone say baps?  |
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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago
Meath / Dublin / Birmingham |
Does having a cuppa made for you at someone's house count as a gift?? Think that's what I've got, bloody nice cuppa it was to be fair! I'm usually fairly persuasive about buying the coffees/treats on public meet ups/socials. Did grab a bottle of vino when house visiting for someone a while back. All depends on the scenario! |
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"Does having a cuppa made for you at someone's house count as a gift?? Think that's what I've got, bloody nice cuppa it was to be fair! I'm usually fairly persuasive about buying the coffees/treats on public meet ups/socials. Did grab a bottle of vino when house visiting for someone a while back. All depends on the scenario!"
Id find it hard to imagine being invited to a house and not be offered tea. Its an Irish thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive received chocolate anuses and a voodoo doll, fake Tayto crisps, and a personalised drinking cup amongst other things
I've given jam, pineapple fairy lights, rum, pineapple earrings, wine, Belfast baps, and bush shampoo
*apologies for any gifts I may have left out - menopause brain
Low blow with the fake Tayto
Was hoping my big baps might blindside you
Talk about hitting them with the old one-two.
BM only got one He had to share with Yoser
Did someone say baps? "
Hello stranger!  |
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
City Centre |
I have been extremely lucky to receive some very thoughtful and amazing gifts. I have amazing friends!
My first wand which I had about 10 years (amazing!)
But most recently at a social a homemade soy candle made with my favourite essential oils...Ylang ylang, lemon and patchouli insanely good!! Thank you!! Probably one of the nicest candles I've ever smelt!
B x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I brought home cooked food to a couple of meets and a box of donuts to another (idea possibly whipped from Casual or Bog, not sure). Yet to receive a gift but a blowjob at junction 14 really is the gift that keeps on giving. |
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
City Centre |
"I brought home cooked food to a couple of meets and a box of donuts to another (idea possibly whipped from Casual or Bog, not sure). Yet to receive a gift but a blowjob at junction 14 really is the gift that keeps on giving."
I smile to myself every time I pass Junction 14 |
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"I brought home cooked food to a couple of meets and a box of donuts to another (idea possibly whipped from Casual or Bog, not sure). Yet to receive a gift but a blowjob at junction 14 really is the gift that keeps on giving.
I smile to myself every time I pass Junction 14 "
It you who give him such gift...wonder what I could bring on meeting to give you a head  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I brought home cooked food to a couple of meets and a box of donuts to another (idea possibly whipped from Casual or Bog, not sure). Yet to receive a gift but a blowjob at junction 14 really is the gift that keeps on giving.
I smile to myself every time I pass Junction 14 "
Me too, the snackbox and handjob meal always brings a smile to my face. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I brought home cooked food to a couple of meets and a box of donuts to another (idea possibly whipped from Casual or Bog, not sure). Yet to receive a gift but a blowjob at junction 14 really is the gift that keeps on giving.
I smile to myself every time I pass Junction 14
It you who give him such gift...wonder what I could bring on meeting to give you a head "
Your Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I brought home cooked food to a couple of meets and a box of donuts to another (idea possibly whipped from Casual or Bog, not sure). Yet to receive a gift but a blowjob at junction 14 really is the gift that keeps on giving.
I smile to myself every time I pass Junction 14
It you who give him such gift...wonder what I could bring on meeting to give you a head
Your Mrs"
Hmm she could be pleased she like donuts. but my question was for bejing  |
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
City Centre |
"I brought home cooked food to a couple of meets and a box of donuts to another (idea possibly whipped from Casual or Bog, not sure). Yet to receive a gift but a blowjob at junction 14 really is the gift that keeps on giving.
I smile to myself every time I pass Junction 14
Me too, the snackbox and handjob meal always brings a smile to my face. "
Haha |
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
City Centre |
"I brought home cooked food to a couple of meets and a box of donuts to another (idea possibly whipped from Casual or Bog, not sure). Yet to receive a gift but a blowjob at junction 14 really is the gift that keeps on giving.
I smile to myself every time I pass Junction 14
It you who give him such gift...wonder what I could bring on meeting to give you a head
Your Mrs
Hmm she could be pleased she like donuts. but my question was for bejing "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gifts l received ? A woman's ,heart ,soul ,mind & body .
Gifts l've given ? My heart, soul ,mind & body .
Cheap date bud "
Nope .. believe me ..ain't nothing like it ... everything else is only materialistic.. |
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"Gifts l received ? A woman's ,heart ,soul ,mind & body .
Gifts l've given ? My heart, soul ,mind & body .
Cheap date bud
Nope .. believe me ..ain't nothing like it ... everything else is only materialistic.. "
You have found the holy grail. |
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Never expect any, but we have received quite a few -
Massive bouquet of flowers, hampers and some small stuff from fellow fabbers who have become friends overtime following my cancer diagnosis.
Received a lovely squishmallow, magnetic photo frames and a sketchbook from secret Easter Santa (Beardrills) that we organized and participated at during lockdowns.
Devine destiny kindly gave me one of her dresses and a lovely duck related birthday present.
Kinkyboots01 gave me her flats when I was unable to walk any more in heels.
Pete Panther brought Dirk a gigantic light bulb to one of our m&g's because Dirk is obsessed with lights lol
At the same event DevineDestiny organized a secret Santa gift exchange- we received a tub of fisting lube, titty egg cups and a dick soap.
I have received a "Money heist" NYX eyeshadow pallete for my birthday this year which I love and use every day.
Received a bottle of craft Gin which was delicious!
Received a bottle of homemade toffee liquor which is so good - its being saved for special occasions.
I'm sure I forgot to mention a good few things, people are generous when you approach them with an open heart and good intentions.
We love to give also and do it all the time, just don't write lists about it |
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Repeat meets over years:
Cupcakes -handmade.
Dinner and wine and box of favorite sweets. (For bday.)
Use of a holiday home and some naughty company.
* hate meanness- they were well sorted with likewise. Nice gestures.
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When we host we don't give gifts but when we are invited to someone's house or hotel we usually bring a bottle of their preferred tipple (red, white, prosecco, beers etc)
Chocolates, take away coffees, toys, lingerie and flowers have also been given. We feel its a nice gesture as we're being accepted into someone's home |
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Donuts...Bogman
Probably the best was a wardrobe and chest of drawers from a couple who were updating their bedroom and knew I had just moved into my own home. I had said previously that they were ideal for upcycling and a few days later they offered them to me. Still have them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All I have got from here is lies.."
Why does this make me laugh? Am I supposed to feel sorry for you? I can't , it just feels like the big lip.... Who do you want to read this and be affected by it?
Couldn't help myself but I reckon you have posted a few of these "poor me I've been hurt" lines before.
You know you have to get over it at some point. |
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I need to up my game!
Paying for the cuppa is always on me obviously 