Hey everyone! Been off here for a few months and had some free time today so logged in again.
Great to hear from some old friends and see others are still active and going strong 
Did I miss something though? I got a lot of messages from people I'd never spoken with before and when I read the messages but didn't reply I found that a good few of them messaged again being rude or asking for an explanation as to why I didn't "choose" them.
It wasn't many but enough for me to kind of ask if I am missing something.
Last time I was on it was a case of 'no response is a response' is that not still the case?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never be surprised by the males ability to make an absolute twat of himself .. 
Jokes aside , was gone a while myself and also thought since coming back that the crazies had gotten worse ..  |
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Usually once they are finished admonishing the unfortunate recipient they come in here and post a rant about how rude all the females are.
Other choice words include entitlement and clique.
Welcome to wednesday. |
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Uugggh seriously!!
I rarely use the block button but some ass has just been subject to it for taking his rudeness up a level 
Manners cost nothing and get you places, rudeness just annoys everyone and get the big red flashing "do not go near this guy" siren going off.
Sorry, rant over |
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"Uugggh seriously!!
I rarely use the block button but some ass has just been subject to it for taking his rudeness up a level
Manners cost nothing and get you places, rudeness just annoys everyone and get the big red flashing "do not go near this guy" siren going off.
Sorry, rant over "
Ah God... sure I can only assume that some people think you are rude and unmannerly for not replying to them....
That siren you are referring to is probably why people worry about cliques on fabs 
I'm not saying you are rude or unmannerly. I also don't have an issue if people don't reply to me.
However I do feel that it is these kind of posts that add to the perception some get of fab being full of entitled unmannerly clique heads |
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
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OP I'm noticing a massive influx of new people..thinking that they will straight away meet someone with zero conversation and zero effort...
I'm sure I'm not the only one that has noticed this...
If I don't reply straight away...5 mails later...
Clearly they don't read my profile
B x |
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"OP I'm noticing a massive influx of new people..thinking that they will straight away meet someone with zero conversation and zero effort...
I'm sure I'm not the only one that has noticed this...
If I don't reply straight away...5 mails later...
Clearly they don't read my profile
B x"
Yes, its definitely noticeable over the last few months. Highlighted by multiple threads by men complaining about no sex, no meets, no veris, no replies...and they'll only have been on here a few weeks and made minimal effort except spamming accounts. |
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"Hey everyone! Been off here for a few months and had some free time today so logged in again.
Great to hear from some old friends and see others are still active and going strong
Did I miss something though? I got a lot of messages from people I'd never spoken with before and when I read the messages but didn't reply I found that a good few of them messaged again being rude or asking for an explanation as to why I didn't "choose" them.
It wasn't many but enough for me to kind of ask if I am missing something.
Last time I was on it was a case of 'no response is a response' is that not still the case? "
Still the same but many seem to think they are owed a reply. Had it this morning from someone. Told them to read the profile. Something a lot can't seem to do. |
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"Uugggh seriously!!
I rarely use the block button but some ass has just been subject to it for taking his rudeness up a level
Manners cost nothing and get you places, rudeness just annoys everyone and get the big red flashing "do not go near this guy" siren going off.
Sorry, rant over
Ah God... sure I can only assume that some people think you are rude and unmannerly for not replying to them....
That siren you are referring to is probably why people worry about cliques on fabs
I'm not saying you are rude or unmannerly. I also don't have an issue if people don't reply to me.
However I do feel that it is these kind of posts that add to the perception some get of fab being full of entitled unmannerly clique heads "
How does her warning signal going off feed into some peoples paranoia of cliques? |
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"OP I'm noticing a massive influx of new people..thinking that they will straight away meet someone with zero conversation and zero effort...
I'm sure I'm not the only one that has noticed this...
If I don't reply straight away...5 mails later...
Clearly they don't read my profile
B x
Yes, its definitely noticeable over the last few months. Highlighted by multiple threads by men complaining about no sex, no meets, no veris, no replies...and they'll only have been on here a few weeks and made minimal effort except spamming accounts."
Fab ebbs and flows like this all the time . People on holidays etc
What do you think is behind it ? |
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" Still the same but many seem to think they are owed a reply. Had it this morning from someone. Told them to read the profile. Something a lot can't seem to do. "
Ot's a shame its still going on, it was one of the reasons I logged out for so long tbb.
Sorry it happens to you too |
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"Uugggh seriously!!
I rarely use the block button but some ass has just been subject to it for taking his rudeness up a level
Manners cost nothing and get you places, rudeness just annoys everyone and get the big red flashing "do not go near this guy" siren going off.
Sorry, rant over
Ah God... sure I can only assume that some people think you are rude and unmannerly for not replying to them....
That siren you are referring to is probably why people worry about cliques on fabs
I'm not saying you are rude or unmannerly. I also don't have an issue if people don't reply to me.
However I do feel that it is these kind of posts that add to the perception some get of fab being full of entitled unmannerly clique heads
How does her warning signal going off feed into some peoples paranoia of cliques?"
everyone and get the big red flashing "do not go near this guy" siren going off.
Everyone indicates more than just the just the message recipient
Don't go near this guy ... indicates advising others not to go near this guy ...
Probably a little strong to imply anyone who feels this way is paranoid |
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Everyone indicates more than just the just the message recipient
Don't go near this guy ... indicates advising others not to go near this guy ...
Probably a little strong to imply anyone who feels this way is paranoid "
Your assumed inidcations could just be paranoia!  |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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Everyone indicates more than just the just the message recipient
Don't go near this guy ... indicates advising others not to go near this guy ...
Probably a little strong to imply anyone who feels this way is paranoid
Your assumed inidcations could just be paranoia! "
Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they're not out to get you |
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Everyone indicates more than just the just the message recipient
Don't go near this guy ... indicates advising others not to go near this guy ...
Probably a little strong to imply anyone who feels this way is paranoid
Your assumed inidcations could just be paranoia! "
I didn't say i assume it , i said it may add to reasons why some may feel this way 
I honestly don't give a shit if people don't reply ... too many important things in life need that attention
Having said that I reply to all as I would think it rude of me not to . That me .  |
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Everyone indicates more than just the just the message recipient
Don't go near this guy ... indicates advising others not to go near this guy ...
Probably a little strong to imply anyone who feels this way is paranoid
Your assumed inidcations could just be paranoia!
Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they're not out to get you "
or that your wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah its crazy on here i need a stick to keep the women away i must get at least 50 messages a day. I know brad pitt is a minger compared to me but i just can't keep up with it, life is so hard lol |
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I deal with rejections in a healthy way, by burying the hurt deep down inside"
No amount of fire or freshness can challenge what a man will store up in his ghostly heart. |
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By *ind PaddyMan
over a year ago
South County Dublin |
"Hey everyone! Been off here for a few months and had some free time today so logged in again.
Great to hear from some old friends and see others are still active and going strong
Did I miss something though? I got a lot of messages from people I'd never spoken with before and when I read the messages but didn't reply I found that a good few of them messaged again being rude or asking for an explanation as to why I didn't "choose" them.
It wasn't many but enough for me to kind of ask if I am missing something.
Last time I was on it was a case of 'no response is a response' is that not still the case? "
They must have forgotten to take their medication, I'm on the white ones, which taste OK. I usually take the hint if no reply. |
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