Sure enough this is very much indeed a swingers site but aftercare is something I find both attractive and appealing. I mean it's not just a case of wham, bam, thank you mame.
It's possible in my opinion to show care and friendship after a steamy session. We all lead such different and separate lives with our own challenges to face in our day to day.
I feel it's nice to have someone who cares enough to check in and see how you are doing etc but doesn't have to smother you and go ott.
In the immediate time after a good fuckathon I do like the soppy shit like laying there wrapped around each other & the intimate/close things like kissing and kind gestures.
Just wondering how folk feel generally about the concept of showing care for those who we piledrive with our fuck sticks  |
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Really depends on the mood and what people were looking for. I have been the third wheel that when things were finished it was setup that I leave them to it.
Other times you get a chat, cuddle and a bit of gentle teasing.
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Discuss it before hand some people love it... some want you to get the fuck out of their space as they are done with you.
I have partner who needed cuddles and ones who needed a warm blanket and cup of tea.
Everyone is different and it is great to celebrate it.
As for me my minimum aftercare requirement (especially after a bdsm scene) is a big hug and kiss and my partner saying thank you for a good time. |
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