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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What gets me is they've had other meets too. Double standard or what? Am I supposed to be sitting at home, pining away, just hoping they throw me a bone? (ha ha, no pun intended) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes there are a few on here like that they dont understand , some think just cause you have met them then you shouldnt be meeting anyone else, then its the 100 questions that go with it, some need to get a grip |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On this note jealousy most definitely is not limited to either sex
I've experienced it from both sides and neither time is better. Having said that women can get quite nasty with jealousy whereas men tend to just sulk and go all silent
It's hard when either person involved expects more from a meet but I think the only approach is to be open and honest about ur intentions with a person
If u would like to meet a person again then say so and equally if u don't want to make sure they know
Not all meets necessarily lead to a repeat experience and this should be understood from the outset and no offense should be taken
At the end of the day we are all here to satisfy individual needs and desires and jealousy in no way can add to the experience
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its a swing site not a match making fall in love site have fun then move on if they want to meet again then fair enough but no need to be a stalker or a bunny boiler if the person doesnt want to meet just move on to the next if your lucky enough to get more meets from here and block the person thats sulking simple realy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm gonna be very honest and admit when I first joined I found it difficult when I was chattin someone and having fun only to notice they had a meet the next day or two with someone else......but this place is quite cathartic at times and I have realised, as posted above that this was a wasted and misplaced emotion generally, never mind on a swing site, so I wouldn't say I was actually jeolous but I will admit to becoming emotionally stronger thanks to this place....now there's a turn-up for the books!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Over a year ago i had met a couple and in there own words had a great night. Few days later i was having a party at mine and said so in my status for non fab friends and i got a massive rant of a text from the husband giving out that they werent invited.
I explained that it wasnt a swinging party and never heard back from him. To this day i still cant understand why he was so mad. I laugh it off now but it baffled me at the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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this is why i post jokes and things and do not broadcast my life across this site, maybe think before you post, try to some how freakily put your head in theirs, saying that even jokes get queried on here by a certain few. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Over a year ago i had met a couple and in there own words had a great night. Few days later i was having a party at mine and said so in my status for non fab friends and i got a massive rant of a text from the husband giving out that they werent invited.
I explained that it wasnt a swinging party and never heard back from him. To this day i still cant understand why he was so mad. I laugh it off now but it baffled me at the time."
Why advertise it on your status here if you didn't want anyone from fab (or swingers) to attend??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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think everyone has come across that side in both sexes, i do prefer to kinda meet the same ppl now and again i know its a sex site but i,m not open all hours for just anyone that comes along  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Over a year ago i had met a couple and in there own words had a great night. Few days later i was having a party at mine and said so in my status for non fab friends and i got a massive rant of a text from the husband giving out that they werent invited.
I explained that it wasnt a swinging party and never heard back from him. To this day i still cant understand why he was so mad. I laugh it off now but it baffled me at the time.
Why advertise it on your status here if you didn't want anyone from fab (or swingers) to attend??
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I didnt think much about it at the time when i posted. I had seen others post similar statuses so i did as well. Was a mistake i havent made since. |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm gonna be very honest and admit when I first joined I found it difficult when I was chattin someone and having fun only to notice they had a meet the next day or two with someone else......but this place is quite cathartic at times and I have realised, as posted above that this was a wasted and misplaced emotion generally, never mind on a swing site, so I wouldn't say I was actually jeolous but I will admit to becoming emotionally stronger thanks to this place....now there's a turn-up for the books!!!! "
how very very refreshing |
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