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What advice would you give a 21 year old you
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Make yourself happy before trying to make others happy. Don't care about what others think of you and to remember you can't control the actions of others so don't let it consume you. |
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Honestly I don't think I'd say anything, even though my 20s werent all rainbows and butterflies. Depression, anxiety attacks, a recluse for a lot of it. But I got out of it on my own terms, something I am most proud of in my life. Now I am the happiest I've ever been  love my life. Great family, friends and social life.
Actually what I would say is
" just keep doing what you are doing, cos you are fucking awesome  " |
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Others people’s opinions of me were none of my business
Listen to your gut instincts
Don’t be afraid of failure
Look after your mental health
Spend time with those that make you happy & avoid those that leave you feeling drained
Don’t compare yourself & your journey to others
You are enough
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was far too nice not telling way more people to fuck off.
No bothers doing it now. The amount of stress and hassle it could have saved me but this is life !
You certainly live and learn |
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"Taken from the lounge
My advice would be do it all again you will make great friends, laugh ,love, cry but by god you will enjoy yourself.
Only thing is start swinging earlier. "
I am following this advice lmao |
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When I was 21,my pops rang me in UK and said come home and do the entrance exam for the guards. Of course I didn't because I was having a ball of a time in London. Always regretted it. So my advice to me at 21, is listen to your parents, they only have your best interests at heart. |
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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago
gillingham |
Not to worry or stress about things you can’t change and sort the things you can. Be nice enjoy life embrace the swinging lifestyle and enjoy not having hangovers and aching all over before you get to forty. |
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"Still not sure I am qualified to answer that one, come back to me another ten years.
At your age, if you don't know it now, you won't know it in 10 years "
I will just say come back in another ten  |
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Don't be so hard on yourself, when thing's don't workout.
Remove people from your life that treat you badly, even if they're family members.
Do more thing's on your own, that make you happy.
Don't be afraid to say NO, even to family members.
Try to be healthier overall.
Don't be afraid to move away, if you think your going to be better off overall, even if you've little to no money.   |
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By *edro50Man
over a year ago
enniskillen |
Don't get depressed about your disabilities,don't drink to hide your feelings,be more honest with yourself and others,be more open to experiences and seek help for your mental health earlier! |
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