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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This is towards couples or ladies. Been a member a good while. What does a single male need to do to get verified. I know there was post here recently about something similar but cannot find it |
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"This is towards couples or ladies. Been a member a good while. What does a single male need to do to get verified. I know there was post here recently about something similar but cannot find it"
After having a look at your profile maybe you should update it you say on there your new and will update as you go on but 8 months later it says the same thing. We as a couple don't always just go by veris as we have met new guys on here too,we look and read the profile and yours comes across as couldn't be bothered. So maybe a couple of new pics and and a brief profile update would be good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Help a Fabber out threads, will find lots of nice people that will do a social to sort you out  "
Keep an eye on the forum some do social meets for newbies there is a social in Cork tomorrow ..  |
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"Help a Fabber out threads, will find lots of nice people that will do a social to sort you out
Keep an eye on the forum some do social meets for newbies there is a social in Cork tomorrow .. how much is a social now in cork now btw ? i hear it is volunteers verifying pics thats on here and witb the odd thread ber and there it seems to be more of an advertising site for venues to spend money on "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Help a Fabber out threads, will find lots of nice people that will do a social to sort you out
Keep an eye on the forum some do social meets for newbies there is a social in Cork tomorrow .. how much is a social now in cork now btw ? i hear it is volunteers verifying pics thats on here and witb the odd thread ber and there it seems to be more of an advertising site for venues to spend money on "
You've totally misunderstood. Volunteer photo mods moderate photos uploaded to the site to ensure they adhere to the photo rules. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Help a Fabber out threads, will find lots of nice people that will do a social to sort you out
Keep an eye on the forum some do social meets for newbies there is a social in Cork tomorrow .. how much is a social now in cork now btw ? i hear it is volunteers verifying pics thats on here and witb the odd thread ber and there it seems to be more of an advertising site for venues to spend money on
You've totally misunderstood. Volunteer photo mods moderate photos uploaded to the site to ensure they adhere to the photo rules.so theres no venue advertise on here thats free to walk into like any pub in the country without restrictions "
Thats not what you said though. You said it was more am advertising site for venues to spend money on?
But yes there certainly are socials like that. Been to several and co-organised one.
However there are ones where the organisers obviously have costs to cover. Venue hire, food, entertainment, etc. You surely don't expect them to run those for free |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Help a Fabber out threads, will find lots of nice people that will do a social to sort you out
Keep an eye on the forum some do social meets for newbies there is a social in Cork tomorrow .. how much is a social now in cork now btw ? i hear it is volunteers verifying pics thats on here and witb the odd thread ber and there it seems to be more of an advertising site for venues to spend money on
You've totally misunderstood. Volunteer photo mods moderate photos uploaded to the site to ensure they adhere to the photo rules.so theres no venue advertise on here thats free to walk into like any pub in the country without restrictions
Thats not what you said though. You said it was more am advertising site for venues to spend money on?
But yes there certainly are socials like that. Been to several and co-organised one.
However there are ones where the organisers obviously have costs to cover. Venue hire, food, entertainment, etc. You surely don't expect them to run those for free "
Well said .. I meant the help the fabber thread is just to meet up for a cuppa chat and get a verification.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Help a Fabber out threads, will find lots of nice people that will do a social to sort you out
Keep an eye on the forum some do social meets for newbies there is a social in Cork tomorrow .. how much is a social now in cork now btw ? i hear it is volunteers verifying pics thats on here and witb the odd thread ber and there it seems to be more of an advertising site for venues to spend money on
You've totally misunderstood. Volunteer photo mods moderate photos uploaded to the site to ensure they adhere to the photo rules.so theres no venue advertise on here thats free to walk into like any pub in the country without restrictions
Thats not what you said though. You said it was more am advertising site for venues to spend money on?
But yes there certainly are socials like that. Been to several and co-organised one.
However there are ones where the organisers obviously have costs to cover. Venue hire, food, entertainment, etc. You surely don't expect them to run those for free
Well said .. I meant the help the fabber thread is just to meet up for a cuppa chat and get a verification.."
That's what I'm looking for. I make a lovely cup of tea |
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I understand that staff and venue has to be paid but be honest with yourself it suits fab and the venues to do socials on here its the best of advertising iv seen so far on the back of so supporters if fab advertised any other way thet wouldnt make it to far the odd thread now and again causing tenion to spark a debate sounds abit right for advertising |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think you're maybe reading a bit too much into it.
This is a site which exists to allow swingers to connect with each other. One way in which swingers can connect is at socials or at clubs. So it makes sense for clubs and event organisers to advertise (for want of a better word) on here. There wouldn't be much point in sticking an ad in the local paper would there |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This is towards couples or ladies. Been a member a good while. What does a single male need to do to get verified. I know there was post here recently about something similar but cannot find it
After having a look at your profile maybe you should update it you say on there your new and will update as you go on but 8 months later it says the same thing. We as a couple don't always just go by veris as we have met new guys on here too,we look and read the profile and yours comes across as couldn't be bothered. So maybe a couple of new pics and and a brief profile update would be good. "
Thanks for the tips, tried to update |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It was exist because of revenue and advertising abit of banter but at the end of the day its costing miniumum of €80 hugh hefner place would be cheaper "
What is costing a minimum of €80? |
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"Help a Fabber out threads, will find lots of nice people that will do a social to sort you out
Keep an eye on the forum some do social meets for newbies there is a social in Cork tomorrow .. how much is a social now in cork now btw ? i hear it is volunteers verifying pics thats on here and witb the odd thread ber and there it seems to be more of an advertising site for venues to spend money on
You've totally misunderstood. Volunteer photo mods moderate photos uploaded to the site to ensure they adhere to the photo rules.so theres no venue advertise on here thats free to walk into like any pub in the country without restrictions
Thats not what you said though. You said it was more am advertising site for venues to spend money on?
But yes there certainly are socials like that. Been to several and co-organised one.
However there are ones where the organisers obviously have costs to cover. Venue hire, food, entertainment, etc. You surely don't expect them to run those for free
Well said .. I meant the help the fabber thread is just to meet up for a cuppa chat and get a verification..
That's what I'm looking for. I make a lovely cup of tea"
Just remember a lot of men expect socials with women when in fact the easier option is to get a veri from a social with a man who is in a similar situation. Don’t expect women to offer you a social |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Help a Fabber out threads, will find lots of nice people that will do a social to sort you out
Keep an eye on the forum some do social meets for newbies there is a social in Cork tomorrow .. how much is a social now in cork now btw ? i hear it is volunteers verifying pics thats on here and witb the odd thread ber and there it seems to be more of an advertising site for venues to spend money on
You've totally misunderstood. Volunteer photo mods moderate photos uploaded to the site to ensure they adhere to the photo rules.so theres no venue advertise on here thats free to walk into like any pub in the country without restrictions
Thats not what you said though. You said it was more am advertising site for venues to spend money on?
But yes there certainly are socials like that. Been to several and co-organised one.
However there are ones where the organisers obviously have costs to cover. Venue hire, food, entertainment, etc. You surely don't expect them to run those for free
Well said .. I meant the help the fabber thread is just to meet up for a cuppa chat and get a verification..
That's what I'm looking for. I make a lovely cup of tea
Just remember a lot of men expect socials with women when in fact the easier option is to get a veri from a social with a man who is in a similar situation. Don’t expect women to offer you a social"
I've offered to meet 2 guys next week who posted on this thread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Help a Fabber out threads, will find lots of nice people that will do a social to sort you out
Keep an eye on the forum some do social meets for newbies there is a social in Cork tomorrow .. how much is a social now in cork now btw ? i hear it is volunteers verifying pics thats on here and witb the odd thread ber and there it seems to be more of an advertising site for venues to spend money on
You've totally misunderstood. Volunteer photo mods moderate photos uploaded to the site to ensure they adhere to the photo rules.so theres no venue advertise on here thats free to walk into like any pub in the country without restrictions
Thats not what you said though. You said it was more am advertising site for venues to spend money on?
But yes there certainly are socials like that. Been to several and co-organised one.
However there are ones where the organisers obviously have costs to cover. Venue hire, food, entertainment, etc. You surely don't expect them to run those for free
Well said .. I meant the help the fabber thread is just to meet up for a cuppa chat and get a verification..
That's what I'm looking for. I make a lovely cup of tea"
Most know me here years .. I can't do posh fancy wording /spell .. that's what I love about here we all look out for each other |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Help a Fabber out threads, will find lots of nice people that will do a social to sort you out
Keep an eye on the forum some do social meets for newbies there is a social in Cork tomorrow .. how much is a social now in cork now btw ? i hear it is volunteers verifying pics thats on here and witb the odd thread ber and there it seems to be more of an advertising site for venues to spend money on
You've totally misunderstood. Volunteer photo mods moderate photos uploaded to the site to ensure they adhere to the photo rules.so theres no venue advertise on here thats free to walk into like any pub in the country without restrictions
Thats not what you said though. You said it was more am advertising site for venues to spend money on?
But yes there certainly are socials like that. Been to several and co-organised one.
However there are ones where the organisers obviously have costs to cover. Venue hire, food, entertainment, etc. You surely don't expect them to run those for free
Well said .. I meant the help the fabber thread is just to meet up for a cuppa chat and get a verification..
That's what I'm looking for. I make a lovely cup of tea
Most know me here years .. I can't do posh fancy wording /spell .. that's what I love about here we all look out for each other "
I put up the original post, 28 or 29 post later still waiting for the answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is towards couples or ladies. Been a member a good while. What does a single male need to do to get verified. I know there was post here recently about something similar but cannot find it"
Jesus op some seem to be able too find ones over a year ago but anyway don’t concentrate on a veri
Just keep plugging away if it’s going too happen it will best of luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Help a Fabber out threads, will find lots of nice people that will do a social to sort you out
Keep an eye on the forum some do social meets for newbies there is a social in Cork tomorrow .. how much is a social now in cork now btw ? i hear it is volunteers verifying pics thats on here and witb the odd thread ber and there it seems to be more of an advertising site for venues to spend money on
You've totally misunderstood. Volunteer photo mods moderate photos uploaded to the site to ensure they adhere to the photo rules.so theres no venue advertise on here thats free to walk into like any pub in the country without restrictions
Thats not what you said though. You said it was more am advertising site for venues to spend money on?
But yes there certainly are socials like that. Been to several and co-organised one.
However there are ones where the organisers obviously have costs to cover. Venue hire, food, entertainment, etc. You surely don't expect them to run those for free
Well said .. I meant the help the fabber thread is just to meet up for a cuppa chat and get a verification..
That's what I'm looking for. I make a lovely cup of tea
Most know me here years .. I can't do posh fancy wording /spell .. that's what I love about here we all look out for each other
I put up the original post, 28 or 29 post later still waiting for the answer"
Take a few hostages |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Help a Fabber out threads, will find lots of nice people that will do a social to sort you out
Keep an eye on the forum some do social meets for newbies there is a social in Cork tomorrow .. how much is a social now in cork now btw ? i hear it is volunteers verifying pics thats on here and witb the odd thread ber and there it seems to be more of an advertising site for venues to spend money on
You've totally misunderstood. Volunteer photo mods moderate photos uploaded to the site to ensure they adhere to the photo rules.so theres no venue advertise on here thats free to walk into like any pub in the country without restrictions
Thats not what you said though. You said it was more am advertising site for venues to spend money on?
But yes there certainly are socials like that. Been to several and co-organised one.
However there are ones where the organisers obviously have costs to cover. Venue hire, food, entertainment, etc. You surely don't expect them to run those for free
Well said .. I meant the help the fabber thread is just to meet up for a cuppa chat and get a verification..
That's what I'm looking for. I make a lovely cup of tea
Most know me here years .. I can't do posh fancy wording /spell .. that's what I love about here we all look out for each other
I put up the original post, 28 or 29 post later still waiting for the answer"
I hope you get a answer .. going to my leaba .. nite all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Help a Fabber out threads, will find lots of nice people that will do a social to sort you out
Keep an eye on the forum some do social meets for newbies there is a social in Cork tomorrow .. how much is a social now in cork now btw ? i hear it is volunteers verifying pics thats on here and witb the odd thread ber and there it seems to be more of an advertising site for venues to spend money on
You've totally misunderstood. Volunteer photo mods moderate photos uploaded to the site to ensure they adhere to the photo rules.so theres no venue advertise on here thats free to walk into like any pub in the country without restrictions
Thats not what you said though. You said it was more am advertising site for venues to spend money on?
But yes there certainly are socials like that. Been to several and co-organised one.
However there are ones where the organisers obviously have costs to cover. Venue hire, food, entertainment, etc. You surely don't expect them to run those for free
Well said .. I meant the help the fabber thread is just to meet up for a cuppa chat and get a verification..
That's what I'm looking for. I make a lovely cup of tea
Most know me here years .. I can't do posh fancy wording /spell .. that's what I love about here we all look out for each other
I put up the original post, 28 or 29 post later still waiting for the answer
Take a few hostages "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Help a Fabber out threads, will find lots of nice people that will do a social to sort you out
Keep an eye on the forum some do social meets for newbies there is a social in Cork tomorrow .. how much is a social now in cork now btw ? i hear it is volunteers verifying pics thats on here and witb the odd thread ber and there it seems to be more of an advertising site for venues to spend money on
You've totally misunderstood. Volunteer photo mods moderate photos uploaded to the site to ensure they adhere to the photo rules.so theres no venue advertise on here thats free to walk into like any pub in the country without restrictions
Thats not what you said though. You said it was more am advertising site for venues to spend money on?
But yes there certainly are socials like that. Been to several and co-organised one.
However there are ones where the organisers obviously have costs to cover. Venue hire, food, entertainment, etc. You surely don't expect them to run those for free
Well said .. I meant the help the fabber thread is just to meet up for a cuppa chat and get a verification..
That's what I'm looking for. I make a lovely cup of tea
Most know me here years .. I can't do posh fancy wording /spell .. that's what I love about here we all look out for each other
I put up the original post, 28 or 29 post later still waiting for the answer
Take a few hostages
Diceys of a Tuesday"
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"Help a Fabber out threads, will find lots of nice people that will do a social to sort you out
Keep an eye on the forum some do social meets for newbies there is a social in Cork tomorrow .. how much is a social now in cork now btw ? i hear it is volunteers verifying pics thats on here and witb the odd thread ber and there it seems to be more of an advertising site for venues to spend money on
You've totally misunderstood. Volunteer photo mods moderate photos uploaded to the site to ensure they adhere to the photo rules.so theres no venue advertise on here thats free to walk into like any pub in the country without restrictions
Thats not what you said though. You said it was more am advertising site for venues to spend money on?
But yes there certainly are socials like that. Been to several and co-organised one.
However there are ones where the organisers obviously have costs to cover. Venue hire, food, entertainment, etc. You surely don't expect them to run those for free
Well said .. I meant the help the fabber thread is just to meet up for a cuppa chat and get a verification..
That's what I'm looking for. I make a lovely cup of tea
Just remember a lot of men expect socials with women when in fact the easier option is to get a veri from a social with a man who is in a similar situation. Don’t expect women to offer you a social"
I'm not saying your wrong or even trying to say that either. (A) reason why men want a social to get verified with a woman, is cause if that man wants to go to certain social events. A verification from another man, doesn't count as a verification at all. Another reason is cause when some people see that a man got verified by another man, they'll think he's secretly bi or gay(Sadly). |
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"Help a Fabber out threads, will find lots of nice people that will do a social to sort you out
Keep an eye on the forum some do social meets for newbies there is a social in Cork tomorrow .. how much is a social now in cork now btw ? i hear it is volunteers verifying pics thats on here and witb the odd thread ber and there it seems to be more of an advertising site for venues to spend money on
You've totally misunderstood. Volunteer photo mods moderate photos uploaded to the site to ensure they adhere to the photo rules.so theres no venue advertise on here thats free to walk into like any pub in the country without restrictions
Thats not what you said though. You said it was more am advertising site for venues to spend money on?
But yes there certainly are socials like that. Been to several and co-organised one.
However there are ones where the organisers obviously have costs to cover. Venue hire, food, entertainment, etc. You surely don't expect them to run those for free
Well said .. I meant the help the fabber thread is just to meet up for a cuppa chat and get a verification..
That's what I'm looking for. I make a lovely cup of tea
Most know me here years .. I can't do posh fancy wording /spell .. that's what I love about here we all look out for each other "
I'm not better meself on the posh fancy words/spelling. That's part of the reason, why alot of my posts are, so long. So that make's 2 of us Lou.  |
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"I've been to plenty and none have cost anywhere close to that amount i wouldnt know the price tbh but they couldnt be cheap to organise "
I've never paid more than £10-£15. I wouldn't be going to any social charging much more than that. |
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I'm not saying your wrong or even trying to say that either. (A) reason why men want a social to get verified with a woman, is cause if that man wants to go to certain social events. A verification from another man, doesn't count as a verification at all. Another reason is cause when some people see that a man got verified by another man, they'll think he's secretly bi or gay(Sadly)."
Why? Surely it says what it needs to say in the veri. I met you for a coffee and you are so your say your are. That's all a vero is. |
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Keep a watch on this events thread. Some accept unverifieds, you just need to find the profile and read the requirements to see if you meet them. Most will start their own thread as well.
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/1419100#last |
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By *oghunter33Woman
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I'm not saying your wrong or even trying to say that either. (A) reason why men want a social to get verified with a woman, is cause if that man wants to go to certain social events. A verification from another man, doesn't count as a verification at all. Another reason is cause when some people see that a man got verified by another man, they'll think he's secretly bi or gay(Sadly).
Why? Surely it says what it needs to say in the veri. I met you for a coffee and you are so your say your are. That's all a vero is."
Na, not for everyone. There's many ways of interpreting a veri... |
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I'm not saying your wrong or even trying to say that either. (A) reason why men want a social to get verified with a woman, is cause if that man wants to go to certain social events. A verification from another man, doesn't count as a verification at all. Another reason is cause when some people see that a man got verified by another man, they'll think he's secretly bi or gay(Sadly).
Why? Surely it says what it needs to say in the veri. I met you for a coffee and you are so your say your are. That's all a vero is.
Na, not for everyone. There's many ways of interpreting a veri..."
The vero should say that. That's not good enough for some reason. Go onto the social event's thread, go onto organisers profile, it'll say it, on some of them "A single guy verified by another guy, doesn't count as a verification". Other event's you at least 3 verifications. If 1 of them verifications is from another guy. It's possible that you could be burned down an invite to that event. There is socials that a person can go to, that you don't need to be verified to go to in the first place, to get around it.
Also like the above post there's different ways to interpreting a veri, between 2 guy's, compared to between 2 ladies(maybe).
There's still a private secret stigma about 2 guys meeting up & verifying eachother. That 1 or both of them must be secretly bi/gay. I'm not saying it's right, cause it's not. That's the way it is or seem's to be on here.
Unless others can prove me wrong(GREAT)? |
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Is it also possible that potential ladies or couples might be naturally distrustful of guys in the first place (this is the internet after all) and are unlikely to put much stock in a male male veri? |
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"Is it also possible that potential ladies or couples might be naturally distrustful of guys in the first place (this is the internet after all) and are unlikely to put much stock in a male male veri?"
Yes, 100% possible, I believe. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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Most socials expect at least one verification for people to attend
to prove that you're real and not just a tyre kicker
Some men don't want a veri from other men for whatever reason and thats fine its their profile
Don't worry about parties or socials and their verification requirements if you're not planning on going to them or wouldn't get an invite to them anyway
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