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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Anyone else noticed the high numbers of married men that are also Bi on fab. Each to their own of course, absolutely no judgement, I’m just fascinated. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m sorry I’m not looking to offend anyone here. I suppose I presumed that most couples when they meet have the same sexuality. Either straight or gay. |
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Yes, there are many bi married/partnered men on fab. We live in a culture where being bi is often considered "wrong ". And a man could be shamed for revealing his sexuality to a partner or family, colleagues. Most if the bi guys I've met in this predicament are reluctant to tell their wives, as they know her views on it. In clubs over the years, I met lots if openly bi women, having bi fun, but not a single bi man. Now, that's odd. |
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"Anyone else noticed the high numbers of married men that are also Bi on fab. Each to their own of course, absolutely no judgement, I’m just fascinated. "
I think with the changing nature of Fab over the years, bi men now have an opportunity to meet like minded others. Fabguys, generally is used by gay men looking for other gay men. Here on Fab,its probably one of the friendlier sites for bi men to meet whoever takes their fancy. |
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A bi guy having to hide, being bi to other people. Be it family members, friends,etc. Is 100% wrong. He shouldn't have to hide this part of they're lives.
As it was said already, women don't hide it(not that much) anyway's.
Plane & simple wrong & bad form, in this day & age. Hopefully this changes in the future.  |
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"Anyone else noticed the high numbers of married men that are also Bi on fab. Each to their own of course, absolutely no judgement, I’m just fascinated. "
I think Fab probably helped them realise they are bi. Join to find women, get propositioned by men, tried it out and liked it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone else noticed the high numbers of married men that are also Bi on fab. Each to their own of course, absolutely no judgement, I’m just fascinated.
I think with the changing nature of Fab over the years, bi men now have an opportunity to meet like minded others. Fabguys, generally is used by gay men looking for other gay men. Here on Fab,its probably one of the friendlier sites for bi men to meet whoever takes their fancy. "
Fabguys is full of Bisexual men and a high proportion are in relationships.gay men are actually a rarity. |
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It’s been our experience that Bi makes in MF couples stating they’re Bi is a rarity - we’re in the minority looking for this.
Plenty of “straight” lads who are happy to go with the flow in the situation but don’t advertise for fear of being blocked/excluded.
What boggles both (my partner and I) our minds is the amount for folks on here who are completely anti-bi lads, but happily jump on the train when it’s a bi lady.
We understand preferences and all that, it’s more the notion most of this persuasion seem to have that you’re gonna catch something from a lad who’s Bi/Gay, but not from a Bi/Lesbian woman.
Mr. is hardly going to jump the lad if it’s not consensual, and there needs to be chemistry too, but sure try telling anyway else that.
Stigmas are what they are, and will continue - but maybe people don’t always have to be narrow minded?
*Everyone should get yourselves regularly tested if you’re sexually active. |
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By *are04Man
over a year ago
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Here’s my thoughts, for what their worth. I think very few humans if any, are totally “straight” or totally “gay”. We’re all bisexual to one extent or another but society and our upbringing has engineered us to believe anything other than a heterosexual relationship is wrong.
Our mind usually overrides our lustful feelings for same sex people. I’m bi and enjoy a romp with either sex but in the beginning the guilt was an awful burden when I played with men.
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Agreed OP When I first joined Fab I too was surprised at how many married men were bi & Women too. But in saying that as a Bi Female Im happy to see that Life has changed & people are now free to express their desires & be who they are! Id encourage my Husband if he was interested in men to be himself , fact is a lot of men are still afraid for whatever the reason to be true to themselves. Trully is lovely to see , having a straight partner who allows you to be your true authenic self.  |
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"Agreed OP When I first joined Fab I too was surprised at how many married men were bi & Women too. But in saying that as a Bi Female Im happy to see that Life has changed & people are now free to express their desires & be who they are! Id encourage my Husband if he was interested in men to be himself , fact is a lot of men are still afraid for whatever the reason to be true to themselves. Trully is lovely to see , having a straight partner who allows you to be your true authenic self. "
Truly great pics and great bio |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's all about the pleasure does it matter how we get it once it's safe and everyone's happy .
And sure watching to fellas make me wetter than an otters pocket .  "
....otters pocket! Hahaha. Love it  |
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There are way more bi women in couples here than bi guys in couples I think if all guys were honest the percentage would be pretty similar I think it's a lot more acceptable for the women to say they are bi the men still have some stigma about it,me for instance I don't find male faces attractive I'd never ever kiss a guy but if he had a really nice dick I'd wank him or possibly suck it I think I'm cock curious notbi curious  |
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