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Sunday night for the ladies to send on the first step message
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"Good luck with that one . Its upto us men to make the effort with the lovely ladies  "
I haven't sent an opening message to a lovely lady in 3½ years. They all seem happy enough to make the effort though.
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"Good luck with that one . Its upto us men to make the effort with the lovely ladies "
No it's not. I've often sent first messages on here.And plenty of other women have as well. And they aren't that that easy to write I found so I think fair to men who do send first messages and do it differently for each profile. Mind you I think if I had to send them all the time I would probably end up doing a lot of copy and paste. 
I'm not in though as I'm not doing new meets for the foreseeable future so there is no point . |
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First messages aren’t all they are cracked up to be 
Group chats are easier with a view to hitting a social. It’s only meeting face to face and chatting really tells someone if they are interested or attracted to each other. |
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"Sure why not. Anyone can message me any time anyway.
Just on the messages above. I've had quite a few first messages from women since I joined. Why not like?
It's not a 1950's dance hall lads "
I'm a 1950s kinda gal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sure why not. Anyone can message me any time anyway.
Just on the messages above. I've had quite a few first messages from women since I joined. Why not like?
It's not a 1950's dance hall lads
I'm a 1950s kinda gal "
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"Sure why not. Anyone can message me any time anyway.
Just on the messages above. I've had quite a few first messages from women since I joined. Why not like?
It's not a 1950's dance hall lads
I'm a 1950s kinda gal "
For you Aphrodite I'd put on my best shoes and treat you like a lady |
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"Sure why not. Anyone can message me any time anyway.
Just on the messages above. I've had quite a few first messages from women since I joined. Why not like?
It's not a 1950's dance hall lads
I'm a 1950s kinda gal
Same here "
Lou u my kinda gal |
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"Sure why not. Anyone can message me any time anyway.
Just on the messages above. I've had quite a few first messages from women since I joined. Why not like?
It's not a 1950's dance hall lads
I'm a 1950s kinda gal
For you Aphrodite I'd put on my best shoes and treat you like a lady "
Well the shoes are paramount |
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"Sure why not. Anyone can message me any time anyway.
Just on the messages above. I've had quite a few first messages from women since I joined. Why not like?
It's not a 1950's dance hall lads
I'm a 1950s kinda gal
For you Aphrodite I'd put on my best shoes and treat you like a lady
Well the shoes are paramount "
A whirl around the Warwick and a walk on the prom? I'll have you home by ten. |
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"I'll make the effort of there is something intriguing about the profile.. Blank profile, no details and dick pics won't get a message...  "
But have you ever done it? I’m sure you haven’t because you’ve probably got a tonne of messages to go through |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Let’s make the second Sunday of the month for the ladies to make the first step in messaging a fella, and taking the first step. "
Don't be pestering me lol  |
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"Good luck with that one . Its upto us men to make the effort with the lovely ladies
No it's not. I've often sent first messages on here.And plenty of other women have as well. And they aren't that that easy to write I found so I think fair to men who do send first messages and do it differently for each profile. Mind you I think if I had to send them all the time I would probably end up doing a lot of copy and paste.
I'm not in though as I'm not doing new meets for the foreseeable future so there is no point . "
What kind of message would you recommend for the gentlemen of this site to send a lady? |
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"Let’s make the second Sunday of the month for the ladies to make the first step in messaging a fella, and taking the first step.
Don't be pestering me lol "
Lol that wasn’t my intention at all just wanted for you to see what I had to say privately, I really appreciate your input as well as other female members. Us men don’t know it all you know lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Let’s make the second Sunday of the month for the ladies to make the first step in messaging a fella, and taking the first step.
Don't be pestering me lol
Lol that wasn’t my intention at all just wanted for you to see what I had to say privately, I really appreciate your input as well as other female members. Us men don’t know it all you know lol"
I'm only yanking your chain op lol.. its called banter x |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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What kind of message would you recommend for the gentlemen of this site to send a lady? "
One that reflects shows they read her profile.
The main thing though when I get messages is not so much the message I get unless it's a dumbass faf etc type,that's just an immediate delete, but it's the persons profile for me. I look at a guys profile before I even open if I like it then I'm more likely to reply.
There is no magic formula for messages on here or profiles either. What appeals to one person will make others just delete. |
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What kind of message would you recommend for the gentlemen of this site to send a lady?
One that reflects shows they read her profile.
The main thing though when I get messages is not so much the message I get unless it's a dumbass faf etc type,that's just an immediate delete, but it's the persons profile for me. I look at a guys profile before I even open if I like it then I'm more likely to reply.
There is no magic formula for messages on here or profiles either. What appeals to one person will make others just delete. "
So honest answer, what do you think when you look at my profile? |
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"Sure why not. Anyone can message me any time anyway.
Just on the messages above. I've had quite a few first messages from women since I joined. Why not like?
It's not a 1950's dance hall lads
I'm a 1950s kinda gal
For you Aphrodite I'd put on my best shoes and treat you like a lady
Well the shoes are paramount
A whirl around the Warwick and a walk on the prom? I'll have you home by ten."
Ten??? Thats disappointing |
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"Sure why not. Anyone can message me any time anyway.
Just on the messages above. I've had quite a few first messages from women since I joined. Why not like?
It's not a 1950's dance hall lads
I'm a 1950s kinda gal
For you Aphrodite I'd put on my best shoes and treat you like a lady
Well the shoes are paramount
A whirl around the Warwick and a walk on the prom? I'll have you home by ten.
Ten??? Thats disappointing "
What can I say, it's the 50's
Now if you want to bring it up to the naughties I could make an altogether different kind of indecent proposal. |
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"Sure why not. Anyone can message me any time anyway.
Just on the messages above. I've had quite a few first messages from women since I joined. Why not like?
It's not a 1950's dance hall lads
I'm a 1950s kinda gal
For you Aphrodite I'd put on my best shoes and treat you like a lady
Well the shoes are paramount
A whirl around the Warwick and a walk on the prom? I'll have you home by ten.
Ten??? Thats disappointing
What can I say, it's the 50's
Now if you want to bring it up to the naughties I could make an altogether different kind of indecent proposal. "
My kind of proposal |
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