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"Isn't it the same? Both sounds good to me  "But the second wan sounds sleezy? .. | |||
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"Isn't it the same? Both sounds good to me
But the second wan sounds sleezy? .. "Yes, it does | |||
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"I will say, fuck buddy is just to have a sex with somebody, affair is linked to some emotional relationship?" Agreed. Fuck buddy is just physical. You like doing each other purely for good foreplay and raw fucking. Affair is you both having dreams about it leading to a place where you're together in life, with great sex. Two very different things. | |||
"I will say, fuck buddy is just to have a sex with somebody, affair is linked to some emotional relationship? Agreed. Fuck buddy is just physical. You like doing each other purely for good foreplay and raw fucking. Affair is you both having dreams about it leading to a place where you're together in life, with great sex. Two very different things." To clarify, most men are just doing the first of these  | |||
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"So if someone in as marriage is having an affair has a fuck buddy then it's not an affair?" Damm it now I have to think. Too early for this | |||
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"Interesting....... I would have thought an affair would involve one partner not knowing and a fuck buddy they would know about....... now I'm not sure " Would mostly agree, but singles can be fuckbuddys too so there isn't necessarily a partner at all | |||
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"My opinion which is worth feck all.... Affair. One or both getting it on without thier partners knowing Fuckbuddy, two people using each other for sexual pleasure FWB. Two people who feck and share ice cream after " Flake and strawberry syrup too??  | |||
"Someone in a relationship…. Affair " Then, by your opinion, every swinging couple on her is having an affair?? I don't feel that's a fair assessment. However, Webster agrees with you. Fuckbuddy and FWB are pretty much the same. | |||
"Interesting....... I would have thought an affair would involve one partner not knowing and a fuck buddy they would know about....... now I'm not sure " I guess I meant that if an affair involves an emotional connection and a fuck buddy doesn't. What's an affair that doesn't involve an emotional question? I'm not trying to be pedantic I know it's all semantics. | |||
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"Having a fuck buddy.. or Having a Affair?" In my humble opinion, to have an affair, a person must be married or in a long-term relationship. If someone is not married and only dating for a few months, they're just cheating if the other partner doesn't know about it. With the acceptance of open relationships becoming more the norm, I think definitions will need to be rewritten. | |||
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"When something is hidden from your partner with one person exclusively then it could be classed as an affair. If they stray often and have many partners then I suppose they are only Fuck buddies to that person and mean nothing more. Friends with benefits is a less casual situation. It is where a friendship and mutual respect has developed over time and both parties enjoy each other. For me personally I would not like to be just be a casual encounter for someone as I'd feel they are looking over my shoulder for the next person to nail, but hey thats just me "I guess that's fair. However, personally, I would prefer all encounters to be more casual as I don't think partners should become emotionally involved with anyone other than their other half. | |||
"When something is hidden from your partner with one person exclusively then it could be classed as an affair. If they stray often and have many partners then I suppose they are only Fuck buddies to that person and mean nothing more. Friends with benefits is a less casual situation. It is where a friendship and mutual respect has developed over time and both parties enjoy each other. For me personally I would not like to be just be a casual encounter for someone as I'd feel they are looking over my shoulder for the next person to nail, but hey thats just me
I guess that's fair. However, personally, I would prefer all encounters to be more casual as I don't think partners should become emotionally involved with anyone other than their other half. "I wouldn't consider friendship and mutual respect being anything like becoming emotionally involved. Its a friendship with some great benefits thrown in. I'm very happily married to a wonderful man and he will only ever be the one that will have my all. | |||
"When something is hidden from your partner with one person exclusively then it could be classed as an affair. If they stray often and have many partners then I suppose they are only Fuck buddies to that person and mean nothing more. Friends with benefits is a less casual situation. It is where a friendship and mutual respect has developed over time and both parties enjoy each other. For me personally I would not like to be just be a casual encounter for someone as I'd feel they are looking over my shoulder for the next person to nail, but hey thats just me
I guess that's fair. However, personally, I would prefer all encounters to be more casual as I don't think partners should become emotionally involved with anyone other than their other half.
I wouldn't consider friendship and mutual respect being anything like becoming emotionally involved. Its a friendship with some great benefits thrown in.
I'm very happily married to a wonderful man and he will only ever be the one that will have my all. "We I'm happy for you and other people that have that type of relationship with their husbands/wives/partners. But there's always the unhappy ones that use a site like this to create their own happy place! | |||
"When something is hidden from your partner with one person exclusively then it could be classed as an affair. If they stray often and have many partners then I suppose they are only Fuck buddies to that person and mean nothing more. Friends with benefits is a less casual situation. It is where a friendship and mutual respect has developed over time and both parties enjoy each other. For me personally I would not like to be just be a casual encounter for someone as I'd feel they are looking over my shoulder for the next person to nail, but hey thats just me
I guess that's fair. However, personally, I would prefer all encounters to be more casual as I don't think partners should become emotionally involved with anyone other than their other half.
I wouldn't consider friendship and mutual respect being anything like becoming emotionally involved. Its a friendship with some great benefits thrown in.
I'm very happily married to a wonderful man and he will only ever be the one that will have my all.
We I'm happy for you and other people that have that type of relationship with their husbands/wives/partners.
But there's always the unhappy ones that use a site like this to create their own happy place!"Life is not black and white and I won't judge anyone's reason for being here. | |||
"When something is hidden from your partner with one person exclusively then it could be classed as an affair. If they stray often and have many partners then I suppose they are only Fuck buddies to that person and mean nothing more. Friends with benefits is a less casual situation. It is where a friendship and mutual respect has developed over time and both parties enjoy each other. For me personally I would not like to be just be a casual encounter for someone as I'd feel they are looking over my shoulder for the next person to nail, but hey thats just me
I guess that's fair. However, personally, I would prefer all encounters to be more casual as I don't think partners should become emotionally involved with anyone other than their other half.
I wouldn't consider friendship and mutual respect being anything like becoming emotionally involved. Its a friendship with some great benefits thrown in.
I'm very happily married to a wonderful man and he will only ever be the one that will have my all.
We I'm happy for you and other people that have that type of relationship with their husbands/wives/partners.
But there's always the unhappy ones that use a site like this to create their own happy place!
Life is not black and white and I won't judge anyone's reason for being here. "(Going by your pics, hubby is a very lucky man.  )
True, life isn't always black & white for some people. As nobody really knows, what's goes on behind closed doors.
To me a fuck buddy, is a person you meetup with every so often, distress, have a cuming good time with, part ways & move on with ye're lifes, until the next time. In other words no deep connection, apart from the sex(2 out of 3 ant bad).
Where's an affair, 2 people meetup fairly regularly. They have a deeper connection, than just sex. They're having a relationship between themselves(3 out 3,can be bad). While 1 or both of them could be in another relationship with someone else. But that person doesn't know about this relationship(the affair).
Personally(again) I'd roder be a fuck buddy or a FWB to a lady. Where it's nothing to serious, apart from the sex. We meetup every so often, for a cuming good time together & then go about our normal lives. Both of us could be looking over the other person's shoulder looking at the next person. That we could be nailing(2 out of 3,ant bad).
I've no interest in having an affair with a lady. As I don't want to be her bit on the side, so to speak. Nor would I want her to be mine either. As we'd be hurting other people within our lives. I don't want to freaking out, everytime my phone rings. Wondering am I going to be hearing the word's form the other person(I will find out & I'm going to kill you,etc. So to speak). As I'll have to be looking over my shoulder alot of the time( 3 out 3, is very bad).
I'm not judging anybody, each to they're own. | |||
"When something is hidden from your partner with one person exclusively then it could be classed as an affair. If they stray often and have many partners then I suppose they are only Fuck buddies to that person and mean nothing more. Friends with benefits is a less casual situation. It is where a friendship and mutual respect has developed over time and both parties enjoy each other. For me personally I would not like to be just be a casual encounter for someone as I'd feel they are looking over my shoulder for the next person to nail, but hey thats just me
I guess that's fair. However, personally, I would prefer all encounters to be more casual as I don't think partners should become emotionally involved with anyone other than their other half.
I wouldn't consider friendship and mutual respect being anything like becoming emotionally involved. Its a friendship with some great benefits thrown in.
I'm very happily married to a wonderful man and he will only ever be the one that will have my all.
We I'm happy for you and other people that have that type of relationship with their husbands/wives/partners.
But there's always the unhappy ones that use a site like this to create their own happy place!
Life is not black and white and I won't judge anyone's reason for being here.
(Going by your pics, hubby is a very lucky man. )
True, life isn't always black & white for some people. As nobody really knows, what's goes on behind closed doors.
To me a fuck buddy, is a person you meetup with every so often, distress, have a cuming good time with, part ways & move on with ye're lifes, until the next time. In other words no deep connection, apart from the sex(2 out of 3 ant bad).
Where's an affair, 2 people meetup fairly regularly. They have a deeper connection, than just sex. They're having a relationship between themselves(3 out 3,can be bad). While 1 or both of them could be in another relationship with someone else. But that person doesn't know about this relationship(the affair).
Personally(again) I'd roder be a fuck buddy or a FWB to a lady. Where it's nothing to serious, apart from the sex. We meetup every so often, for a cuming good time together & then go about our normal lives. Both of us could be looking over the other person's shoulder looking at the next person. That we could be nailing(2 out of 3,ant bad).
I've no interest in having an affair with a lady. As I don't want to be her bit on the side, so to speak. Nor would I want her to be mine either. As we'd be hurting other people within our lives. I don't want to freaking out, everytime my phone rings. Wondering am I going to be hearing the word's form the other person(I will find out & I'm going to kill you,etc. So to speak). As I'll have to be looking over my shoulder alot of the time( 3 out 3, is very bad).
I'm not judging anybody, each to they're own. "Jubal??? Is that you??? | |||
"When something is hidden from your partner with one person exclusively then it could be classed as an affair. If they stray often and have many partners then I suppose they are only Fuck buddies to that person and mean nothing more. Friends with benefits is a less casual situation. It is where a friendship and mutual respect has developed over time and both parties enjoy each other. For me personally I would not like to be just be a casual encounter for someone as I'd feel they are looking over my shoulder for the next person to nail, but hey thats just me
I guess that's fair. However, personally, I would prefer all encounters to be more casual as I don't think partners should become emotionally involved with anyone other than their other half.
I wouldn't consider friendship and mutual respect being anything like becoming emotionally involved. Its a friendship with some great benefits thrown in.
I'm very happily married to a wonderful man and he will only ever be the one that will have my all.
We I'm happy for you and other people that have that type of relationship with their husbands/wives/partners.
But there's always the unhappy ones that use a site like this to create their own happy place!
Life is not black and white and I won't judge anyone's reason for being here.
(Going by your pics, hubby is a very lucky man. )
True, life isn't always black & white for some people. As nobody really knows, what's goes on behind closed doors.
To me a fuck buddy, is a person you meetup with every so often, distress, have a cuming good time with, part ways & move on with ye're lifes, until the next time. In other words no deep connection, apart from the sex(2 out of 3 ant bad).
Where's an affair, 2 people meetup fairly regularly. They have a deeper connection, than just sex. They're having a relationship between themselves(3 out 3,can be bad). While 1 or both of them could be in another relationship with someone else. But that person doesn't know about this relationship(the affair).
Personally(again) I'd roder be a fuck buddy or a FWB to a lady. Where it's nothing to serious, apart from the sex. We meetup every so often, for a cuming good time together & then go about our normal lives. Both of us could be looking over the other person's shoulder looking at the next person. That we could be nailing(2 out of 3,ant bad).
I've no interest in having an affair with a lady. As I don't want to be her bit on the side, so to speak. Nor would I want her to be mine either. As we'd be hurting other people within our lives. I don't want to freaking out, everytime my phone rings. Wondering am I going to be hearing the word's form the other person(I will find out & I'm going to kill you,etc. So to speak). As I'll have to be looking over my shoulder alot of the time( 3 out 3, is very bad).
I'm not judging anybody, each to they're own.
Jubal??? Is that you??? "
No. Who are you talking about??  | |||
"When something is hidden from your partner with one person exclusively then it could be classed as an affair. If they stray often and have many partners then I suppose they are only Fuck buddies to that person and mean nothing more. Friends with benefits is a less casual situation. It is where a friendship and mutual respect has developed over time and both parties enjoy each other. For me personally I would not like to be just be a casual encounter for someone as I'd feel they are looking over my shoulder for the next person to nail, but hey thats just me
I guess that's fair. However, personally, I would prefer all encounters to be more casual as I don't think partners should become emotionally involved with anyone other than their other half.
I wouldn't consider friendship and mutual respect being anything like becoming emotionally involved. Its a friendship with some great benefits thrown in.
I'm very happily married to a wonderful man and he will only ever be the one that will have my all.
We I'm happy for you and other people that have that type of relationship with their husbands/wives/partners.
But there's always the unhappy ones that use a site like this to create their own happy place!
Life is not black and white and I won't judge anyone's reason for being here.
(Going by your pics, hubby is a very lucky man. )
True, life isn't always black & white for some people. As nobody really knows, what's goes on behind closed doors.
To me a fuck buddy, is a person you meetup with every so often, distress, have a cuming good time with, part ways & move on with ye're lifes, until the next time. In other words no deep connection, apart from the sex(2 out of 3 ant bad).
Where's an affair, 2 people meetup fairly regularly. They have a deeper connection, than just sex. They're having a relationship between themselves(3 out 3,can be bad). While 1 or both of them could be in another relationship with someone else. But that person doesn't know about this relationship(the affair).
Personally(again) I'd roder be a fuck buddy or a FWB to a lady. Where it's nothing to serious, apart from the sex. We meetup every so often, for a cuming good time together & then go about our normal lives. Both of us could be looking over the other person's shoulder looking at the next person. That we could be nailing(2 out of 3,ant bad).
I've no interest in having an affair with a lady. As I don't want to be her bit on the side, so to speak. Nor would I want her to be mine either. As we'd be hurting other people within our lives. I don't want to freaking out, everytime my phone rings. Wondering am I going to be hearing the word's form the other person(I will find out & I'm going to kill you,etc. So to speak). As I'll have to be looking over my shoulder alot of the time( 3 out 3, is very bad).
I'm not judging anybody, each to they're own.
Jubal??? Is that you???
No. Who are you talking about?? "I'm just taking the pi$$. He's another fabber who generally writes volumes when he posts. | |||
"When something is hidden from your partner with one person exclusively then it could be classed as an affair. If they stray often and have many partners then I suppose they are only Fuck buddies to that person and mean nothing more. Friends with benefits is a less casual situation. It is where a friendship and mutual respect has developed over time and both parties enjoy each other. For me personally I would not like to be just be a casual encounter for someone as I'd feel they are looking over my shoulder for the next person to nail, but hey thats just me
I guess that's fair. However, personally, I would prefer all encounters to be more casual as I don't think partners should become emotionally involved with anyone other than their other half.
I wouldn't consider friendship and mutual respect being anything like becoming emotionally involved. Its a friendship with some great benefits thrown in.
I'm very happily married to a wonderful man and he will only ever be the one that will have my all.
We I'm happy for you and other people that have that type of relationship with their husbands/wives/partners.
But there's always the unhappy ones that use a site like this to create their own happy place!
Life is not black and white and I won't judge anyone's reason for being here.
(Going by your pics, hubby is a very lucky man. )
True, life isn't always black & white for some people. As nobody really knows, what's goes on behind closed doors.
To me a fuck buddy, is a person you meetup with every so often, distress, have a cuming good time with, part ways & move on with ye're lifes, until the next time. In other words no deep connection, apart from the sex(2 out of 3 ant bad).
Where's an affair, 2 people meetup fairly regularly. They have a deeper connection, than just sex. They're having a relationship between themselves(3 out 3,can be bad). While 1 or both of them could be in another relationship with someone else. But that person doesn't know about this relationship(the affair).
Personally(again) I'd roder be a fuck buddy or a FWB to a lady. Where it's nothing to serious, apart from the sex. We meetup every so often, for a cuming good time together & then go about our normal lives. Both of us could be looking over the other person's shoulder looking at the next person. That we could be nailing(2 out of 3,ant bad).
I've no interest in having an affair with a lady. As I don't want to be her bit on the side, so to speak. Nor would I want her to be mine either. As we'd be hurting other people within our lives. I don't want to freaking out, everytime my phone rings. Wondering am I going to be hearing the word's form the other person(I will find out & I'm going to kill you,etc. So to speak). As I'll have to be looking over my shoulder alot of the time( 3 out 3, is very bad).
I'm not judging anybody, each to they're own.
Jubal??? Is that you???
No. Who are you talking about??
I'm just taking the pi$$. He's another fabber who generally writes volumes when he posts. "O right. So I'm not the only 1 that does it then? That's good to know,as I wouldn't be pissing people off that much then, with my volumes of writing. | |||
"When something is hidden from your partner with one person exclusively then it could be classed as an affair. If they stray often and have many partners then I suppose they are only Fuck buddies to that person and mean nothing more. Friends with benefits is a less casual situation. It is where a friendship and mutual respect has developed over time and both parties enjoy each other. For me personally I would not like to be just be a casual encounter for someone as I'd feel they are looking over my shoulder for the next person to nail, but hey thats just me
I guess that's fair. However, personally, I would prefer all encounters to be more casual as I don't think partners should become emotionally involved with anyone other than their other half.
I wouldn't consider friendship and mutual respect being anything like becoming emotionally involved. Its a friendship with some great benefits thrown in.
I'm very happily married to a wonderful man and he will only ever be the one that will have my all.
We I'm happy for you and other people that have that type of relationship with their husbands/wives/partners.
But there's always the unhappy ones that use a site like this to create their own happy place!
Life is not black and white and I won't judge anyone's reason for being here.
(Going by your pics, hubby is a very lucky man. )
True, life isn't always black & white for some people. As nobody really knows, what's goes on behind closed doors.
To me a fuck buddy, is a person you meetup with every so often, distress, have a cuming good time with, part ways & move on with ye're lifes, until the next time. In other words no deep connection, apart from the sex(2 out of 3 ant bad).
Where's an affair, 2 people meetup fairly regularly. They have a deeper connection, than just sex. They're having a relationship between themselves(3 out 3,can be bad). While 1 or both of them could be in another relationship with someone else. But that person doesn't know about this relationship(the affair).
Personally(again) I'd roder be a fuck buddy or a FWB to a lady. Where it's nothing to serious, apart from the sex. We meetup every so often, for a cuming good time together & then go about our normal lives. Both of us could be looking over the other person's shoulder looking at the next person. That we could be nailing(2 out of 3,ant bad).
I've no interest in having an affair with a lady. As I don't want to be her bit on the side, so to speak. Nor would I want her to be mine either. As we'd be hurting other people within our lives. I don't want to freaking out, everytime my phone rings. Wondering am I going to be hearing the word's form the other person(I will find out & I'm going to kill you,etc. So to speak). As I'll have to be looking over my shoulder alot of the time( 3 out 3, is very bad).
I'm not judging anybody, each to they're own.
Jubal??? Is that you???
No. Who are you talking about??
I'm just taking the pi$$. He's another fabber who generally writes volumes when he posts.
O right. So I'm not the only 1 that does it then?
That's good to know,as I wouldn't be pissing people off that much then, with my volumes of writing. "Nope. Work away. It's like profiles. None of the lads read them. | |||
"When something is hidden from your partner with one person exclusively then it could be classed as an affair. If they stray often and have many partners then I suppose they are only Fuck buddies to that person and mean nothing more. Friends with benefits is a less casual situation. It is where a friendship and mutual respect has developed over time and both parties enjoy each other. For me personally I would not like to be just be a casual encounter for someone as I'd feel they are looking over my shoulder for the next person to nail, but hey thats just me
I guess that's fair. However, personally, I would prefer all encounters to be more casual as I don't think partners should become emotionally involved with anyone other than their other half.
I wouldn't consider friendship and mutual respect being anything like becoming emotionally involved. Its a friendship with some great benefits thrown in.
I'm very happily married to a wonderful man and he will only ever be the one that will have my all.
We I'm happy for you and other people that have that type of relationship with their husbands/wives/partners.
But there's always the unhappy ones that use a site like this to create their own happy place!
Life is not black and white and I won't judge anyone's reason for being here.
(Going by your pics, hubby is a very lucky man. )
True, life isn't always black & white for some people. As nobody really knows, what's goes on behind closed doors.
To me a fuck buddy, is a person you meetup with every so often, distress, have a cuming good time with, part ways & move on with ye're lifes, until the next time. In other words no deep connection, apart from the sex(2 out of 3 ant bad).
Where's an affair, 2 people meetup fairly regularly. They have a deeper connection, than just sex. They're having a relationship between themselves(3 out 3,can be bad). While 1 or both of them could be in another relationship with someone else. But that person doesn't know about this relationship(the affair).
Personally(again) I'd roder be a fuck buddy or a FWB to a lady. Where it's nothing to serious, apart from the sex. We meetup every so often, for a cuming good time together & then go about our normal lives. Both of us could be looking over the other person's shoulder looking at the next person. That we could be nailing(2 out of 3,ant bad).
I've no interest in having an affair with a lady. As I don't want to be her bit on the side, so to speak. Nor would I want her to be mine either. As we'd be hurting other people within our lives. I don't want to freaking out, everytime my phone rings. Wondering am I going to be hearing the word's form the other person(I will find out & I'm going to kill you,etc. So to speak). As I'll have to be looking over my shoulder alot of the time( 3 out 3, is very bad).
I'm not judging anybody, each to they're own.
Jubal??? Is that you???
No. Who are you talking about??
I'm just taking the pi$$. He's another fabber who generally writes volumes when he posts.
O right. So I'm not the only 1 that does it then?
That's good to know,as I wouldn't be pissing people off that much then, with my volumes of writing.
Nope. Work away. It's like profiles. None of the lads read them. "Excellent, true, they don't. | |||
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"Having a fuck buddy.. or Having a Affair?" Honestly
What do u think ? | |||
"Having a fuck buddy.. or Having a Affair?" An affair involves deception... fuck buddies shouldn't!  | |||
"I will say, fuck buddy is just to have a sex with somebody, affair is linked to some emotional relationship? Agreed. Fuck buddy is just physical. You like doing each other purely for good foreplay and raw fucking. Affair is you both having dreams about it leading to a place where you're together in life, with great sex. Two very different things." Lots of people have had affairs that are just sex ... that hardly makes it a fuck buddy and not an affair ? | |||
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"It was just a general question .. having a fwb or having a affair with someone .. what's the difference? " Fwb assumes both people are single Having an affair would mean at least one of them isnt and is cheating on their partner | |||
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"First 1 sounds much better " Sure does lol | |||
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"But people here saying they are single but playing away .. and I know that for a fact .. lads n ladies " Don't let it bother you unless you specifically dont meet married men And you're trying to keep it that way | |||
"It was just a general question .. having a fwb or having a affair with someone .. what's the difference? Fwb assumes both people are single Having an affair would mean at least one of them isnt and is cheating on their partner " But if their partner is ok with it and gives their consent can it still be classed as cheating ? | |||
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"It was just a general question .. having a fwb or having a affair with someone .. what's the difference? Fwb assumes both people are single Having an affair would mean at least one of them isnt and is cheating on their partner But if their partner is ok with it and gives their consent can it still be classed as cheating ?" I classify one person not knowing as cheating | |||
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"Isn't it the same? Both sounds good to me
But the second wan sounds sleezy? .. "The first sounds sleazier to me, the second sounds classier Potato, potato ……. Or that doesn’t work without saying it out loud | |||
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