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Marital Sex - how often
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depending on which wife I’m with but Tuesday and Thursday oh and Sunday are all very very good too me
Oh I wish....."
I have fourteen wife’s two camels and one goat I love too eat them all I’m not looking for Pamela any more |
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"Depending on which wife I’m with but Tuesday and Thursday oh and Sunday are all very very good too me
Oh I wish.....
I have fourteen wife’s two camels and one goat I love too eat them all I’m not looking for Pamela any more "
You must be the King of the people's republic of Cork, I take it?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depending on which wife I’m with but Tuesday and Thursday oh and Sunday are all very very good too me
Oh I wish.....
I have fourteen wife’s two camels and one goat I love too eat them all I’m not looking for Pamela any more
You must be the King of the people's republic of Cork, I take it? "
Yes I eat berry well |
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"Depending on which wife I’m with but Tuesday and Thursday oh and Sunday are all very very good too me
Oh I wish.....
I have fourteen wife’s two camels and one goat I love too eat them all I’m not looking for Pamela any more
You must be the King of the people's republic of Cork, I take it?
Yes I eat berry well "
I bet you do Boi.  |
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"Depending on which wife I’m with but Tuesday and Thursday oh and Sunday are all very very good too me
Oh I wish.....
I have fourteen wife’s two camels and one goat I love too eat them all I’m not looking for Pamela any more "
have you enough hay for the rest of the year |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sorry to say it's lucky to be once a month, never on a school night, always last thing at night...."
It's my pet hate .. that's all I'm going to say,hence why I'm om fab |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
The crux of this issue is that the libido of each party in a sexually active relationship has to be roughly equal; which can range on a continuum from never having any form of sexual contact, ever, and being happy with that, to the situation where sex takes place multiple times daily, and being happy to express their rampant libidinousness .
Compatibility is the crux. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Marital sex ? So many things are in the mix , it all depends on the situation, great sex goes out the window.. fairly fast too... if the proper attention and attitude isn't applied,a female..yes a female... once told me that the 2 highest things a woman holds over a guy are Sex & Money ..." He didn't put the bins out this morning. ..so lm not gonna suck his cock tonight " .. Marital Sex ? ..be careful what you wish for . |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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I think average is once a week. However it's not a chore and there's no single answer to it.
Op, you've to ask yourself op where it goes wrong. That includes to have a critical look at yourself starting with your involvement in running the household/kids over changes in looks, behaviour and habits, up to your sexual skills.
There's so many factors that can influence your sex life - communication is key. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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6 years in December!!!!
Got to the stage where I don't even bother looking for it now.
Plus it's too boring with her since I've experienced alternative ideas |
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"Almost a year and a half now  that’s why I’m on here.
Why'd she give up on sex....
We had a baby girl and she’s blaming it on the fact she has put on weight, which doesn’t bother me at all."
That's a tough one.. you might not be bothered but her libido could have taken a nosedive as a result of post-birth, energy drainage due to mothering, and genuinely not feeling sexy in her own skin (hugely important)
It can be difficult for guys as we often take the stance, "but you look hot to ME!" but it isn't all about us.
Best of luck to ya mate  |
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There is no "correct amount" answer to this question, though.
It very much depends on the relationship and the intimacy between you both outside of the bedroom.
We could have sex once a week, 3 nights in row or maybe not for a fortnight or more. But it's irrelevant to us really.
We live busy lives with work and family, both need to understand each others situation. But intimacy outside the bedroom is key!
Nearly all ladies go through periods of low libido, particularly after birth etc. Some may need medical advice/help for this.
One piece of advice to all Lads: If you're doing fuck all around the house, you can expect to get fuck all in bed!!...Sounds simple but, mop that floor, hoover the house, put a wash on, put away that basket of clothes, make the lunches....Because if she has to do all that, all the time, she won't have the energy or interest for you! |
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"There is no "correct amount" answer to this question, though.
It very much depends on the relationship and the intimacy between you both outside of the bedroom.
We could have sex once a week, 3 nights in row or maybe not for a fortnight or more. But it's irrelevant to us really.
We live busy lives with work and family, both need to understand each others situation. But intimacy outside the bedroom is key!
Nearly all ladies go through periods of low libido, particularly after birth etc. Some may need medical advice/help for this.
One piece of advice to all Lads: If you're doing fuck all around the house, you can expect to get fuck all in bed!!...Sounds simple but, mop that floor, hoover the house, put a wash on, put away that basket of clothes, make the lunches....Because if she has to do all that, all the time, she won't have the energy or interest for you! "
Jaysus, the lazy hoors will have nothing to do if we do all that for them! 
My wife is fierce dirty around the house. Every time I go to piss in the sink I find it full of unwashed dishes. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Almost a year and a half now that’s why I’m on here.
Why'd she give up on sex....
We had a baby girl and she’s blaming it on the fact she has put on weight, which doesn’t bother me at all.
That's a tough one.. you might not be bothered but her libido could have taken a nosedive as a result of post-birth, energy drainage due to mothering, and genuinely not feeling sexy in her own skin (hugely important)
It can be difficult for guys as we often take the stance, "but you look hot to ME!" but it isn't all about us.
Best of luck to ya mate "
And I'd say it's a story that is more common in society than we'd have thought. Rings true in my situation as well. Difficult to overcome and fab is definitely a useful outlet. |
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By *apri 555Man
over a year ago
wexford or Dublin |
Were married 22 years next month and if im honest it was few and far between when kids were younger and life got in the way, but for the last 2 years its every chance we get ,average 3 times a week and its better than it ever was,
Not so bad for 32 years together |
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Everyday for us , comes home at lunch & we fuck , then again when he's home & usually at end of night . We married 29yrs n its still Hot Sex like the beginning. Only time its less than that is if either of us are pissed off( normal marital stuff lol) Or if one is sick , the other is gagging by the time the other recovers. Have to say its still like it was when we 1st met but even more fun since joining Fab.  |
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"That’s brilliant you guys are extremely lucky to have each other "
Awh tk u, ye we been lucky as to have not lost the spark, guess even b4 Fab we were adventerous & never had just bedroom sex , anywhere & everwhere. And guess when each partner is kind n loving, helping etc ...sex just flows naturally! |
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"Wish I could say the same for us "
Dont get me wrong as someone already said about having kids, when ours were small i now see how the kids got more attention than himself unconsiously but thats been motherly !! So back then it would have been less say 3 times a week...now that kids are grown its like we both found our freedom & lust again for one another. So stick with it , sometimes theres more beneath the surface  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wish I could say the same for us
Dont get me wrong as someone already said about having kids, when ours were small i now see how the kids got more attention than himself unconsiously but thats been motherly !! So back then it would have been less say 3 times a week...now that kids are grown its like we both found our freedom & lust again for one another. So stick with it , sometimes theres more beneath the surface "
Happy days , glad you’ve your freedom again and both having fun |
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