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"I keep getting messages from so called straight males looking for sex. So I was wondering what is their definition of straight."
I get messages from them, wondering am I interested in doing a sex act with them. I reply to them & after a few messages, they stop.
Interesting to know alright. |
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Ah fab straight. 
We once got a message from a "straight" single male offering to suck T's cock and put on a show for M.
T replied asking why it said he was straight and he said he wasn’t gay and would not meet men but liked sucking husbands in front of their wives.
It must be a spectrum. 
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"Ah fab straight.
We once got a message from a "straight" single male offering to suck T's cock and put on a show for M.
T replied asking why it said he was straight and he said he wasn’t gay and would not meet men but liked sucking husbands in front of their wives.
It must be a spectrum.
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it's a spectrum all right.. "I want to suck your cock but not in a gay way" |
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"I keep getting messages from so called straight males looking for sex. So I was wondering what is their definition of straight."
You can filter out men if you don't want that kind of attention.
I wouldn't pay any heed to how anybody here categorises themselves. There are lots of different reasons why and how someone labels themselves.
Some bisexual men think it puts the women folk off meeting them, and that may be the case for some but not for others. For some it's like a kink turning another straight man (or they see you haven't got men blocked and think you're like them), and others might not be men but women "under cover"  .
There's all sorts on Fab . Pick a scenario - I'm sure it exists  |
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"I keep getting messages from so called straight males looking for sex. So I was wondering what is their definition of straight."
Straight for people can be how they define themselves in everyday life . For many guys they don't consider themselves bi or gray because cock fun is nothing more than a fancy wank
They don't fancy guys , not romantically, physically or emotionally... the just like a bit of cock fun .....
Why do so many deem it necessary to label others as bi because they don't fit their idea of straight ? |
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"I keep getting messages from so called straight males looking for sex. So I was wondering what is their definition of straight.
Straight for people can be how they define themselves in everyday life . For many guys they don't consider themselves bi or gray because cock fun is nothing more than a fancy wank
They don't fancy guys , not romantically, physically or emotionally... the just like a bit of cock fun .....
Why do so many deem it necessary to label others as bi because they don't fit their idea of straight ? "
Because there are dictionary definitions for those who are new to this world?
As per Oxford dictionary:
heterosexual - a person who is sexually or romantically attracted exclusively to people of the other sex.
Straight:
INFORMAL (definition)
a heterosexual person
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"I keep getting messages from so called straight males looking for sex. So I was wondering what is their definition of straight.
Straight for people can be how they define themselves in everyday life . For many guys they don't consider themselves bi or gray because cock fun is nothing more than a fancy wank
They don't fancy guys , not romantically, physically or emotionally... the just like a bit of cock fun .....
Why do so many deem it necessary to label others as bi because they don't fit their idea of straight ? "
Sorry maybe I'm wrong but straight is straight.
If we could create a new straightish category. |
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"I've met a lot of straight women over the years on Fab who are like spaghetti straight until wet...."
Just made me realise that the saying "When in Rome" and the term "Spaghetti Straight" really go hand in hand |
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I unblocked men for a while just for the ego boost. 90% of my messages were offering quick NSA encounters with straight profiles.
So many reasons. Kink, Closet, Curious.
I turned it off after a week. Sometimes I envy men and how easy it is to score but in the end I'm not interested in transactional sex. Or men. |
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"I've met a lot of straight women over the years on Fab who are like spaghetti straight until wet...."
That's the spell you put them under.
Just like the men, you've made hard over the year's on Fab aswell.   |
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"I keep getting messages from so called straight males looking for sex. So I was wondering what is their definition of straight.
Straight for people can be how they define themselves in everyday life . For many guys they don't consider themselves bi or gray because cock fun is nothing more than a fancy wank
They don't fancy guys , not romantically, physically or emotionally... the just like a bit of cock fun .....
Why do so many deem it necessary to label others as bi because they don't fit their idea of straight ? Sorry maybe I'm wrong but straight is straight.
If we could create a new straightish category."
I would say straight is personal to each person ... thats why some think certain situations and/or acts make you bi , others don't. |
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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago
Dublin west |
I think part of the issue here is there are not enough options both in gender and orientation.
People can be Hetro flexible but maybe not fully bi dependent on the situation or the company.
Probably also need for a TS option on it's own from the TV as there are big differences there.
Everyone will see things differently so you just have to find the people you connect with best and go from there
And hey it could be worse, you could be getting no mails or offers at all. |
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"I think part of the issue here is there are not enough options both in gender and orientation.
People can be Hetro flexible but maybe not fully bi dependent on the situation or the company.
Probably also need for a TS option on it's own from the TV as there are big differences there.
Everyone will see things differently so you just have to find the people you connect with best and go from there
And hey it could be worse, you could be getting no mails or offers at all. "
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By *am74Man
over a year ago
inbetween north west ,sligo ,galway |
"I keep getting messages from so called straight males looking for sex. So I was wondering what is their definition of straight."
They are people who live in there own heads and don't act or ingage on a swinger level. |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
I have male friends from my vanilla life who would find
Being naked in a room with other men having sex
Doing DP, DVP etc
Being in close proximity to another man whilst having sex
Totally unacceptable
straight guys on fab engaging in 3sums or more (who do not engage in intentional same sex acts during group play) would be seen by those guys as ‘different’. Much closer to being bi curious than they are on the sexuality spectrum .
For some straight guys their genitals touching another man’s whilst sharing a woman is a wholly unacceptable scenario .
Much of what happens on fab requires a degree of open mindedness/flexibility that you do not find in the vanilla world |
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"I have male friends from my vanilla life who would find
Being naked in a room with other men having sex
Doing DP, DVP etc
Being in close proximity to another man whilst having sex
Totally unacceptable
straight guys on fab engaging in 3sums or more (who do not engage in intentional same sex acts during group play) would be seen by those guys as ‘different’. Much closer to being bi curious than they are on the sexuality spectrum .
For some straight guys their genitals touching another man’s whilst sharing a woman is a wholly unacceptable scenario .
Much of what happens on fab requires a degree of open mindedness/flexibility that you do not find in the vanilla world "
Your 100% right on that front. For me personally it's impossible to see how you can't be touching another guy's genital, while sharing a woman fully in the form of DP & DVP in a 3sum or the likes. I wouldn't class/call them guy's gay/bi, bi curious or anything like that. As I maybe 1 of them lucky guy's in the 3sum or the likes in the future(hopefully anyway's).
Ya, them guys would & do think that alright. I've a male friend in the vanilla world that is like that aswell. If he's in a male locker room. While he's putting on his jocks, he'd have his towel around him. He have no problem looking at other guy's without towels around them him. They're not going to see anything from him. If there's a private changing cubicle & it's free he'll be in it. He's married now at all.
Where's that would NEVER come into my head, while in the same locker room,at the same time as him, I'm not married, nor did I need to be on Fab either, to think like I said up above. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
In the true sense of the word it means they're not straight but would rather leave it so as to improve their options when it comes to trying to have sex with someone on here.
There's some great discriptions used by profiles apart from straight,bi,bi curious or gay
Het exible is my favorite but no matter what discription you use everything should be discussed first if you're meeting a couple
Some men don't seem to want to accept the truth about themselves but I don't think that will ever change |
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"In the true sense of the word it means they're not straight but would rather leave it so as to improve their options when it comes to trying to have sex with someone on here.
There's some great discriptions used by profiles apart from straight,bi,bi curious or gay
Hetexible is my favorite but no matter what discription you use everything should be discussed first if you're meeting a couple
Some men don't seem to want to accept the truth about themselves but I don't think that will ever change "
You have to remember... your truth about someone is likely not as accurate as their own truth ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I keep getting messages from so called straight males looking for sex. So I was wondering what is their definition of straight."
It's called fab straight
Sure whatever there into, not my cup of tea personally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One very clear dividing line is
Would you meet a guy on your own if you’re a guy ?
There are many guys who are bi only in the presence of a woman "
Nail on the Head there actually |
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"I have male friends from my vanilla life who would find
Being naked in a room with other men having sex
Doing DP, DVP etc
Being in close proximity to another man whilst having sex
Totally unacceptable
straight guys on fab engaging in 3sums or more (who do not engage in intentional same sex acts during group play) would be seen by those guys as ‘different’. Much closer to being bi curious than they are on the sexuality spectrum .
For some straight guys their genitals touching another man’s whilst sharing a woman is a wholly unacceptable scenario .
Much of what happens on fab requires a degree of open mindedness/flexibility that you do not find in the vanilla world "
I'll repeat the definition of straight as per Oxford dictionary:
heterosexual - a person who is sexually or romantically attracted exclusively to people of the other sex.
Straight:
INFORMAL (definition)
a heterosexual person (see above).
To me, what you're describing above sounds more like performance angst or discriminatory opinions on bisexuality/gays.
None of that has anything to do with sexuality, which is about romantic or sexual attraction.
We seem to live in an era where these defined terms are hijacked, refuted or changed and used as people see fit, to suit their own little internal lies.
Personally, I couldn't give a toss what sexuality anyone is and/or how they identify. No skin off my nose - but if you're a man and you like sucking cock or engaging sexually with another man, well then, you're definitely not straight but hey ho |
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As someone who has never at any stage in my life had sexual thoughts about another man, looked over at another man at the urinal or sized up another guy in a changing room I think it's fairly safe to say I'm not repressing any urges.
That has never stopped some people on here telling me I need to be more open to new ideas and not be so narrow minded.
I would tell them to shove their opinions up their hole but they might take that literally.
My definition of straight both on fab and off fab is me and nothing more.
What others do is none of my business but don't ever ask me to justify being straight because in doing so you're just highlighting your own narrow mindedness in telling others they have to conform to your way of thinking.
How many straight women have been pressured into playing bi for someone else's pleasure?
Those who have called that out in the forums have been lauded for standing up for their right to be straight but that doesn't stop some people from dismissing the existence of straight people.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's pretty simple,
It isn't at all simple.
Some people are attracted to femininity.
I have no attraction to heavy , plus sized ladies, many do , and good luck to them. I have no attraction to guys, many do and good luck to them. I am very attracted to smooth, feminine people, if they identify and dress female all the better, I'm more attracted to them.
I ask you guys this , straight guys. An overweight lady or a hot bodied pre-op tgirl with everything tight, and a little bit extra. ... It's an easy one for me |
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