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over a year ago
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"There in lies the problem she doesn’t want i"
Is she the same age group as you could she be starting or going through menopause etc has something changed that she's not wanted sex. Maybe it's a confidence issue lot of us women struggle with it. There are lot of reasons why women have no interest in sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's like Dear Deirdre in here lately"
The Sun newspaper, perhaps we should change the subject totally and chat about how sexy you look in your red lingerie.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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@ Rosie
5yrs younger and yes pre Perry menopause, but also the marriage is over in all but name.
But financially we can’t separate, so we’re kinda stuck with each other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"@ Rosie
5yrs younger and yes pre Perry menopause, but also the marriage is over in all but name.
But financially we can’t separate, so we’re kinda stuck with each other."
Tough situation hun for both parties not good for eithers mental health. Maybe make appointment for Gp for chat they might be able to suggest counselling etc. I've being in that situation it's not pleasant experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sexless marriage with no escape and no sex,
How do other people survive in these situations as I’m struggling.
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If you're not happy get out , or even just start the conversation.
You may be surprised at the response |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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@ Rosie,
Appreciate the advice, have done the accord n doc thing etc.
I think it’s past all that now, we’re comfortably in the we’re here for the kids zone.
And that’s just the way it is.
I’m not on here whining was just wondering how others cope n if women’s in a similar situation were interested |
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That's not good on so many fronts, for either of ye. Like Rosy said it's not good for ye, mentally or facially in general. Personally I can't see how a GD can really help ye, apart from referring ye to counselling or the likes. Like also said riding other women, could be just as bad for ye. Especially if she doesn't know anything about it. Ye're better to talk to eachother about it. That more than likely better with a counsellor. Talk to a financial adviser, to try to come up with some sort of a plan for the financial side of thing's. As you've said it yourself it's over as a marriage, apart from the financial part of thing's. People have walked away from marriages & relationships for less reasons.
Look after yourself, as your in tuff situation, on alot of fronts.  |
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"@ Rosie,
Appreciate the advice, have done the accord n doc thing etc.
I think it’s past all that now, we’re comfortably in the we’re here for the kids zone.
And that’s just the way it is.
I’m not on here whining was just wondering how others cope n if women’s in a similar situation were interested "
I don't think anybody is say that you are whining, at all. Kids are a different story. Ye mightn't be doing yereselves anygood by staying together just for the kids sake. That's up to ye afreall.
You could mess thing's up between you & the kid's by being with other women, if it gets back to them. Like I said earlier that's up to ye afterall.
Look after yourself either way. |
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"Sexless marriage with no escape and no sex,
How do other people survive in these situations as I’m struggling.
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I would wager you have a particular answer your hoping to get confirmed give your on a swinger forum asking ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The amount of guys around my age that are trapped in sexless marriages and afraid to even talk to their wives about it is scary.
They are in too deep, used as a sperm donor and now exclusively as a cash machine. One wrong move and they know they are getting taken to the cleaners.
One I know told me he kissed another woman while on business, kissed, not shagged. Then a few months later he and his wife were watching TV were the same thing happened and she said "If you even kissed another woman, I'd throw you out"
High stakes. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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If you and your wife are in amicable terms but see it equally that the marriage has run its course and you both could free each other from the sexual restraints of monogamic marriage. Like that it gives you both the freedom to have adventures. Bit of fresh air might help the situation if you can't separate from a financial point of view.   |
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"Wife has now moved out to spare room due to my snoring and sleep talking, so I kinda get where you are OP.
Also financially not possible to split  "
How does that stop you having sex though? You'll be awake for that I assume! |
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By *apri 555Man
over a year ago
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Myself and my good Lady wife were in the same situation ,together now 30 years marrage kids house all the usual things and stresses ,we were more like house mates for a good few years in a sexless marrage but always friends,,
About 2 years ago a good friends marrage broke down for the same reason. it made us sit back and take stock of our own relationship and we started talking about US,,
2 years on we are both in our late 40s but are best friends and cant get enough of each other and the sex is the best its ever been , the best thing we ever done was sitting down to have that conversation about how we both were feeling
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