"Can someone please explain to me this Findom trend I see going on? You call me names, I give you money for nothing in return and you call me a loser.. How the feck is that a thing?? "
 awww dont forget findoms can also stand on you in their stilettos for extra.... oh and for extra €€€ sell you their used panties...
Dont knock it just because its not your kink x
If a Findom is providing a good service, they will get paid for that service.... nothing to misunderstand there..... x |
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over a year ago
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I've received several requests for it here
Not for me, I don't enjoy shopping 
Each to their own, everyone has a kink. If they don't....I don't trust them |
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By *ork35Man
over a year ago
Somewhere in Cork |
It's a thing alright and depending on the kinks involved a findom either M/F can beliterally laughing all the way to the bank. A very real thing indeed. People will offer to pay for services to get their kinks and their satisfaction. What you will find in most cases, its a specific kink involved. |
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Not something I ever found appealing but Dee has dabbled in it on occasion. From what I understand it's mainly men who get turned on by a woman (and some cases a guy) milking them for their money. It's just another form of BDSM and for some a lot more appealing especially if they're not into pain etc. At the end of the day it's a kink and shouldn't be judged as its legal. |
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First came across it via Twitter.
Fascinating
When it's not something you are into then it seems bizarre but I went through a phase waaaay back of paying for video chats online (we're talking diallup days)
Looking back I think why? When I was able to get the real thing anyway...
We're all on here effectively paying for sex anyway... Different ahem strokes eh?
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"Can someone please explain to me this Findom trend I see going on? You call me names, I give you money for nothing in return and you call me a loser.. How the feck is that a thing?? "
Fuck off ya dickhead  thats 20 euro please |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
Dublin |
Now, I'm all about not kink shaming.... but every rule needs and exception and Findom is that exception. I can grasp at least logic or reasoning why someone has a certain kink but the findom thing is beyond my comprehensive on many levels. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"First I've ever heard of it to be honest x"
I hadn't heard of it either til someone mailed me here asking if I wanted to participate
Every day a school day on Fab |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
Dublin |
"First I've ever heard of it to be honest x
I hadn't heard of it either til someone mailed me here asking if I wanted to participate
Every day a school day on Fab "
Not sure what's more puzzling, the guys who do or the women who refuse to do it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"First I've ever heard of it to be honest x
I hadn't heard of it either til someone mailed me here asking if I wanted to participate
Every day a school day on Fab
Not sure what's more puzzling, the guys who do or the women who refuse to do it. "
ah sure you know me, I'm an odd one |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
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"First I've ever heard of it to be honest x
I hadn't heard of it either til someone mailed me here asking if I wanted to participate
Every day a school day on Fab
Not sure what's more puzzling, the guys who do or the women who refuse to do it. ah sure you know me, I'm an odd one "
This forum needs a zipper mouth smiley. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"I'm a dopey fuck lol what's Findom?"
Financial domination (also known as findom) is a fetish lifestyle activity in which a submissive is required to give gifts or money to a dominant. It is usually associated with female domination |
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"I'm a dopey fuck lol what's Findom?
Financial domination (also known as findom) is a fetish lifestyle activity in which a submissive is required to give gifts or money to a dominant. It is usually associated with female domination"
Cheers Bog .. I'm not one thank god,I'm just boring auld lou |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"I'm a dopey fuck lol what's Findom?
Financial domination (also known as findom) is a fetish lifestyle activity in which a submissive is required to give gifts or money to a dominant. It is usually associated with female domination
Cheers Bog .. I'm not one thank god,I'm just boring auld lou "
If there's one thing you're not is boring... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a dopey fuck lol what's Findom?
Financial domination (also known as findom) is a fetish lifestyle activity in which a submissive is required to give gifts or money to a dominant. It is usually associated with female domination
Cheers Bog .. I'm not one thank god,I'm just boring auld lou
If there's one thing you're not is boring..."
You said, maybe, on another thread,hes looking forward getting a size 5 in the balls ..  |
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It’s something certain girls get very rich from
It’s about making men that like to submit show they are below you and see you as a goddess by sending money sometimes leaving themselves broke, for some it’s a every few weeks or months thing others it becomes a serious addiction almost like gambling. For the sub or the male what they get out of it is a personal connection with a hot 18-25 year old and chats and knowing about her personal life etc while funding her life sometimes small sends of tenner twenty quid.. others are richer and have more income and they send hundreds at a time .. Twit/ter is where findom thrives tbh it is easy to find and yeah for the goddesses or mistresses that get money for simply existing or for feet pics they can get a lot of money. Wishtender is a site made to gift girls in this scene some girls get 10,000-40,000 pound gifts in one go from a random whale sub (whale sun is a millionaire sub)
Some don’t understand it at all , but it goes more than insults and give me money it can be a relationship built between sun and domme and they know it involved no meets or sex it’s simply online financial domination and it is not for everyone. It’s not as niche as you’d think though… |
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It's essentially the same thing as guys who go to a dominatrix. Dommes don't typically have sex with you either.
It's simply a new form that makes domming more accessible though technology. For women it's enticing to try and get "easy money" without needing a full dungeon and props.
Tonnes of girls will post in the hashtags seeing if anyone will offer them something. Only a handful will make decent money from it.
From what I've seen most of the guys are just as much trying to entice women into getting on camera or meeting, so it ends up looking like typical sex work.
The gift part isn't even that kinky. Plenty of guys enjoy flashing cash and buying gifts to impress a woman. They take pride in knowing they can buy something she can't afford on her own. |
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Thing that annoys me about it is every second young one says there a findom. Not my kink and understand some are into it. But I'd rather see the actual Domme's into it and not every second young one on tinder and fet looking for easy money. To me that's a quick way to kill any fetish for someone. Where as a legit domme knows how to have fun with it. But again not my kink so maybe that's the thrill of it, some young one spending your money. College student so can't afford a marsbar let alone a findom hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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I’ve been offered this set up by a few PayPigs on other kink sites on multiple occasions. I’m sub not D, so it’s not my kink, but I completely get it. To give up control of anything is so very liberating, especially if you are used to being in control of your own life. As the saying goes, don’t yuck someone else’s yum lol! Milly x |
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