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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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was just reading another thread about this and curious to know what u all think,well this girl was saying she met a guy and he said he didnt want to kiss her just have sex,she still had sex with him tho,i thought she was mad!if i met a guy and he didnt want to kiss me theres no way id shag him,wud tell him to get lost,its an insult i think!what wud use do? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dude prob thought it was too imtimate for nsa. Some consider kissing too emotional involved. Never understand it meself but hey whatever floats your boats |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I think kissing is important because it adds to the eroticism and as such it can be a big turn on - I haven't that well but I'm sure you'll know what I mean.
While we're on the subject about no kissing. I once had a one night stand with a lady who wanted a rebound shag. Thing was though, she didn't want us to kiss cos it was 'too intimate'. but get this, she said we didn't need use a condom cos she was on the pill!!!!! Needless to say we tried to have safe sex without kissing. In the end I gave up cos I couldn't get into it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would tell him where to go and how to get there if he won't kiss me , than he certainly would not have sex with me..... Wtf I am good enough to shag not kiss.. Although some people thinks its intimate to kiss maybe thinks (if playing away from home ) I can shag but not kiss that ok... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would tell him where to go and how to get there if he won't kiss me , than he certainly would not have sex with me..... Wtf I am good enough to shag not kiss.. Although some people thinks its intimate to kiss maybe thinks (if playing away from home ) I can shag but not kiss that ok... "
yea thts what i wud do but this girl met him and she kept forgetting and went to kiss him and he kept turning away,was in the english threads last wk |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would tell him where to go and how to get there if he won't kiss me , than he certainly would not have sex with me..... Wtf I am good enough to shag not kiss.. Although some people thinks its intimate to kiss maybe thinks (if playing away from home ) I can shag but not kiss that ok... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ohhhh lord silly girl that would turn me right off... So basically she was like a slot machine he put it in for his own benefit not considering wat she might want . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ohhhh lord silly girl that would turn me right off... So basically she was like a slot machine he put it in for his own benefit not considering wat she might want . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its different strokes for diffent folks. My first time swinging was in englang. The girl would not kiss either. She said kissing was only for her and her partner. Maybe he had the same rule. I know another time we could not do doggie cos of the same reason. I guess so people want to keep certain things off limits. I like a good kiss do. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Have seen this in some cpls profiles (yes some of us read profiles) as its an intimate thing between them not to be shared. Can't see the point in not kissing their willing to share everything else and sometimes a well place well timed kiss that can send U over the edge  or heightene ur pleasure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most couples would have that written on their profile if they don't like kissing during play. That's grand cause then it's a choice you make if you'd like to go ahead and meet them or not. It would put me off to be honest.
I'm into the kissing and would be out the door if a guy said we're not kissing but here have a suck on that! 
It just makes no sense to me, a bit strange too coming from a 'single' guy, but each to their own I suppose. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm into the kissing and would be out the door if a guy said we're not kissing but here have a suck on that! "
I sniggered at this. Pure charming loike! |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"maybe the guy was cheating on his wife n didnt want any marks..ie hickies/lovebites/bruises love bites thought that was a teensger thing Hate them  "
Aww U gota have a little nibble now and again not the kind that leaves a mark of course looks disgusting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First of all safe sex is a must. It is very important..Kissing is a choice for us all..me, i don,t kiss, (Pretty Woman)
great film..I,m up front with any gent i may meet with the do's and don;t of a meet..Works both ways of course.. Have fun..safely!!x |
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"I still don't understand how kissing is more personal then having someones cock inside you or performing oral sex."
For some people it seems to be, don't understand it either. Kissing is very important |
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Ha love that comment LadyKink! say it how it is. Personally I can understand why some people don't want to either because of what they might catch or perhaps the person just didn't know of mouthwash, toothpaste or floss lol!. To be honest sounds like visiting a prostitute or a plank of wood as think the whole passion of sex only really works with kissing as otherwise seems a bit cold but hey different strokes for different folks. Kissing is like foreplay needed to enhance the situation unless your into kinky domination etc n then Ladykink we are probably both wrong!.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think thats wild you need to kiss to have fun well for me personaly i love to kiss while getting naughty plus thats how i would start it of that guy shes talkin abt needs slappd |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just don't understand that.... Why bother, you may as well have a wank. Kissing is all part of the turn on and with out it would be very cold. I would not be interested in meeting a woman if she said kissing was off the list |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Met a nice couple last year n we didn't kiss each others men as it was their rule they only kiss each other mind u if it was just me n a male I'm sorry but kissing is a must for us its what gets thw juices flowing |
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By *itan79Man
over a year ago
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Kissings a must do for me then again I'm a tatile person like that, I can only imagine he didnt want to be kissing you then going home to his other half afterwards (I dont know the op so not making any personal judgements) Some people try and compartmentalize certain elements of intimacy to make it easier to 'swallow' the fact they are being dishonest to theyre partners. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've only ever had sex with one lady that didn't kiss, but I should add some context to qualify this.
I had arranged to meet a couple who desired to spice things up a bit with a little role play scenario. The lady had a fantasy of meeting a guy and being treated like a high-class hooker. So we met for a very brief drink in the hotel bar, decided that all parties were "good to go" and headed up for the room. Hubby let the two of us go up first to "get acquainted" so in the lift I moved across the elevator to kiss her. As I nuzzled in to kiss her she put her finger on my lips, shook her head and whispered "I'm a prostitute.. I only ever kiss my man". I have to say it was the most erotic knock-back I ever had! But I got it, it was totally in keeping with her fantasy so I played along. Throughout the night I kept forgetting not to kiss but she just laughed it off.
I have to say that looking back now, handing her money at the end of the night could have gone horribly wrong... But she really hadn't expected it and luckily was totally thrilled by the act of me "paying" her, which she said completed her fantasy brilliantly.
Ordinarily I absolutely adore kissing and it seems all the more erotic to kiss in the lift on the way up to the room. I'm not sure if it's the thrill of getting caught, the anticipation of what's to come, or what it is. But it certainly gets my blood pumping and I can't imagine meeting someone who refused to kiss, it just wouldn't work for me. |
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