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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have any married couples invited males to join then regularly as part of their sexual relationship?"
I'm a single Male who is a part of a married couple's sexual relationship.
We meet up every 2 weeks in their place for some adult fun.
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"Have any married couples invited males to join then regularly as part of their sexual relationship?
I'm a single Male who is a part of a married couple's sexual relationship.
We meet up every 2 weeks in their place for some adult fun.
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I'm single male who's......
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It’s why we are here, but fairly hard to find.
We have friends that have last weeks and some month (one even on and off for 2 years). It’s great when it works but find the right guy (who we are the right couple for), a lad that is really single, having him close enough so that it can be weekly or fortnightly, and who is comfortable being filmed (crucial for us) all takes time. |
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We are finding it hard as well. it's not the guys fault but it is a tricky thing to find the right guy for us. Found a guy but he started a relationship so we stopped. We are not here to enable guys to cheat. We would like a nice guy for long term arrangement |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are finding it hard as well. it's not the guys fault but it is a tricky thing to find the right guy for us. Found a guy but he started a relationship so we stopped. We are not here to enable guys to cheat. We would like a nice guy for long term arrangement"
It's bound to be tricky tbh. A lot of factors playing into it |
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"I have been seeing a couple on a regular basis for years.Works for all of us as they come to mine because of young kids. Other fab friends have a lady join them most of the time as well."
Maybe the kids are yours :-0 |
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By *nickers pants guyMan
over a year ago
Cork killkenny laois Limerick Offaly kildare carlow Dublin Waterford and everywhere else |
It's very rare to find a guy to match with a couple for long term commitment and also that couple being a match for that guy also.
Fair play to those the do match and make it work. |
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Love playing with the right relaxed naughty couple.
Personally I think ye all know from the coffee meet if will work or not.
The tension and hornyness that comes from that group chat in the buildup can be so hot and distracting.
In my esperance if it is all about the ladys plesure the rest falls into place. |
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"I have been seeing a couple on a regular basis for years.Works for all of us as they come to mine because of young kids. Other fab friends have a lady join them most of the time as well.
Maybe the kids are yours :-0"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't call it regular as we meet others very infrequently but there's certainly a couple or three guys we've met several times as the dynamics are just right for all of us |
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I’ve been playing with a married couple for about 10 years. Meet at theirs as their kids now adults and moved out. I sometimes meet mrs alone and send himself videos and pictures. Meet about every 2-3 months and it’s just got better for everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been seeing a cpl. for over 2yrs now maybe once every two months or so and we all get on great, love seeing the way she explodes in delight n always finishes of with the words..My Men |
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"Love playing with the right relaxed naughty couple.
Personally I think ye all know from the coffee meet if will work or not.
The tension and hornyness that comes from that group chat in the buildup can be so hot and distracting.
In my esperance if it is all about the ladys plesure the rest falls into place."
Mrs has been meeting swingme for what...8 years maybe? It works brilliantly for all of us. It's about being mature that sometimes it's regular, sometimes less so. But also I think the guy has to have enough relationship experience himself to understand the dynamic that works for everyone, it's only got better over time for us.... We meet as a threesome for sexy forfeit games, or just for sex, and she meets him herself for overnights and sometimes share pics/vids etc. Just is so stress free and works really well.
But I guess it's about finding that man or that couple that you have a dynamic with that it works over a longer period. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I can understand that it might be difficult, especially when feelings develop. I know they might not, but familiarity gives breathe to a comfort, that can allow feelings. They might be "love", "jealousy", "anger". It's quite interesting to think about bringing a new relationship into a dynamic like this, its difficult enough to bring up sharing sometimes, but that you are already involved in someone else's relationship, that would be a conversation and a half.
Good luck to anyone who could do it, I'm the opposite, I'd rather meet as many fun safe people as possible and rife off intl the sunset on my own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think sex and feelings can be separate. Lust and love are different
Absolutely, sex is animalistic, love is a chemical reaction in the Brain "
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I've been chatting with a few different couples since I joined and have found things move a little slower than with singles but very positive from the ones that got in touch.
It makes sense. There's more personalities and a more complex dynamic. |
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I used to meet with a married couple for fun, once every month or two. It was all very relaxed and enjoyable for all involved. They took pictures the odd time and all.
The familiarity with each other helped make the sex better but how rare it happened and the scenarios they would think up kept it spicy. |
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We both have free passes. But its usually only used on holiday in Spain. Sasha has a handsome friend who lived over there who we both play with most times we see him, either mfm or mf. Sometimes he visits us here too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d like to chat to any couples looking a make to join them on a regular basis. County Down seems to be pretty limited but the Greater Belfast area could work as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d like to chat to any couples looking a make to join them on a regular basis. County Down seems to be pretty limited but the Greater Belfast area could work as well. "
Looking to meet a male….. |
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By *oodieMan
over a year ago
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"Have any married couples invited males to join then regularly as part of their sexual relationship?
I'm a single Male who is a part of a married couple's sexual relationship.
We meet up every 2 weeks in their place for some adult fun.
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You’re living the dream, enjoy it everyone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been invited by 2 different couples in the past, outside of fab, to join them in different roles.
Can imagine its hard and a certain level of caution to find the right person, especially guy, to add to that dynamic, but certainly worth it in my experience.
I've also been part of a couple who invited a guy to join us, unfortuantly no show on the night, but it defo happens |
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By *are04Man
over a year ago
Letterkenny |
My beautiful wife and me had a guy who joined us regularly for approximately 18 months. Best time of our lives. Unfortunately he moved away and, it was so good we’re afraid to even try to recreate it. |
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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago
Tralee |
"Have any married couples invited males to join then regularly as part of their sexual relationship?
Tried twice and they both backed away before it began. Both French guys too weirdly enough "
Can't believe they walked away. Must be nuts  |
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By *panishRebelMan
over a year ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
"Have any married couples invited males to join then regularly as part of their sexual relationship?
Tried twice and they both backed away before it began. Both French guys too weirdly enough "
They must have been mad! |
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A recent shift in the force has me looking more toward couples than singles at the moment. Interesting reading some of the comments above though. Isn't it ironic that what y o u want is always hard to find ?
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Totally what we are still looking and yes difficult to find guys that suit what we want and they want from the regular. Getting past the fake single guys is very testing lol
So much easier before lockdown. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never was with another couple but tension on first meet must be kind of heavy. I prefer often 2 meet on first tension just go down and second must be better and if there is spark and connection we can have another one but with no push.so couples if you up for fun with funny man you know what to do  |
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I am interested to chatting to a couple about this who are in or around Galway.
I prefer to have a regular on a singles basis and it would be the same for a couple.
I tend not to send a lot of initial messages as it's like trying to swim through a sea of rabid penis's so please feel free to get in touch if you feel kind there's any potential. |
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By *ev2762Man
over a year ago
Dublin |
I am single after a good long relationship and now willing to explore more into couple or in regular meetings situations. I’ve been in few parties where the experience was amazing meeting with lovely couples and enjoying so much fun. I would love to have a regular couple meet too. Happy to chat if any couple interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are a married couple my wife is bisexual so am I we are primarily looking to explore or bisexuality eg my wife with girls me and men but everything goes we just won’t meet straight guys or girls as we both play or no one dose seems fair |
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By *ev2762Man
over a year ago
Dublin |
"think husband watching puts guys off"
I’ve also attended a meet event and i didn’t bother me too as the wife was having great time and enjoying a nice time. Also was nice to meet and greet with bit of chat drinks get know each other which was good. Most important is you know with whom wife feel fine to enjoy with |
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Great question i must say OP. as a single guy i have not wanted a relationship with single women as some of them can be so demanding of my time.
Hence why i have been looking for a couple that we can have the best of both worlds so to speak. It has to be mutual of course and bounderies have to be arranged but in my opinion respect and being discreet has to be a priority
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"Have any married couples invited males to join then regularly as part of their sexual relationship?"
No but Mr has a wealth of experience from before we were a couple |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"Have any married couples invited males to join then regularly as part of their sexual relationship?"
We had male fwb in our country. In Ireland lads looking for a fuck only. |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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I've had the pleasure of playing with 3 couples over the years, and each was a brilliant experience. I'd love another opportunity, if there's a couple looking...xx |
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"We are finding it hard as well. it's not the guys fault but it is a tricky thing to find the right guy for us. Found a guy but he started a relationship so we stopped. We are not here to enable guys to cheat. We would like a nice guy for long term arrangement"
May potentially be the “unable to accommodate” if you’re relying on the guy joining to always be able to as this restricts your pool of men. Just a thought |
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I've been seeing a couple for the best of 10 years I'd say and it's working well for all. They not even on here. Ours works well and we all enjoy our sessions. Also every meet is as horny/sexsual as it was when we first met. |
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