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"Perhaps they thought you were messing them about. Perhaps your new time frame didn't suit them. Who knows. There's no point dwelling on it" Not dwelling just don’t get it , was 1 min away and told them so , they were free all morning , people just waist time | |||
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"Perhaps they thought you were messing them about. Perhaps your new time frame didn't suit them. Who knows. There's no point dwelling on it Not dwelling just don’t get it , was 1 min away and told them so , they were free all morning , people just waist time " Quite possibly just a wind-up from the get-go, it's how some get their kicks apparently | |||
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"Perhaps they thought you were messing them about. Perhaps your new time frame didn't suit them. Who knows. There's no point dwelling on it Not dwelling just don’t get it , was 1 min away and told them so , they were free all morning , people just waist time Quite possibly just a wind-up from the get-go, it's how some get their kicks apparently " Maybe so , but ur right dodged a bullet | |||
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When thing's like this happens. Can a person/couple to a name & shame on here or is that breaking the rules, by doing so, does anybody know? | |||
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"Sadly it seem's to be a VERY COMMON thing to happen on here. It's cause of thing's like this happening, people get drowned off, leave fab, maybe even tell other's to keep away from here. Them type of people aren't wanted or needed on here. Ya, it's looking like you dogged a bullet. Try to enjoy the rest of your day & weekend.
When thing's like this happens. Can a person/couple to a name & shame on here or is that breaking the rules, by doing so, does anybody know?"Definitely against the rules and you'll get a ban if you name and shame | |||
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"Sadly it seem's to be a VERY COMMON thing to happen on here. It's cause of thing's like this happening, people get drowned off, leave fab, maybe even tell other's to keep away from here. Them type of people aren't wanted or needed on here. Ya, it's looking like you dogged a bullet. Try to enjoy the rest of your day & weekend.
When thing's like this happens. Can a person/couple to a name & shame on here or is that breaking the rules, by doing so, does anybody know?
Definitely against the rules and you'll get a ban if you name and shame "Lots of people name and shame on their status and I don't think they are reprimanded over it | |||
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"Bans happen regularly for naming and shaming. They do enforce it." On forums yes but not so sure on a status | |||
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"Sadly it seem's to be a VERY COMMON thing to happen on here. It's cause of thing's like this happening, people get drowned off, leave fab, maybe even tell other's to keep away from here. Them type of people aren't wanted or needed on here. Ya, it's looking like you dogged a bullet. Try to enjoy the rest of your day & weekend.
When thing's like this happens. Can a person/couple to a name & shame on here or is that breaking the rules, by doing so, does anybody know?
Definitely against the rules and you'll get a ban if you name and shame
Lots of people name and shame on their status and I don't think they are reprimanded over it "The status gets deleted for it | |||
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"Bans happen regularly for naming and shaming. They do enforce it. On forums yes but not so sure on a status " They don't automatically scan status updates for naming and shaming (not sure how they could?), but if they are reported then the will usually take account. | |||
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"Bans happen regularly for naming and shaming. They do enforce it. On forums yes but not so sure on a status " People have been banned for life off the forums for that | |||
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"How late were you?" 10 mins but told them I wud be | |||
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"Sadly it seem's to be a VERY COMMON thing to happen on here. It's cause of thing's like this happening, people get drowned off, leave fab, maybe even tell other's to keep away from here. Them type of people aren't wanted or needed on here. Ya, it's looking like you dogged a bullet. Try to enjoy the rest of your day & weekend.
When thing's like this happens. Can a person/couple to a name & shame on here or is that breaking the rules, by doing so, does anybody know?
Definitely against the rules and you'll get a ban if you name and shame
Lots of people name and shame on their status and I don't think they are reprimanded over it "Ya, I've seem people, name & shame others in there status, a few times. Whether the status person was reprimanded, I don't know. I'm not saying that people should go & do it. I was just asking, that's all. It would help to get reed of some of the time wasters on here or else report them It's more of an idea than an actual suggestion, is all really. | |||
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"Sadly it seem's to be a VERY COMMON thing to happen on here. It's cause of thing's like this happening, people get drowned off, leave fab, maybe even tell other's to keep away from here. Them type of people aren't wanted or needed on here. Ya, it's looking like you dogged a bullet. Try to enjoy the rest of your day & weekend.
When thing's like this happens. Can a person/couple to a name & shame on here or is that breaking the rules, by doing so, does anybody know?"Weekend. It ruined lol so over it I wudnt name and Shame , don’t care enough | |||
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"Sounds like the plan all along to be honest " Agreed Bog man | |||
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"Sadly it seem's to be a VERY COMMON thing to happen on here. It's cause of thing's like this happening, people get drowned off, leave fab, maybe even tell other's to keep away from here. Them type of people aren't wanted or needed on here. Ya, it's looking like you dogged a bullet. Try to enjoy the rest of your day & weekend.
When thing's like this happens. Can a person/couple to a name & shame on here or is that breaking the rules, by doing so, does anybody know?
Weekend. It ruined lol so over it
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"Bans happen regularly for naming and shaming. They do enforce it. On forums yes but not so sure on a status They don't automatically scan status updates for naming and shaming (not sure how they could?), but if they are reported then the will usually take account." Yup but the same on the forums. I doubt mods see half the stuff unless it's been reported. | |||
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"How late were you? 10 mins but told them I wud be " Ahh yeah they are definitely fucking you about then. Not fair on you at all | |||
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"Bans happen regularly for naming and shaming. They do enforce it. On forums yes but not so sure on a status They don't automatically scan status updates for naming and shaming (not sure how they could?), but if they are reported then the will usually take account. Yup but the same on the forums. I doubt mods see half the stuff unless it's been reported. " That's it. Mods are volunteers so they can't check all content. They rely on community reports a lot. Can't complain as it's a free / very cheap site. | |||
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"Bans happen regularly for naming and shaming. They do enforce it. On forums yes but not so sure on a status They don't automatically scan status updates for naming and shaming (not sure how they could?), but if they are reported then the will usually take account. Yup but the same on the forums. I doubt mods see half the stuff unless it's been reported. That's it. Mods are volunteers so they can't check all content. They rely on community reports a lot. Can't complain as it's a free / very cheap site." | |||
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" No to all the above they were free all day Advised I was 5 mins away then 1 min , then blocked " Sounds like they where playing games, id say they would have been a no show when it came down to it ! | |||
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"Well yet again I’m baffled by people of fab , thought I was gonna have some “kinkyfun” today was running late for a meet and told them so , their reply … Block Just don’t get it. "Maybe they just found that being late was unacceptable! | |||
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"Now I'm not saying that 10 mins is a big deal to me or you op... however to some it is and if they havnt had much luck with meets here ... then late may be a red flag !" Who are you ? The late inspector ? I told them I was running late , then told them I was 5 mins away , didn’t just show up late they were informed , soe if they block that’s they’re issues and they’re the arseholes not me | |||
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"Now I'm not saying that 10 mins is a big deal to me or you op... however to some it is and if they havnt had much luck with meets here ... then late may be a red flag ! Who are you ? The late inspector ? I told them I was running late , then told them I was 5 mins away , didn’t just show up late they were informed , soe if they block that’s they’re issues and they’re the arseholes not me " If you messaged me and said you were going to be 10 mins late .. then had to message 2 more times I might think this person isn't serious... that dosnt make me an arsehole ... just not a mind reader
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"Now I'm not saying that 10 mins is a big deal to me or you op... however to some it is and if they havnt had much luck with meets here ... then late may be a red flag ! Who are you ? The late inspector ? I told them I was running late , then told them I was 5 mins away , didn’t just show up late they were informed , soe if they block that’s they’re issues and they’re the arseholes not me " Tbf look at it from their perspective we've had that happen before and the "late" person never showed. Most likely thought were acting the bollix and moved on | |||
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"Now I'm not saying that 10 mins is a big deal to me or you op... however to some it is and if they havnt had much luck with meets here ... then late may be a red flag ! Who are you ? The late inspector ? I told them I was running late , then told them I was 5 mins away , didn’t just show up late they were informed , soe if they block that’s they’re issues and they’re the arseholes not me If you messaged me and said you were going to be 10 mins late .. then had to message 2 more times I might think this person isn't serious... that dosnt make me an arsehole ... just not a mind reader
Also just be on time and no one gets put out "Ok you’re clearly not understanding the texts , so stop commenting | |||
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"Now I'm not saying that 10 mins is a big deal to me or you op... however to some it is and if they havnt had much luck with meets here ... then late may be a red flag ! Who are you ? The late inspector ? I told them I was running late , then told them I was 5 mins away , didn’t just show up late they were informed , soe if they block that’s they’re issues and they’re the arseholes not me Tbf look at it from their perspective we've had that happen before and the "late" person never showed. Most likely thought were acting the bollix and moved on" I told them I wud be late and then told them new time , had t reached that time yet and I told them how close I was and for blocked so they’re the issue | |||
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"Now I'm not saying that 10 mins is a big deal to me or you op... however to some it is and if they havnt had much luck with meets here ... then late may be a red flag ! Who are you ? The late inspector ? I told them I was running late , then told them I was 5 mins away , didn’t just show up late they were informed , soe if they block that’s they’re issues and they’re the arseholes not me If you messaged me and said you were going to be 10 mins late .. then had to message 2 more times I might think this person isn't serious... that dosnt make me an arsehole ... just not a mind reader
Also just be on time and no one gets put out
Ok you’re clearly not understanding the texts , so stop commenting "Joe ... how about you COOL down  | |||
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"Now I'm not saying that 10 mins is a big deal to me or you op... however to some it is and if they havnt had much luck with meets here ... then late may be a red flag ! Who are you ? The late inspector ? I told them I was running late , then told them I was 5 mins away , didn’t just show up late they were informed , soe if they block that’s they’re issues and they’re the arseholes not me If you messaged me and said you were going to be 10 mins late .. then had to message 2 more times I might think this person isn't serious... that dosnt make me an arsehole ... just not a mind reader
Also just be on time and no one gets put out
Ok you’re clearly not understanding the texts , so stop commenting
Joe ... how about you COOL down " | |||
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"Actually happened to me Friday was due to meet someone at 3pm.. Last contact between each other was 2:30, arrived at destination checked phone at 2:55 to find the user had removed themselves from the site, this was a dating site no less so plenty of messers out there " Yes , and all you did was show up | |||
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