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over a year ago
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I am curious to see how many swingers cross over into the kink world too.
I would love to hear if you introduce swingers to kink, or brought a kinkster into swinging.
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I used to love introducing people to it but tbh got sick of being seen as a kink dispenser rather than a person so if kink does come into it there's a mutual side to it not fulfilling their needs and not mine |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I used to love introducing people to it but tbh got sick of being seen as a kink dispenser rather than a person so if kink does come into it there's a mutual side to it not fulfilling their needs and not mine "
Yeah I can relate, I've found this with alot of people too.
Having strong boundaries has helped me. Anyone crosses them and it's goodbye.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have always wanted to explore the kink scene but it's very hard as a single man ."
In what way is it hard?
There are alot of munches, socials and events run around the country that you could attend, if you wanted to meet people with similar interests  |
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We love incorporating kink into everything we do that is fab related.
It is time for both communities to unite.
There is an infinite amount of kinks out there - wouldn't it be lovely if swingers and kinksters would come together, discover and celebrate each other |
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"Have always wanted to explore the kink scene but it's very hard as a single man .
In what way is it hard?
There are alot of munches, socials and events run around the country that you could attend, if you wanted to meet people with similar interests "
I love when people make that excuse. There is more kink events and munches regularly in Ireland then there are swing events. |
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over a year ago
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"We love incorporating kink into everything we do that is fab related.
It is time for both communities to unite.
There is an infinite amount of kinks out there - wouldn't it be lovely if swingers and kinksters would come together, discover and celebrate each other "
Yes! I agree. I have been to a couple of events down south (Dublin & Cork) with a mix of kink/swing. But would love to see more
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"We love incorporating kink into everything we do that is fab related.
It is time for both communities to unite.
There is an infinite amount of kinks out there - wouldn't it be lovely if swingers and kinksters would come together, discover and celebrate each other
Yes! I agree. I have been to a couple of events down south (Dublin & Cork) with a mix of kink/swing. But would love to see more
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You should come along to our freak show event - it will be one of our kinkiest events to date - lots of bondage and bdsm details planned |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A good friend of our via fab introduced us to kink and we are starting to explore ropes, bamboo etc. …. Love it "
Oh that exciting!
I'm curious to try rope myself |
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"Have always wanted to explore the kink scene but it's very hard as a single man .
In what way is it hard?
There are alot of munches, socials and events run around the country that you could attend, if you wanted to meet people with similar interests
I love when people make that excuse. There is more kink events and munches regularly in Ireland then there are swing events. "
Could possibly be he just doesnt know where to look. I'm unsure if they're advertised on fab.
Fet is where I find out about those kind of events.
But If people arnt willing to make an effort and put themselves out there, kink won't find them |
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"Have always wanted to explore the kink scene but it's very hard as a single man .
In what way is it hard?
There are alot of munches, socials and events run around the country that you could attend, if you wanted to meet people with similar interests
I love when people make that excuse. There is more kink events and munches regularly in Ireland then there are swing events.
Could possibly be he just doesnt know where to look. I'm unsure if they're advertised on fab.
Fet is where I find out about those kind of events.
But If people arnt willing to make an effort and put themselves out there, kink won't find them "
Exactly our thinking |
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"We love incorporating kink into everything we do that is fab related.
It is time for both communities to unite.
There is an infinite amount of kinks out there - wouldn't it be lovely if swingers and kinksters would come together, discover and celebrate each other
Yes! I agree. I have been to a couple of events down south (Dublin & Cork) with a mix of kink/swing. But would love to see more
You should come along to our freak show event - it will be one of our kinkiest events to date - lots of bondage and bdsm details planned "
Oh thank you so much for the invite!
I'd love to go if the dates suit with work x |
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"Have always wanted to explore the kink scene but it's very hard as a single man .
In what way is it hard?
There are alot of munches, socials and events run around the country that you could attend, if you wanted to meet people with similar interests "
Single guys are always viewed with a bit of distrust. Will have to keep an out for a kink social. My work takes me all over the country and not always sure where I will be from 1 week to the next.  |
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"Have always wanted to explore the kink scene but it's very hard as a single man .
In what way is it hard?
There are alot of munches, socials and events run around the country that you could attend, if you wanted to meet people with similar interests
Single guys are always viewed with a bit of distrust. Will have to keep an out for a kink social. My work takes me all over the country and not always sure where I will be from 1 week to the next. "
Any single guy who we know in the fetish scene is welcomed. As long you behave and don't be a complete tosser there's no reason to be distrusted |
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Couldn't agree more that the kink community is very welcoming. Definitely try attending a local munch to get some initial exposure, get to know people and learn about events. |
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Yes there are cross over events in fab fet world monthly held here in Dublin. Been part of both over 20 odd years fantastic way for both worlds to come together and meet like minded. Next one is posted on forums. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes there are cross over events in fab fet world monthly held here in Dublin. Been part of both over 20 odd years fantastic way for both worlds to come together and meet like minded. Next one is posted on forums."
Ah brilliant! Always so lovely to see you xena xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I always ask that question
..what is kink even? we see that in so many different ways."
To me kink=/=sex
That question could be answered in a million ways...
Anything unusual that turns you on perhaps? |
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"I always ask that question
..what is kink even? we see that in so many different ways.
To me kink=/=sex
That question could be answered in a million ways...
Anything unusual that turns you on perhaps? "
Some people say they are kinky...you suggest something and they look at you with big eyes and thinking you're not right in head but I like it.lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I always ask that question
..what is kink even? we see that in so many different ways.
To me kink=/=sex
That question could be answered in a million ways...
Anything unusual that turns you on perhaps?
Some people say they are kinky...you suggest something and they look at you with big eyes and thinking you're not right in head but I like it.lol"
Oh this hahahaha...yes!
Relatable
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"I always ask that question
..what is kink even? we see that in so many different ways.
To me kink=/=sex
That question could be answered in a million ways...
Anything unusual that turns you on perhaps?
Some people say they are kinky...you suggest something and they look at you with big eyes and thinking you're not right in head but I like it.lol
Oh this hahahaha...yes!
Relatable
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That's why it's interesting to see what others think its kinky... |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
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"I always ask that question
..what is kink even? we see that in so many different ways.
To me kink=/=sex
That question could be answered in a million ways...
Anything unusual that turns you on perhaps?
Some people say they are kinky...you suggest something and they look at you with big eyes and thinking you're not right in head but I like it.lol
Oh this hahahaha...yes!
Relatable
That's why it's interesting to see what others think its kinky... "
Ah I remember the days when anal was what everyone vanilla meant when they said Kinky. Further back it meant oral.
Go even further back and there was no kink because the fecking Catholic Church hadn't gotten involved and everything was up for pleasure, regardless what it was!  |
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