So guys and gals single guy here with a fwb who can be quite shy and reserved.whats the best way of bringing up the swinging conversation or 3sum topic?
At times in mid flow sex it's been mentioned but nothing follows on from it.dont want scaring her off by bring to heavy with it all.
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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Id bring it up before any sexual activity to get her reaction
Maybe bring up the subject of fantasies ...see what hers are...maybe she's interested too
You don't need to create a couples account at the moment and if she's into it then you could mention fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely don't do what my mate did. His gf said she would be interested in a 3sum so he asked a girl that he had a fair idea was into him. Can you imagine the scene when he brought her home?? They were all hammered, he figured that was his opportunity and the two girls battered each other in his sitting room.
So ya there's definitely a subtle way about it |
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Communication is key guys think organising a 3some is easy it's just a matter of getting 2gorls and away you go it's not you need to make sure that the 2women get on and that you are all on the same page you need to pay down boundaries all parties need to talk about what they like and don't like what they are and are not prepared to do and most importantly have a code word that any of them can use if they are feeling uncomfortable so as I said at the start it's all about communication and talking and listening |
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